provider 1 was not wise to share the info of the appt to provider 2 unless you use her as reference. That is privacy danger I do not care how close they are. I won't see such providers if I am aware that they share information about clients.
Have you had this experience?
I saw a provider once recently and had a good time with her (call her Provider 1), and promised I will return to see her.
Then, the following week I got in touch with another provider who I met once before (call her Provider 2). To my surprise, Provider 2 knew that I visited Provider 1 the week before. She revealed they are close friends. So I see Provider 2 the following week and had a good time with her too, but don't want to see her too often.
Provider 2 offers that I see them both for a threesome for the price of one. Ok, nice deal, but I still want to go back and focus on Provider 1 alone. And I don't know if Provider 1 is willing to do a 50%-50% split with Provider 2.
I then contacted Provider 1 that I want to see her again next week. Provider 1 did acknowledge she's friends with Provider 2 and ok with a threesome. I said maybe later, but told her I want to do it with her alone.
Today, Provider 2 calls me and said she wants to see me soon, because she has no calls lately. I said I probably cannot see her next week. I did not give her a reason.
Damn. Should I tell Provider 1 not to tell Provider 2 of our rendezvous? Or should I just leave it at that.
what business is it of Provider 2's that you are seeing Provider 1 to begin with? The better question is how Provider 2 knew you saw Provider 1 to begin with?
It's an unspoken rule that unless you are asking for a reference, you do not discuss your clients personal information....no names, nothing!
from an absolute point of view you are quite right. but in the real world people often don't live up to absolute standards.
there are sometimes good reasons to exchange _some_ information: to keep folks safe and watch each other's backs. and while provider to provider information exchange about a client is bad enough imagine the concern that would arise if a provider told a client about a client? excess information can have very unhappy consequences. this is especially the case in a locale like DC.
imagine, if you will, hearing from a provider that she has essentially IDed you to a client whom you know has interests that run counter to your own. then you start to see difficulties develop for your business that originate from the organization of that client/competitor?
it creates a problem for fully complying with providing screening information and creates other issues, not good for the biz.
But it's your money and your time. Make each individual deal a good one!
If either provider makes unreasonable demands on your freedom to choose, fire her!
(or at least threaten to).
its inappropriate for her to be calling you and asking for business. the phone lines should go only one way, you calling her unless you tell her otherwise and if you gave her permission to call you at will, then thats a mistake you should rethink the next time. Time to move on I think.
The whole point of paying a professional is to avoid complications of hurt feelings and the like. You should just do what you feel like doing and if ether of these escorts have a problem with that just move on. You are not dating them you do not owe them anything but being clean, polite, discreet, and the money promised for the time spent. You do not owe them an explanation of why you don't want to meet in a given week, or any kind sexual loyalty. So if that you only want to see provider 1 that week then you should leave it at that and if ether one is unprofessional and causes any problems don't see that lady again. There is too many ladies who don't play games to mess with those that do. I doubt you will have any problems though as most ladies get that you are seeing others and many actively encourage it. Your paying to avoid these kind of game after all.
I agree! Good professional ethics go a long way in this business. I do not discuss who I am seeing, even with my closest provider friends. (Unless someone mis-behaves of course.) What's the point of getting all twisted up, thinking about one of "my" clients seeing another provider? If I was a guy I would totally consider Hobbyland as if it was a box of chocolates, and enjoy sampling different flavors. I'd have my favorites of course, but variety is part of the game here.
I have experienced duos where the gentleman was clearly taken with one or the other of us. So what? It goes both ways - sometimes I get the repeat biz, sometimes my girlfriend does. What matters to me is that the fellow has a great time with the two ladies, and that there is NO vibe of competition between the ladies.
My philosophy is STILL that there is enough to go around. :^)
I'm in the unique position that the ladies I've seen, for the most part, are friends in real life and pass me around like a piece of meat!
Infact, some ladies I HAVEN'T seen, yet, went above and beyond and screened my ass thru my lady friends before I even asked for a date with them!
It's been my experience the ladies are gonna get there's. I talk with other gents and they ask about certain ladies I've seen. I ask what you want, they say this, and I say PM this one.
Let's just say, it makes for a good time for them. 
And in the same respect, the ladies I know tell the one's I haven't seen that Mikey's fun and they won't be disappointed. Our meetings are seamless, and again, a good time is had by all.
I don't give 9/9s and 10/10s for the hell of it!
This sounds like an epic train wreck in the making......one that would have you dead in the middle of some drama queens.
But he doesn't deal with your wonderful ass like I do!
Or some of the friends we share...!
I've been there and done that.
It is nerve wracking, and not what this hobby should be about.
Providers take note, and don't play this destructive game.
You are playing a game of love triangle that is going to get you into hot soup.
Secondly, if you stop seeing both of them it might teach them a lesson about sharing information about their clients with each other. For this reason alone I would have stopped seeing them along time ago.
Unless you used provider 2 as a reference to see provider 1, these providers shouldn't be sharing information with each other regarding their clients good friends or not. There is a certain amount of privacy and confidentiality that I as a client expect when I see a provider.
This is a major train wreck about to happen.
Cut them both loose. I don't care how good of friends they are, they have NO DISCRETION. I have lady friends in this business as well. I love gabbing with them. We do not discuss details of clients. There is just no excuse for that. Neither of these ladies should have any idea you are seeing the other unless you used one as a reference for the other. Outside of that, there is absolutely no reason, EVER, to discuss the particulars of a client with another lady. Period.
Just recently a lady came to my rescue. I was supposed to be with someone else, but I fucked it up.
So, I called a certain fav and she was busy with family shit. She called ANOTHER fav of mine, and asked her to go to me. She said she couldn't do it, though she knew that she would've been paid handsomely for it. So, the first one dropped her shit, begrudgingly I might add, and met my ass.
I was a drunken mess. She fed my ass, poured gallons of water in me, and she cleaned me up and fucked the hell out of me.
My point is, the other would've done it also. And I know of other's that would do the same.
Why? Becuase they know 'Mikey'. I don't mean no harm. I just get carried away sometimes, and I will never harm a woman. Everyone knows this.
So, I don't buy into the 'they have NO DISCRETION' deal.
Matter of fact, I have another fav that turns on clients to another fav of mine cuz she has issues with her kids and shit and the other just doesn't have anything going on at the time.
They help each other out.
I don't know where you come from, but obviously out west there's a different state of mind out here.
theres no way in hell I'd come to your rescue, clean you up have to feed you and put up with your shananigans as a drunken fool. I am not your mother and don't get paid enough for that BS.
I've had the same thing happen to me. I hit one provider a lot, and when she left town another provider came through. I saw the second provider everyday one week for 15min or 30min sessions, and word got back to the first provider.
The first provider returned a few weeks later, and she was upset because I spent so much on the second provider that I wouldn't see her like she wanted me too. So she spent over week calling me and texting saying that second provider was this and that. hopeing that I'd stop seeing her.
Where in fact the second provider was less drama, and actually gave far more better sessions then first provider. The first provider is upset now, because she found out I'm doing an over session with provivder two, and dropping 1,000 for 8 hours of over night fun.
If the ladies in question are professional, they will understand that, and be cool with whatever decision you make. As far as taking up P2 on the threesome special, if she made the offer, it's up to her to set things up with P1, not you. You shouldn't be concerned whether P1 is cool with the special, it's up to P2 to work that out with P1. Nor would I tell P1 not to say anything if you decide to meet with her alone. They're friends independent of you, and will talk regardless.
It sounds like there could be some drama coming here, especially with P2. The fact that she is pressuring you to meet again soon after meeting with her only twice before due to business being slow is reason to keep her at a distance, and not see her all that often, as you stated was your intention. If you give in and see her soon, it will be on her terms, and you can expect more calls of this type down the road. Remember, you are the one paying...you make the decision as to who you want to see, not them.
No need for all the drama. From the OP's description, neither one has done anything wrong other than trying to get business. Me thinks, OP is full of it.
Do you go and ask other people's opinions on everything you do personally. If you do, let me suggest, stop asking stupid questions and quit blaming others for your lack of ability to make decisions.
Both providers are idiots. They should not be talking about their clients with each other. In a perfect world you should be able to see both of them and neither would know it. They have already proven that they are not very discreet about the personal information of their clients. I would drop both of them.
You seem to have difficulty using the organ above your shoulders which has an hairy covering at the top. May be it is due to your penchant for drama.
Hobby is very simple as long as you use the KISS (Keep It Simple Stupid) principle. You will be amazed how many providers and others want to be your friends!
I saw a provider once recently and had a good time with her (call her Provider 1), and promised I will return to see her.
Then, the following week I got in touch with another provider who I met once before (call her Provider 2). To my surprise, Provider 2 knew that I visited Provider 1 the week before. She revealed they are close friends. So I see Provider 2 the following week and had a good time with her too, but don't want to see her too often.
Provider 2 offers that I see them both for a threesome for the price of one. Ok, nice deal, but I still want to go back and focus on Provider 1 alone. And I don't know if Provider 1 is willing to do a 50%-50% split with Provider 2.
I then contacted Provider 1 that I want to see her again next week. Provider 1 did acknowledge she's friends with Provider 2 and ok with a threesome. I said maybe later, but told her I want to do it with her alone.
Today, Provider 2 calls me and said she wants to see me soon, because she has no calls lately. I said I probably cannot see her next week. I did not give her a reason.
Damn. Should I tell Provider 1 not to tell Provider 2 of our rendezvous? Or should I just leave it at that.
... with a name like "DeepStudDiver", these two girls are prolly so freaking hot to do you together, I say you should live up to your name and give them a duel-pummeling they won't soon forget. These gals want what your name implies! You can always go back to focusing on them individually, after wards ... and the price is right!
A true StudDiver should lap up this golden opportunity and make the very best out of it! ...Its not often situations like this come around in the first place... and its not like any any one of you three, don't know the bit right?
If it feels right, do it "DeepStudDiver!"
Once, I had a threesmome like this and I have never regretted any of it.(can be alot of fun)
provider 1 was not wise to share the info of the appt to provider 2 unless you use her as reference. That is privacy danger I do not care how close they are. I won't see such providers if I am aware that they share information about clients.
and not seriously personal..I have often recommended my regulars to other providers I know they will find interesting and have a stress-drama free time. Its good business to recommend if they ask. If a client has a good time with you, you never have to worry. I treat my clients with the same respect and quality of time that I would want.
I don't usually know the providers I recommend. I have met most of them in the TER chat room, which I love, because you get to see someones personality. If she is light-hearted, funny and relaxed, she is who I will recommend. The best thing about my regulars, price is never a problem. ALthough I don't charge what alot of the others do, (which I am comfortable with), this doesn't mean my clients are low class..So, when I see a girl I know one of my regulars would like, I don't have to worry about price..And NO, I NEVER expect anything in return...
so why 2 providers who know eachother would have a problem, is beyond me..just relax and let THEM work it out..Its their problem..not yours..
Remember, money can't buy you class..
I finally wrote Provider 1 and told her to keep our meeting confidential. And she said 'it will be our little secret'. I'm not worried about what Provider 2 will say anymore. Thanks for the heads up.