As a married guy who dabbles in this activity, it really has nothing to do with home life. I just like variety.
Why take it off? I'm not hiding the wife from the provider. It's the other way around!
...but has the tan lines of wearing one?
That is why I just leave mine on.
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Besides that, I don't care. It's no surprise that some of the men who book with escorts are married.
for not doing your job
and
Marriage should be abolished
I agree. It isnt a logical construct.
and
Marriage should be abolished
Since a huge percentage of men are married, a large percentage of any woman's clients are, too. If they thought much about it they'd be wasting a lot of brain power.
true,
the "Brain Power"
should be used for the build up of
Ecstatic Pleasure.
And treats me right....
I don't care.....
Why would I care....
I don't care.....
Why would I care.....
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They're sad that I'm unavailable.
That I'm a lyin' cheatin' ass, but they're glad I showed up.
That it's a great decoy to look more normal as I walk through the hotel lobby.
They know I'm horny as hell because I'm not gettin' any at home.
That they'd never marry a hobbyist in a million years.
They're wondering what their husbands/boyfriends are doing right now.
They're relieved that I'm unavailable.
They don't think anything at all because they've seen it all.
It proves that all us guys are knuckleheads
"They know I'm horny as hell because I'm not gettin' any at home."
Bingo.
What do you guys think about seeing a gal who is wearing a wedding band?
My thought would be: I've got a real kinkster here.
More than a few gals have shared with me that they are either married or are in long term relationships
That is what I would think. Oh. He's married. Ok. Take your clothes off! :
... in a committed relationship. I think it minimizes the chance for any, uh, complications, slim as they may be. My two current favs are either married or have a long-time SO. I've met the SO. He sometimes is the M in FMF sessions with his partner. I also know some MF provider duos who are married, although I've never met any such duo.
make sure to look under the bed
My thought would be: I've got a real kinkster here.
More than a few gals have shared with me that they are either married or are in long term relationships.
Oddly enough, I crossed paths with her in a supermarket while she was with said boyfriend just a couple weeks later. He was looking at beer and talking to her about the football game prep that day. We saw each other and recognized each other right away. We both knew what we did and the guy seemed oblivious. I casually looked away as did she and I never saw her again. I also remember banging a stripper when I was 22 who was married. She told me flat out she wanted perfume, jewelry, shoes...stuff (luxury items) her husband was not providing. I banged another girl I knew through friends while she was engaged to be married. I was really young when I met her, a teenager at the time and I had a hard core crush on this girl. After years of allowing myself to be used by her, I ended it. Finally, one day she called after many months. She burnt all her bridges here and when she came back to the state to sign divorce papers, for the guy with a house and a pool that she dissed me for, she needed someplace to stay. I was her only option. I simply told her if I put her up, she is going to put out, or she would have to find someplace else to stay. I remember her talking to her new fiance on the phone literally minutes after we had sex. He knew, he wasnt happy about it, but she was that way. I didn't care. She used to prostitute herself when she was a teenager for money to buy nice clothes and cocaine. She was that type. She was my first big crush and I just got walked on LOL, so it felt good when pay day came for me.
I would never sleep with a woman who is with a very good friend, but if I dont know who the guy is and she is getting it on with me because she is okay with it, for what ever the reason, I have no remorse or regrets. She is the one being unfaithful, not me, so I have never given it a second thought. I recently slept with my friends supervisor, because it was her boyfriends fantasy to see her bang someone else on video. They were younger than me and had a game that they put their fantasies on paper and into a hat. What ever they pull out that week (or however often) they had to do. Apparently I was the only one who could meet her in a hotel room and bang her with out strings or feeling weird about it because no one she knew in her circle would do it (her LOL). I actually passed the guy on my way to the truck in the parking lot of the hotel. Maybe I am weird, but I just dont care if the woman is married, engaged, in a relationship etc, unless its someone close to me that it affects.
This is a business to them. They see the ring imprint on your finger if you take the wedding band off. They will smile and ask are you married and wonder why you hobby.
I'd rather him leave it on though. Definitely don't want the guys losing their wedding bands. Should it matter if a guy is married? We aren't their girlfriends.
That is honestly no problem at all for me. He can wear it not wear it. I feel men don't take off because there maybe a case where he forgets to put it back on when he gets home to the wife in kiddies. So whatever floats his boat is okay with me.
As a married guy who dabbles in this activity, it really has nothing to do with home life. I just like variety.
...I'd say 80% of the gentlemen are. It is what it is...
Sexy Toni
I could careless if a client has his wedding band on. The thing that bothers me as I provided in Utah for sometime and I go back to visit and often work while I'm there. Mormons wear special underwear called garments. For those who don't know about them. They are silky white the shirt is like a Hanes T-Shirt except extremely thin and the bottoms are long shorts that go to the knee in which there is a hole for urination and sex. Although it sounds weird the men wear these sacred garments when having relations with their wives. On the Garments are endowments are sewed on that are church symbols. These are made for modesty and to wear to go to the Temple.
I'm sure this sounds silly, but wearing them to see an escort is to much. I get the hobby is hypocritical at many different levels. I grew up in Utah and lived there up until three years ago. So I understand the Churches Rhetoric and know the beliefs the subscribe to. It just really bothered me when the gentleman got undressed and he was wearing the garments. In some strange way I felt like I was committing some egregious act towards God. Silly I know it somehow just was uncomfortable. I don't know if it is because I grew up there and knew the Church Doctrine. It was always just weird. And no I am not a Mormon and yes Polygamy still is practiced. In Salt Lake it is not like the sect that Warren Jeffs has in Southern Utah with the weird pilgrim clothing. It's more like Big Love except it's not that cookie cutter.
When I have an Outcall Appointment I wear a fake Diamond Ring to walk thru the lobby and I wear Business Attire so it looks like I was just at dinner returning to the hotel. And before I go upstairs I make sure to know where the side doors are so I can slip out with no one knowing any better. Before I get to the room the ring is in my purse sometimes it's better not to bring unwanted attention to oneself. So I think when a man enters a hotel it's probably better to have your wedding band on. And dressed somewhat professionally so that you look like a business man from out of town. And the best advice I can give is to always know where the side door is to leave.
This has always been a pet peeve of mine. Like, I already assume the guy is married. Why constantly remind me of it during our appointment? I understand not leaving the ring at home because that can be a red flag. Why no hide it in your car (assuming the location is safe if incall) or put it away in your hotel room (outcall)?? Plus I don't wear any rings during dates because they can get in the way of certain things, LOL. Either way, if a guy is wearing his band, I'll never say anything about it. We all have our little things that bother us. This is one of mine lol