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I'm not practicing a hobby.
micktoz 43 Reviews 65 reads
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I'm paying for the pleasure of having sex with some really great ladies who are really, really good at sex.  

Damn, you sure are into generalizing people into groups. Guys who are too old to pop, personalities of mongers that think the same.  

There are many personalities.

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When I meet a new male friend, I ask myself "can this person ever be a hobbyist"? 90% of the time the answer is no. The person usually has some of these traits:

Has Hollywood stereotypes of providing ( all girls are coerced , drug addicts, or trafficked )
Talks about providers in derogatory ways, i.e calls them whores/prostitutes
Too religious (i.e actually believes in Heaven/Hell )
Too romantic/idealistic - ( such person believes marriage is forever with one person )..
Too suspicious/paranoid ( doesn't know how to form trust just from someone's communication )

Am I totally off on this? Do hobbyists have all kinds of personalities, including the above ones?

The next time you have a thought like this,...Just let it go.
And why are you making "new male friends?" You should be focusing on making new female friends.

I hope not and it might be worse if you got off.  

 
It's been my observation that hobbyists like to participate in self destructive behavior.

HappyChanges70 reads

because I was wondering if the OP is a provider?

But then I realized the OP is married. To the OP, pay hot women to take your mind off of these thoughts. Just don't tell your wife or anybody irl. Be safe and take heed to the newbie board.

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the "making new male friends" part is cringe-worthy.  First, I don't talk about my participation in this sport with new male OR female friends.  Its none of their business.  Second, why would I give a rat's ass if another guy would make a good hobbyist or not?  That for him to determine and requires no judgment or comment from me.  

I'm with you ,  Jake from state farm. He should Let go and let god!!   Xoxo

I'm paying for the pleasure of having sex with some really great ladies who are really, really good at sex.  

Damn, you sure are into generalizing people into groups. Guys who are too old to pop, personalities of mongers that think the same.  

There are many personalities.

-- Modified on 7/18/2017 8:09:59 PM

John_Laroche79 reads

let alone DFK or DATY a complete stranger!

But your second type doesn't really fit. Lots of misogynists on this board.

I have a provider-friend who insists "all guys do it."
Personally, I don't give it much thought. I do however look at a hot young gal with no obvious means of supporting her lifestyle and wonder if...

... how many friends you have, male or female.

I know of many hobbyists (some who post here) who refer to providers as whores or prostitutes.  

I know of hobbyists who believe in heaven/hell.

Abd I know of hobbyists who believe marriage can be forever with one person.  Don't confuse marriage and the love of two married people for each other with p4p.

Most guys have paid, unless you're counting being married, which is the most expensive pussy overall there is to be had.  For actual P4P, I didn't start until about age 49, so that's why I think its age related for most guys.  When you're 30, even with a modicum of social skills, you should be able to get all the 30-yo pussy you want, but at 50, most of us still want 30 yo pussy rather than our own age, so paying is the obvious solution.

souls_harbor57 reads

Now when I am walking in hotel hallways and see a really hot chick going in or out of a room I wonder ... what's her P number?

All Men are human too, they come in all ages , races, shapes and sizes,  What I Like Most, is no matter what,  *They all have Their Own Personality Too, and Want & Need Love and Affection too...Just  like All of us do...So come on baby Just look in my direction!! Xoxo Sheila

Because it refers to veins.  I think you meant the planet Venus.  Spell Check has failed you.  LOL!

Are easy to spot because of the varicose veins on their legs.

Shouldn't say "clap" on a fuck board. It makes some people itchy.

.... a round of applause is much better than a round of penicillin.

Was that a subtle soul survivors reference?

Great song, great album, great guys ... Good enough to have "made it" but every great band doesn't.  

I know them although Richie passed away a few months ago.  

I dont think they hobbied.

Now, a guy diving into a dumpster to find his next meal.....

Is that these girls are living, breathing, human beings like me. They have hopes, dreams, wishes, and etc. I suppose one can use any word for a provider and it all means the same thing. There is a thing called tact and to degrade someone else is just not my style.  

Like others have said over thinking it a bit. Go make female friends and enjoy yourself.

So I will NOT degrade you for not knowing the difference between "Prospective" and "Perspective."  I will merely reveal the fact.

JakeFromStateFarm111 reads

He was feeling lonely being the only Pedantic Putz here.  GaGa would try on the role occasionally but wasn't very good at it, being prone as he is to egregious errors of grammar, punctuation and spelling. LMAO!

Don't those three gregarious flaws equal punctuality ... ohhh!  And why are you bringing up his grammar. What does she have to do with this? Shrugs sholders

No one said anything about your grammar . . . . .  or your grandfather.   I'm sure your grammar is a lovely woman.  

Are you calling him out on a typo too? Lol

one of the worst offenders on typos.  Lol

I'm a good speller but I think I'm ready to turn off predictive text as it's typing in too many words that I don't want in there ... lol  ... what the fuck

Wayne "cut my toe" become cameltoe, I guess it's time to hang it up. ( can you believe it came up as Wayne instead of when LOL)

Instead of shouting them into the phone.

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