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Does anyone think this woman might have been a provider?
LoadsOfun 2056 reads
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I don't know but it is a sad story. Just think she had hopes and dreams at some point in her life. She smiled laughed and played as a little girl. I don't exactly pray but I will wish for an end to her suffering in any future life and for anyone out their in this world that cared for her.

-- Modified on 8/13/2008 2:13:27 AM

I do think that it's very, very sad that anyone, regardless of their life choices, would meet an end like that. Provider, or teacher, or clerk, whatever she was, I hope she has found peace.

many strippers who have very bad taste in boyfriends... and it sounds like she chose the bottom of the barrel.... first he provides her with drugs and lets her do drugs and alcohol... then when she dies of an OD, he hides the body...

slime is about the only word to describe this lowlife.

I have to agree with showmecal - this lady was once someones baby girl.  with hopes dreams and aspirations.... what went wrong.

I just had this conversation last night with my 14-yr old....  and told him the very sad and tragic story of Len Bias....  lessons for us all.

and nothing this lady's parents can do can restore her to life and health.... there is no one they can pay, no one that they can beg...  so sad... and so tragic that she was in so much pain... and the scumbag she was with... did not help her.

ALL of the providers I know, are more together than this.  Much more together...


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-- Modified on 8/13/2008 9:02:38 AM

i do agree with her being someones daughter BUT..I think she may have been in the same boat as the boyfriend. Really nones knows, because we didnt know the couple personally.

I am ust saying that drinkers and drug addicts will find the drugs themselves..meaning that maybe her boyfriend didnt get her into it, or force her to take drugs. She was probally just a bad alcoholic and drug addict..sadly.

 It is crazy that he stored her..when he should of called the police.

but I don't understand what is so "sad" about this. She wasn't murdered, and she apparently did this to herself. IT seems to me that the only thing making this even the slightest bit interesting to the media and public is that her boyfriend kept her in a box for a year.

And I don't believe he's a horrible person, either. If he were guilty of her murder, or had any qualms about giving her drugs, he would surely have disposed of her body long ago. Take and arm this trip... A foot next. I mean, within a few days he would be rid of her with no trace if he is reasonably good with a sponge.

As far as religion, maybe he just has a smart lawyer who is feeding him the right lines to stay out of jail... Or maybe there is something in the Maori religion (since he is NZ native) that we are unaware of, relating to death and the post-death rituals.

If someone I really really loved in a drug-hazey slightly-removed-from-reality sort of way died very suddenly I might just be tempted to keep them in a box, too.

Others have already communicated quite nicely my sentiments, which are, in more concise terms; the question, for me, feels like it comes from morbid curiosity, and lacking in humanity.

LoadsOfun314 reads

especially easy targets for predators.  And I feel empathy for the danger that providers expose themselves to by the very nature of their job.

I feel so much empathy for people, that I also recognize that the woman's boyfriend was also someone's child. Every criminal, every murderer, has a family and imagine the pain that those people go through, and the humiliation, shame they feel knowing that their son committed murder.

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