Ok, not EVERY man but for some reason, a lot of guys, Civies and clients, are attracted to me.  And it's not my looks.  I really don't think that's it at all.  I am not the hottest chick.  I'm really a 6.5 - 9.1 (or an 8 on avg.) depending on preference.  

me too  No blonde roots here tho

Posted By: BlondeRoots

Ok, not EVERY man but for some reason, a lot of guys, Civies and clients, are attracted to me.  And it's not my looks.  I really don't think that's it at all.  I am not the hottest chick.  I'm really a 6.5 - 9.1 (or an 8 on avg.) depending on preference.    
   
 I think that guys are very attracted to me bc of my personality and sense of humor.  I am weird and say bizarre shit, and am very down to earth, extremely sweet and kind.  My personality is disarming and non-intimidating, in other words.    
   
 I went to the doctor recently, and the dr was just gazing into my eyes and giving me the "I want to eat you" look.  Today I went in a coffee shop and was talking to some guy in line and the guys behind the counter and I said something bizarre, and they all laughed and when I left the shop, the guys were all staring at me through the window as I passed by the window and walked out.    
   
 My clients keep saying that if they were 25 yrs younger, they would seal the deal with me.  And my single regular client told me straight up yesterday that he is in love with me.    
   
 I can think of many other examples, but now I sound obnoxious.    
   
 I don't know what my question is, but I guess I'm just saying that ones personality makes people fall in love.  Do you agree?

delusions of grandeur are very common in this hobby..

I think you're a little under dosed princess.

It sounds like I think I'm hot shit but I really don't.  I don't have inflated self esteem nor low.  Im comfortable with myself and have an interesting perspective on life and men, probably bc of the hobby, but I'm not crazy.  Nearly every guy I know is crazy about me.  I'm telling you personality is what attracts people.  Don't you agree?

No you had the obnoxious thing going right from the beginning.

Let's see what other people say about you vs. what you say about you.

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...but when a woman has obviously gone out of her way to LOOK good, as a client or a civvie, I for one feel a bit of a social obligation to give her some sign of appreciation and that can include licking my lips and gazing into her innocent but enigmatic eyes. If you dress down, maybe your "personality" would draw a more palsy response from the guys at the watering holes and from your clients as well. Of course, your doctor probably will still want to eat you.

Try a little science project  Double your rates starting today and see if you keep your regulars or if they tell you that you're the one who is crazy. My hypothesis is, your rate double will be met with "crickets", or absolute silence. The hobby is based on illusion and fantasy. It sounds like you need a vacation because you're starting to think its all real. It's OK we all experience it to some degree, but you have to snap out of it.  

I post under an alias bc I DONT want to draw attn to my provider profile, unlike some who post threADs for PR purposes.  I just post to have a good time here.

I was not trying to impress him.  I made a few silly jokes and that made him go gaga.  He even gave me his cell and said to text him over the wkend if I had any concerns.  What dr gives his cell?

Maybe we should meet..
Opposites attract and all...

So if you're miss sunshine, what's your rate? Really what do you charge??How much does a guy have to give for a ray of your radiant charm....lol.

Double rates.

Coffee shop guys were staring cuz they know you're an escort.

Are you 100 years old?  I thought you were a 40 y/o British, slightly cockneyed, stud muffin

If you DO believe in telekinesis, raise MY hand.  

Married two and a half decades ago.  Feels like more.

Pointless.

It's easy for the truly lonely (even if they're surrounded by people in their lives) to 'fall in love' with a woman who pays attention to them, even if they're paid to do so.  Not to burst your bubble but men often fall in love with waitresses too  

You raised the topic of guys falling in love with you.  How about posting a picture of yourself or a link to your site.  Maybe it will shut people up.  Or maybe it won't.

I swear, nearly everytime I interact with a civie dude, they give my googly eyes.  There must be something I'm giving off with my body language.  Do providers just give off a vibe to the opposite sex or what?!  Maybe that's it.  maybe I thought I had a great personality but I just have a slutty face or walk or something??  Lol

Who could help but not falling immediately in love with a great personality. Why else do we visit women like you?

I "know" you are a little dummy, who claims to know so much.  But 95% of it is wrong.  Hence, Minnie.
Now please tell us more about your imaginary nuptials.  Will your Daddy be giving you away?  Is there a Pre-Nup?  Is your intended as wealthy and powerful as Bob Sugar?  Is he saving his soiled dove from hooking or will you continue to "provide?"
The TER world wonders.
No.  I lied.  The TER world doesn't give a damn

It's amazing to me how frequently this has happened throughout my life.... usually it's a cute guy, too.  They just somehow manage to find me and won't leave me alone.  They follow me around with adoring eyes, hang on my every word and are always as excited to see me as they were the very first time.

Maybe what you are reading as "love" is no more than guys wanting to "do you"

Aww come on, I'm sure most men want to kick you in the nuts too.

I think the "dog" thread was a couple of days ago ...

Different men have different tastes. My former boss used to like women which I would not even rate 3s, but for him they were 10s.  

... the key is to figure out what it is before it's too late.  As for single civie guys, they're looking for the same thing guys here are looking for, just without the envelope.  In fact, the only guys not looking for that are either dead or watching the Super Bowl at that moment.   I have no doubt you're an attractive woman with a great personality, but for most guys you describe if you don't look through them like they're not there, you're already ahead of 90% of the women in your category

I wish I knew what I was looking for ... half the time it's my keys or cell phone. I'm glad my dick is attached because I know I'd leave it some where.

Posted By: happy.merchant

... the key is to figure out what it is before it's too late.  As for single civie guys, they're looking for the same thing guys here are looking for, just without the envelope.  In fact, the only guys not looking for that are either dead or watching the Super Bowl at that moment.   I have no doubt you're an attractive woman with a great personality, but for most guys you describe if you don't look through them like they're not there, you're already ahead of 90% of the women in your category