A body rub lady on Switter who has a low profile and is not present on any of the regional or national boards asked me for references when I requested to meet.  I understand her desire for references on people she meets but did not provide her references until I think this through.   I really don’t know this lady except through her posts and I don’t want to expose any of the ladies I’ve seen to undue risk.   I’m sure many of these Switter ladies were previously on BP but some of our mainstream ladies are also on Switter anticipating changes to Twitter.

But it’s always best to contact those you would give as a reference giving them who it is you want to see and getting there response directly and relevant to you.

ask for references either.  Do you really feel comfortable walking into that situation?

I’m comfortable walking into a situation where I’m only expecting a massage,  if anything spontaneously occurs that’s between two consenting adults.

most often heard by LE when they bust a John.  If the fake LE ad offered more than a massage, guess what's not going to fly?  If any of the FS buzz words like "escort, companion, model," or other euphemisms were in the ad, and the word "massage" is not there, nobody is going to believe you just went there for a massage.  So you can add giving a false statement to LE to the charge of solicitation.    

Saying anything to cops that have just busted you balls deep in your "masseuse" is a terrible idea.  

I want the gentlemen to contact me with the ladies info. I'll google to see what I can find but in the end i'm watching my back. Any gentleman that wants to take one of the team, have at it but certainly don't expect a lady to follow suit. I use to feel if I could find just a history of a lady with the same phonenumber running ads I would give the reference. Now i'm nervous

....who had nothing but a phone number. No reviews, no webpage. I don't know where they came from in terms of web presence - maybe BP or some other bottom shelf site. They all insisted on references (which was a nice surprise), preferably within the last 6 months. One gal asked about my P411 profile and mentioned that she was bummed that she could no longer join P411 due to the recent membership freeze.  

Nothing else on post so I would go into it looking for a body rub. Last time I checked that is not against the law.....yet

But i will only see a girl if she has a P411 account or if someone here provides a reference.  No agencies u der any circumstances and if course women i have known for quite a while. That's  reality. I feel badly for a new girl but she won't be on my list

I agree with you in theory.  But I do have a new number in my phone for a $40 lollipop if I am in the Providence area.  

but even if that were to happen, it's only a crime if they can "prove" she was fucking you in exchange for money, which can happen only one of three ways. Either the guy admits to it, which would make him an idiot. The woman admits to it, which would make her an idiot. Or the whole thing was caught on tape, which means you're simply fucked and nothing you say can do anything but dig the hole deeper.

If she has no online presence other than Switter, not a website, nothing....then that seems a little sketchy. I would be careful with that.

If a client asks me to give him a thumbs up, I am more than happy to do so. I don't give a FRA where that contact advertises or not, etc. and it's not my business to get involved in his choices. Simply sending a reply and communicating "safe to see" is the very least that I can do FOR the gentlemen that requests it.  Just my opinion for FWIW. (nothing likely, of course lol)  
Much love from Amsterdam xo xoxo Crissi Sins

I wouldn't feel uncomfortable giving a guy that I actually saw on Switter a reference. It's not like I'm going to be there in case anything untoward happens, and my email isn't in any way shape or form connected to my "real life." If he feels comfortable seeing her, I will certainly tell her he was safe. Still, I could not guarantee that SHE is safe. For example: let's say she were hypothetically LE and asked me explicit questions, I would ignore her (and also warn my client). Whether or not he would go anyway is not my decision, nor am I impacted by it. But there's always a risk. Such is life, I suppose.  

Honestly I do not see much of a difference.

They seem safer than the new girls with no p411

service from the agencies I use. In fact, since all this BS started. I've been getting extra time everytime I book.  Seems like everyone is looking for repeat business and going the extra mile to ensure a good time.