Being timely, on schedule

Managing the environment in ways that make me comfortable - light levels, temperature, music, no distractions, no artificial scents that I am allergic to

Being genuinely hospitable and using good manners

Learning my name and using it

Making eye contact

Letting me know enough about themselves to get a sense of what they are about, but not so much as to bring drama into the relationship or cross any boundaries. Conversely showing some interest in me, learning a little about me, and retaining / using that knowledge.

Not approaching our time together ritually, as though it were scripted.

Being gentle unless I specify otherwise

Kissing me as though they enjoyed it

Being responsive, and also communicating during sex, either that it is enjoyed, or how to make it better

keeping up a bit of friendly, flirty or even sensual communication between dates via email, phone or text

My few favorite ladies, whom I see and enjoy regularly all have these traits to one degree or another.

A lot of ladies seem to think that the impression of the hottest sex will bring me back. This is not at all so. Better not say more here, I'm straying into a minefield....

You know, truth is, I really don't need any more regulars anyway!  But it is nice to meet someone new now and again.

I think I'm on my way to a friendship with my favorite lady. The donation is treated like it's a gift, an after thought. it is the unexpected emails that I really appreciate, showing they were thinking of me. Eye contact 7 kissing that is full of feeling. I never thought I'd find this when I started this a couple of years ago.

The ladies I have most enjoyed --who remain lovely, even cherished, memories-- all made me feel I would love time with them even if no sex were involved.  They were also spectacular lovers without going into great detail. It is asking a lot of a provider, but when it happens, it is a great joy and a wonderful gift.

Hi Miss Sophie - I will make a note! If I'm ever in your neighborhood...  Cheers - Gregory

Hi Dr Joe - a nicely expressed sentiment, that in few words sums up very well the qualities that I so enjoy in female companionship ....

Thanks.

I like the simple things that make me smile. I love it when a lady simply reaches across the dinner table to hold my hand, when she is genuinely interested in what I'm saying. Other little things that made me smile like the one lady who brought me cheese and crackers when she knew I had just gotten off a cross country flight. Another remembered the anniversary date of my sobriety, and sent me a nice email. And a smile always comes to my face when I get a note from a lady for no other reason than to say hello.

gender neutral. That is, I think the ladies would have almost the same list if asked "what are my favorite clients doing that i really appreciate?"

As Sophie said above, these are really companionship basics and we all would do well to keep these in mind on dates.

This is very well stated. My favorites are those with whom I maintain email contact, and never get the feeling that I'm intruding into their lives. Received a text message the other day from a real sweetheart who spent the weekend with me in my home town, just asking me how I'm doing. We're getting together for coffe when I'm in her city with no expectation of intimacy.

There are some incredibly sweet, genuine, and caring providers who make your time with them extra special, and special friendships often result. rock on

the reviews and not just look at the pics or scan the profile.

When I first started out, I was more into the young hotties.  As I have grown in the hobby, I have graduated to more mature ladies who are more expereinced providing GFE and in treating me like a king.  Sometimes the young hotties want to get you off and shove you out the door.

Hi - your experience matches mine. I have seen one young lady who is in her early twenties and another in her early 30s, who are outstanding in my book - everything I've mentioned in my list along with charm grace and skill. But by and large, I have found that ladies in their 40s and 50s tend to be more likely to have the qualities that I look for.

Wow, Greg is right on the money.. Did he just schooled a few of the ladies that wonder why they can't get a good review.. I have regulars and he just reminded me to stay on my A-game. Mwah greg

To sum it all up...my provider?...she's just a total "Sweetheart"!

Pose for photographs.

to be flirty on the phone....(chidren/family around) I definitely love the flirty emails. All of the rest are just things I do normally! I have even visited a client in the hospital (per his request after an intense surgery). I don't mind going out of my way for clients as long as I am able to do so and I am not taken advantage of. I enjoy spending time with you gentlemen! It's definitely something I look forward to!  Muah!

Hi everyone,
I am kinda new here.  I signed up a little over a year ago but just recently came back here to view again.
Here is my two cents worth on a SP's side..

I dont look at the guys as a wallet.
I strive to get regulars and one of the things I do, is treat them like a friend.

I love to have a continual communication with them as well.  I love ppl and I am concerned about the clients that I see.  I try to catch up on what they have done since last seeing them, hear any latest news that I have, and so on.

I had been a web cam girl for over 8 years and was really isolated.  This is my dream job
Now I get that human contact that I have craved for so long.  Not to mention the real thing instead of toys :p

Treating ppl the way that you would want to be treated, is the key.  I have found that this works for me and therefore has made me a success in such a short time.

Just my two cents.

love and laughs
April

that the lady pulls down the covers & invites me into her bed instead of putting a sheet on top of the bed.

Me too!  Actually, for some reason, I have found this to be the norm in Europe but very rare in the US. I wonder why?