I have been seeing providers for a couple yrs and watching the TER site for a year or so. My question is how comfortable are you guys with incalls? I have only done outcalls in the past and only to hotels but am thinkig incall would save me some money. I only see girls with at least 8-10 reviews and check to see that the guy has more then a few reviews, but I still get cold feet if I try and set up an incall with a new girl.
    Just wanted to know your thoughts.
      Also thank you for the responses.

I don't like the feeling of hotels, even if it's a nice one.
Just make sure her reviews are good and you trust the reviewers.
I would never see a random new provider.

Have had good luck with in calls with traveling ladies, but much prefer out calls with locals.

nothing like  a busy upscale business hotel. You blend right in with all the activity, just don't spend a lot of time in the lobby even if it's busy. Also those large apartment complexes where no one knows there neighbors and people are moving in and out all the time work for me as well. However, sometimes finding the dam apartment can be a problem.  What I don't like are private homes. Nosey neighbors can be an issue.  Also low end motels with catwalks and doors that open to the outside are favs of LE.

When a girl comes to your residence, you always run the risk of something going wrong, and she having information about where you live and information about yourself.

To me, that's generally unnecessary risk, and I will insist on seeing a girl at her place first unless I have gotten some assurance that she is safe.

Too much downside risk for me, honestly.

At least an incall obviates the cost of a hotel room.

I prefer outcall, however, I would never have anyone come to my house. I'm single and not dating so it's not a SO that I have to worry about. But, I'm not too comfortable with having someone at my home. The cost of a hotel room (typically $130-$150) in my home town is insignificant to me. I see providers that are touring in my home town but they all stay at upper end hotels. I'm very hesitant to see a provider at a low end hotel because I'm aware LE likes to use them and the quality of providers that use them is typically not what I'm interested in.

incalls are the way to go..most of the ladies prefer certain 4 star hotels in a certain area..i have been to these hotels so many times now i feel completely at ease..i actually look forward to it..when the valet and bartender recognize you..you know you belong..

Why pay for a hotel?  And if you're having girls to your place of residence, you're not very bright!

Lastly outcalls usually are a $100 premium/extra in most major markets. So why do them?

is very important.  I have split between incall and outcall, and I find that most incall ladies really like the comfort of their own surroundings.  First, make yourself comfortable that you are seeing the right lady (read the reviews) and then see her where she wants to be seen.

I only do incalls.  I prefer them, and think the provider is more comfortable in her own surroundings, rather than at a stranger's house or apt.

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I don't hobby in my immediate vicinity...  so Incalls are most cost efficient & no paper trail for me.    I research my dates & am comfortable with their arrangements.  
Naturally I do everything possible to stay low profile...  like not waiting in my car outside a hotel attracting the attention of Security & LE.  After finding the location, familiarizing myself with the parking & entrances, I withdraw to the corner coffee shop timing my return.
I never hang in a lobby...  I walk briskly through after getting directions from her to the elevators.  The small hotels I frequent don't have much by way of gift shop or bar but any place to look busy besides the lobby (but taking the second call in those locations would be arkward!)  
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to get a hotel room without leaving paper trial. The only potential problem with incall, that I noticed recently, is the neighborhood. When the neighbor is not very nice, the car that I drive sort of stand out.

Most providers will waive the extra outcall fee for a multi hour apt. I have just been more comfortable with outcall. I just worry i am walking into a bust or being filmed. Discretion is paramount to me.

the extra cost and hassle of getting a room.  I have two favorites who can't entertain at their homes, so I always get a room for us.

Some guys like the added security of getting the room because they know that going to an incall could mean meeting LE, especially if it's the first time seeing a gal and she doesn't have any reviews, or limited reviews.

LE is much less likely to go to an outcall for security reasons.

I haven't snorted coffee out through my nose in two days while reading your posts!!!! Bad days?????

I will never tel... heh.

I would agree with this. Though I am admittedly new to this, I am definitely more comfortable in the environment I have chosen. For me, this is always a four star hotel in a convienant locaion for both parties. After seeing someone once, however, I am definitely willing to do an outcall for future visits. The one first-time outcall I did was amazing and completely comfortable, as I was  given rave reviews prior by more than one provider and was comfortable knowing I was walking into a good situation. That being said, I definitely prefer incall at least for the first visit but am always open to outcall after the first time with someone. But if the circumstances permit, I will certainly do my best to accommodate an outcall so long as the situation is right.