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I'm getting a double for mine later this month
I made a double for my birthday with two of NY finest.My birthday is in 3 weeks. I have no clue what they have planned for me but they told me to take my vitamins and that they were going to take care of me the way I did for them on there birthday. If I remember correctly and i don't forget anything I sang Happy Birthday to both of them with a cake and a nice birthday gift.
I would accept anything that they offer. It's your birthday and if the relationship is anywhere near where mine is with these two girls then I know it wouldn't be offered if they didn't want me to have it. I'm a giver by nature but on my birthday it's the one day of the year where it's all about me........ Those are my 2 cents.Ok all of you wise and thoughtful people on here I do need a little help with this.
My birthday is next week, and I do have an appointment set up with my atf lady friend. Yes she does know it will be my birthday. I also know when her birthday was and I do know what I am getting her for her birthday.
My question to you all is this. If by chance she does get me something, or offer a special on our session should I or shouldn’t I accept her offer? I don’t want to offend her by taking her offer, but I also don’t want to receive a special rate just because it my birthday. It would be easier for me if she doesn’t do anything for it. I am not expecting anything from her nor do I want anything from her. Beside what she brings when we are together I do enjoy her company.
Your thought and suggestion will be appreciated and taken into consideration.
Thank yo
I made a double for my birthday with two of NY finest.My birthday is in 3 weeks. I have no clue what they have planned for me but they told me to take my vitamins and that they were going to take care of me the way I did for them on there birthday. If I remember correctly and i don't forget anything I sang Happy Birthday to both of them with a cake and a nice birthday gift.
I would accept anything that they offer. It's your birthday and if the relationship is anywhere near where mine is with these two girls then I know it wouldn't be offered if they didn't want me to have it.
I'm a giver by nature but on my birthday it's the one day of the year where it's all about me........
Those are my 2 cents.
Zak
And may never be given to you?
What is going on here lately?
I mean it's bad enough I got GaG telling some dude on the NYC board to fk a 45 year old broad over a 25 year old hottie and now I got you turning down a potential gift of free ass.
Christ, I can't even go on vacation without coming back to numerous piles of shit all over this joint for me to clean up.
I got laid tonite so since I am in a good mood, I'll help you out here.
You pay her the MSRP and ask her to give the free cooch to me. I am used to getting discounted poon so I won't suffer from all that guilt you seem to have built up.
Win/win
Just wanted to make sure I handle it the right way. Don't want to do anything stupid with her. I did that once this month and already lost.
Don't you ever give anyone (friends, family, etc) gifts? Do the recipients feel "stupid" when you do?
Come on bro.
I am pulling for you to be a "somebody" one day.
I mean, who really wants to be a "nobody?"
Bad choice of words again. (stupid) I was not thinking accepting a gift from her was stupid. I don't want to offend her by not accepting it, or having her think I am taking advantage of her generosity. I know it would be a one time gift because of my birthday, unless we are still seeing each other next year. I would never expect a reduce rate on any of our future session.
This is not real life. I am paying for her to come and visit me for two hours of her time. I want to make sure it is alright to accept a gift from her. That that is stupid or a good ideal, just that it is ok to do.
Why would I want to be a somebody when I am having way to much fun being a nobody?
Thank you
-- Modified on 3/7/2016 11:12:37 PM
You are not taking advantage.
She knows you enough to know it is your birthday and therefore it is either a business or a friendship decision she makes, if she does give you a present or wharever.
Do not overthink this.
The worst thing you could do would be less than gracious in receiving a gift/
The "right way" to handle a gift is to accept it gracefully.
Or are you suggesting it's ok for you to give her a gift, but not okay for her to do the same?
Are you seriously trying to lock up the SPOTY when it's only March?
I am trying to win that award?
Yes I will accept a gift from her gracefully. Just wanted to make sure it is ok to accept a gift from a provider.
With all of the x-mas post about gifts giving or receiving gifts from a provider. I was just wondering about birthdays.
Thank you
-- Modified on 3/7/2016 10:41:12 PM
Graciously.
-- Modified on 3/7/2016 11:47:33 PM
If she offers you a Birthday Special and you seem to be on good terms with her, I'd say sure accept it. You should buy her a gift on her Birthday.
My ATF's Birthday is next month. I'm spending the whole day with her. I'm taking her out shopping and to dinner.
A former ATF I use to see always gave me a free session on my Birthday.
Overnight with my original ATF. I paid for dinner, she for the hotel, and I left the next morning a very happy man. Nothing more needs to be said...
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