I've been using TER for research, as most of us do.  It is of course an invaluable tool for many reasons.  I'd like some feedback from attractive hobbyists and their experiences.  I find that I routinely get a better performance than the majority of reviews indicate for a given provider.  No, I am not trying to pat myself on the back for having been fortunate in my genetic disposition.  Just wondering if it would make reviews more helpful if we knew what the hobbyist looked like.  Yes, I have read the forums and I know that most providers claim they don't care what we look like so long as we are clean and behave like gentleman.  But they are ladies and a good looking guy has got to affect them differently than a troll.

I have absolutely no way to judge this.  If Joe Schmoe says Tiffany gave him an "awesome BBBJ" how am I supposed to know if mine is "more awesome???"  

And so what if those with fortunate "genetic disposition" think they get better treatment?  Why should it matter?

Perhaps you should have asked all the ugly guys whether they felt they got worse treatment.

Seems to me that there's more to be gained from looking in the mirror than this...

I don't think I'm ugly, but I'm overweight and have a beard (a turn-off/turn-on for some).  What I do know is I'm respectful and treat the girls well.  I try to understand their situation even when I disagree with it.  Perhaps it comes from my motto that, "we're all doing the best we can", even when the best we can isn't very good.  

My point is, perhaps rather than how handsome a hobbyist is you should consider how a hobbyist treats the girl.  I've had many more above expectation experiences than below, and I can't chalk it up to being Brad Pitt.  I think women are generally more tuned in to who we are than what we look like, anyway.

My observations after 10 years. There really arent any trolls as you would say..

Men that can afford escorts.. keep themself neat and clean most often even if they arent a 10... I've always seen all businessmen of many shapes and sizes..I actually dont care for the super good looking ones.. They ask me how I like their Tommy Bahama shirts and flex their muscles too much.. arrogant at times and very rude.. Id rather have Joe Average than Joe Gym anyday of the week...

This can be true even with the same provider/client pairings at different times.  There are 2 humans involved and general well being, moods, external stress interference, etc., etc. can vary experiences.  Can client looks matter?  Of course but so could a nearly infinite list of other reasons as well.  The key, IMHO, is to look for a pattern of relative consistency over time within a providers reviews.

This is too funny. If reviewers exagerate on reviews now, wait till we ask the to rate themselves on performance and looks, 1-10.

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and just one working muscle.  I've actually been told twice in the last 2 days that I have a beautiful c**k.  I'm not sure what the point is, but I just had to repeat it.  Oh, now I remember, I'm having a showing Monday afternoon for anyone (ladies) that cares to attend.

locker room, and is usually sweaty from running the kids around... and kinda has that harried look to him! lol!  but I do shower before the session!  ask any of my "Dates!"  they will vouch for that.... now as to being green... well, it does not rub off! lol!!!

Hockey dads are more cool ! we travel from state to state.... Soccer is overrated.. They do nothing but sit on the sidelines and drink their water and eat granola bars....

I need some warming up.. my body is blue from all the cold hockey rinks !

*Some* pretty boys have an attitude...they think they are God's Gift walking in, so have no interest in having a mutually enjoyable session.  They *think* they are giving me some sort of bonus in my day because they are *attractive*.

What rates the best mileage for me (beyond hygiene) is having an open attitude, and the energy one brings to the table.  Attractiveness has absolutely nothing to do with my enjoyment, and actually might work against you a smidge in my book.  

Humility is a much bigger turn on for me.

xoMegan

Some men are hot and some are not. Some not so attractive men are egotistical. Some are not. Same goes for attractive men.

Honey, at my age, as long as they are clean, respectful and well trimmed they are going to get the same treatment as anyone else who might be better looking. However, I must say that I had a younger, gorgeous client a few months back and he was soooooo nice. He also was educated, interesting and certainly easy on the eyes.

Finally, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

Hugs,
Ciara

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But about this being well "trimmed" could you help us all out here.... did you mean what I think you meant???

And for that - we do travel....  what a drag... the tournaments are never in great places.... but the action is great!  lil ole 16 yr old girls --- breaking 6 boards!  do not mess with them!  Hockey - my eye! lol

In fact, if you're a tall, skinny, goofy-looking asian dude with a nice hands, a UK accent and green skin I'll pay YOU!  And if you can make your penis twist around like an elephant's does I'll pay DOUBLE!

*giggle*

Ditto Turkana!!!