Never thought I'd say those words! I'm probably about 90/10 as well. As to the 90%, it isn't so much that I have no desire to see them again, it's that the desire is outweighed by the desire for variety. As to the 10%, those are providers that I just absolutely enjoyed my time with them.
We were talking about clients who return vs. one time visitors. She told me that roughly 20% of her clients repeated more than twice, while about 80% were one time visitors. I wonder if guys have the same experience - you see a gal once most of the time and rarely repeat. Or, do you look for an ATF and stick with her? (so to speak)
Lots of business people are aware of the 80/20 rule in other aspects of sales and marketing, etc. It is interesting to speculate as to it's application in this area. What do you say providers - are 80% of your clients one time visitors?
but I see most women only once. I don't plan it that way, but there is only so much time and so many women and I LOVE variety.
I do see some women more than once and have been known to repeat dozens of times with women that I liked enough, and of course were convenient to me as well. I don't even believe in the concept of an ATF, but I do confess to "clicking" with certain women and seeing them over and over.
I have 3 that Ive been seeing regularly for the past year.Everyone else just makes an appointment,review,and move on to next girl
So yes the majority of my appointments are one time visits
I have repeated multiple times with every provider I've reviewed except one, who I saw twice...
you left yourself wide open for that .... lol
just had to ... don't be 😠
I'd say about 10% of the women I see I repeat with, not because I wouldn't want to, but because our paths don't cross again. There are several women who I would love to see more frequently, but we don't live in the same city, so we only get to connect when one of us travels. Therefore, I see a lot of different women, mostly when they tour through my city or I travel for business.
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Never thought I'd say those words! I'm probably about 90/10 as well. As to the 90%, it isn't so much that I have no desire to see them again, it's that the desire is outweighed by the desire for variety. As to the 10%, those are providers that I just absolutely enjoyed my time with them.
I have regular friends and its nice when we know each other and together we can explore more things every time.
I have few regular friends and always look forward when they back to town!
I hobby 5 to 7 hours a week, usually in three sessions on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays. Two of the sessions will be with regulars among the three or four regulars I have at any given time and will be multi-hour, and the third session will be with a new girl for just one hour. There is always periodic attrition among the regulars (they move away, retire, acquire a boyfriend, start taking me for granted, or whatever). so seeing one new girl a week assures me of having sufficient new girls "on deck" to step in when I have an opening for a regular. Out of 6-8 new girls, only one will have the potential to join my roster of regulars. If it wasn't for the attrition factor, I would be happy seeing the same three or four girls for an extended time period.
PS - I love your handle. It takes me back to my stoner days in college.
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Some guys want a connection and a "fake relationship" in their own minds, some guys want to feel the conquest and satisfy their ego of being with a woman usually far out of their league here and there. I like the one and done normally and any feeling I have of a connection are usually gone by the time I get in my car, about 2 minutes after theirs are. I'm paying for it and I want the experience and the memory, than my curiosity with that lady is usually satisfied. Cost/benefit analysis in my own mind. Its well worth it once, a downright miracle that a model quality girl will let me be with her for a few hundred but its generally not worth it twice. I do this for variety, if I wanted a regular I would just have a irl relationship which doesn't work for me anymore. I've repeated a few times here and there mainly out of comfort level and location but seeing someone every month or so for months or years has no interest to me.
....so it's rare that we rebook, with the exception being a most unforgettable experience. And even then I'm afraid that a follow-up date can never live up to the first one so I just don't do it.
For me, the best date is consistently the second one. No more awkwardness because you just met, and they are usually very happy that you repeated, especially if its only been a few days.
....it's amazing that I have any second dates at all.
I actually prefer that first meeting and all of the awkwardness and uncertainties. It adds to the powerful sexual tension (assuming that it is there) and leads to fun exploration and spontaneity. It rarely has that same feel the second time around for me.
wired a little differently . . . . . among other things.
I'd say I see 90% repeat clients and 10% new clients in any given month. I'm shy and it takes a lot for me to see a new client so I've inadvertently made myself low volume and prone to sticking to mostly regulars.
Lots of business people are aware of the 80/20 rule in other aspects of sales and marketing, etc. It is interesting to speculate as to it's application in this area. What do you say providers - are 80% of your clients one time visitors?
In my opinion, "it never lives up to the first session" is true if your priority in seeing a provider is the mystery of not knowing what is behind the hotel room door as well as being one to get in and write a review. Plenty of clients value familiarity a continued closeness and a conversational/physical bond that you only can acquire from seeing someone regularly.
58% of the gals I've seen since joining TER I have seen more than once.
That's a lot more than I would have guessed at. I thought it was more like 25%.
Bear in mind also that in many cases, I would have seen a gal more than once if she hadn't retired or not ever visited my city again.
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Okay, but you are saying more than once. The OP said more than twice. Actually, he said "repeated more than twice" which would mean at least three visits, but I'm not sure he meant that.
Did you do a tally for more than two visits?
I have repeated at least 2 times (meaning 3 or more visits) with 22.5% of the ladies I have seen.
Have you considered what caused them to behave that way?
What point are you trying to make
Just a question. No need to be a rocket scientist or to stay at Holiday Inn Express to understand.
I've only repeated with two girls, and with both I've only seen them twice (they're not around anymore). This is out of maybe 70 or so total. There are plenty of girls I would definitely love to see again, and I would if I had unlimited funds. But I'm always craving variety (hence why I do this) and there's always some other hot new girl I'm dying to see first before seeing one I've already seen. And I do get burned often with new girls that don't quite live up to expectations, which you would think should motivate me to see a sure thing, but part of the thrill for me is also just not completely knowing what to expect (although I never want a so-so experience, of course).
But about 75% of my clientele repeats, many of them frequently.
The only ladies I don't repeat with are ones I had a bad session with (which is really rare) or the ones I just never had an opportunity to repeat with. For example I saw them on tour here and they never returned, or I saw them in their home city while I was traveling.
I even used to repeat with streetwalkers when that was how I was hobbying. Also it's funny that Lopaw mentioned strip clubs because I am also a strip club hound, and even in strip clubs when I find a girl I like I keep going back for the same one.
see her again and I've lost track of how many I've only seen once and how many I've repeated with over the years... 80 20 is close?
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I used to be 80/20. For every 10 girls I would only repeat with one or two. Even then, the repeat rate was once or twice. Lately though it has been the other way around. I have repeated 8 or 9 times this year with a girl I consider my new ATF. My old ATF I also saw once this year as well as multiple times last year. Only one or two others along the way. So I guess now I am 80/20 now for repeats. I flipped.
I have 3 that I repeat with regularly, and occasionally see a new girl who piques my interest.
Past couple years I have probably seen one lady 80% of the time, maybe 75%. There are reasons for that. One, she is just that cool and fun and sexy.
at the same time where I am there are in my estimation or opinion, about 5 quality ladies within a 30 Mile radius. There are dozens on BP, but I said quality. Cleveland and Detroit have more options, but my schedule and availability does not permit me to play there often.
Once in a while one passes through my city, but I make do with the handful of ladies I view as worth the time, $, and effort.
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Lots of business people are aware of the 80/20 rule in other aspects of sales and marketing, etc. It is interesting to speculate as to it's application in this area. What do you say providers - are 80% of your clients one time visitors?
an ATF with one or at most two other REGULAR girls. Too much anxiety and work involved with seeing new girls every time I turn around.
Lots of business people are aware of the 80/20 rule in other aspects of sales and marketing, etc. It is interesting to speculate as to it's application in this area. What do you say providers - are 80% of your clients one time visitors?
pattern of behavior - those males are more functional in EVERY area of life and females do appreciate them more - if female * wife* is wise enough and have also good survival skills - just as in nature
,I will pass here one link now .. yet just let me to refer to.. lets say wild goats .. how dominant male may have all females and how they would follow him and submiss to his lead while other males will be following their herd. So it is totally normal and is VERY important for male sexuality .
Wives has to send husbands out and invite THEMSELVES other females ..or just go together to the "hunt"
It is given wife also does enjoy the following
- sex
-she loves /respects her husband
- she has OTHER then hubby passions in life strong enough to keep her occupied
-she is intelligent enough not to be competitive to every skirt.
-she understand health benefits of having strong libido and how it affects their financial well being.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sex-dawn/200805/inconvenient-truth-sexual-monogamy-kills-male-libido
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