: I'm happy with Lady Monger. : Discussion in TER General Board, posted by lopaw

There are two that I do NOT like. Some of my Latina hostesses have called me Papi ("poppy"). I think it means "daddy" but there might be a lot of cultural nuance that I do not understand. Maybe it just means "older, trustworthy, old guy"???? Anyway, it is NOT romantic and it is borderline creepy to me. I say borderline only because I think it is used quite a bit In non-TER Real Life. And there is the direct English daddy. No hostess of mine has ever called me daddy, thank goodness. It's just too creepy.
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I don't remember enough Korean or Chinese (or other foreign language) to know if others are calling me by a "daddy" equivalent. I have had French-Canadian hostesses and, heureusement, they have never called me "mon pere" or "cher papa."

Posted By: RespectfulRobert

Re: How about paramour or admirer?
I cant really say I like either of those, if being honest, lol, so "client" works for me. And "provider" is my preferred term for the lady.

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GeorgeSpelviniiione month ago13 reads

Re: How about paramour or admirer?

@impposter- Does that mean you won't see this one???? What if she calls you "Granddad" instead???

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impposterone month ago26 reads

Re: How about paramour or admirer?

If I should ever make her acquaintance, I'll hope that she's read this thread first!

Posted By: GeorgeSpelviniii

Re: How about paramour or admirer?
@impposter- Does that mean you won't see this one???? What if she calls you "Granddad" instead???

http://www.youtube.com/shorts/UNufeVQ86sg
She can call me imp. She can call me impposter. .... Just don't call me Granddaddy!

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inicky462 months ago14 reads

I know that some object to "whoremonger"

because monger usually means seller, not buyer. But I still prefer it.
I also answer to:
1) sexual deviant.
2) pervert
3) wallet with legs.
Especially if the one doing the calling is hotter than hell and DTF.

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1angelinajones2 months ago16 reads

Re: I know that some object to "whoremonger"

😭 "Wallet-With-Legs"... E0M

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KatieKuada2 months ago16 reads

There's only one.

This will always be "the hobby". And the people who use this service are "hobbyists". Because this is only a hobby or a sport. It's all a pleasurable way to spend one's time. I'm not really "providing" a "service," and chances are, we're not dating. I don't like anything that makes it seem more romantic than it is. I like the reminder that this is just a game. But it's not all transactional. It can't be. No matter what we say, there are minor feelings on both sides. My real-life business clients are really just clients. There are really no feelings. Hell, I'm attached to a few of my cam guys! I guess it depends on how much you converse.

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coeur-de-lion2 months ago16 reads

I'm trying to process how . . . .

various forms of address has anything to do with making a session being "more romantic than it is." What would an example of that look like?

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KatieKuada2 months ago20 reads

Walk with me. . .

Imagine hearing "amour, amour" from this guy. I don't know how they got this footage of us from my early marriage but... It's possible.

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coeur-de-lionone month ago16 reads

Fortunately for me, . . . .

It's a rare occasion for me to get a look like this from a female I am wooing, but it has happened on a few occasions, so I understand now what you meant by seeming more romantic than it is.

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impposterone month ago24 reads

Re: Walk with me. . .

Imagine hearing "Amour, amour" from the beautiful Catherine Deneuve!

Posted By: KatieKuada

Re: Walk with me. . .
Imagine hearing "amour, amour" from this guy. I don't know how they got this footage of us from my early marriage but... It's possible.

Catherine Deneuve and an unidentified Smurf (1970):