For me talking is not just a plus but a must. I enjoy good conversation. Getting to know about other people, what they think and what they like is a turn on.
I am normally a chatty person in real life. But when I meet with a provider, I like zero to no talking. In fact, that is one reason I chose women that come here abroad.
I don't mind chit-chat, but I don't want to play 20 questions. I like to get in and get out.
What about you?
Most providers I have known, once you get to know them, are interesting and special. While the sexual aspect is the obviously the main reason for participation in the hobby, I enjoy getting to know the ladies that I meet with on a more personal level, rather than just f*cking them and moving on. Most of them seem to appreciate this quality as well, rather than the once and done clients that they will never see again.
Then again, that's just my experiences and strategies as far as hobbying goes, which may differ from yours.
For me, I actually enjoy getting to know people. I'm GFE, not PSE.
But it's all personal preference, right? Depends on the gent and the lady. Most of my friends like to get personal before we 'get it on.' I also like to know, specifically, what a gentleman enjoys so I can do my best to please him. And I like to build relationships instead of just sucking cock and moving on. Interesting conversation, though.
Smiles,
ReBecca
I like to develop some rapor, and I'm more into GFE than PSE...so, I do appreciate a Provider who is fascinating and a great conversationalist. I'm not really interested in becoming a BFF, but there are my regular ATFs that I do like hearing about their lives and interests -- one ATF is very opinionated, quite intelligent and has such an interesting take on politics, life lessons and life in general...and she's an amazing f--k, so I enjoy her company as much as her services.
Bottom-line, i'm in the hobby for P4P, but when you find a Provider with a fascinating personality, it enhances the experience. And, makes you want to see her again and again...each session becomes better and better especially because you feel comfortable enough to explore your fantasies and share some intimacies.
If not for the two way communication I may as well down load some porn and save some money.
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...wait...no they're not, they're kinda creepy.
I do appreciate your honesty and it is good to keep in mind. That I should not be too chatty. The first meeting is abit about getting to know each other. I hope for your sake and the ladies that you come with above average references and you are honest up front about your expectations..
From a ladies perspective, If you walked in my door and said let's get down to business I would be turned OFF.. Guess, I am a southern girl, wine me, dine me and then 69 me...Are you one of those that
wants to walk in the door get down to business for every second of the 60 minuntes and then do the dash out the door? Does it make you feel superior in some way? Do you not want the lady to have a genuine interest in you?
Now, after getting to know each other a few visits if you called me up and said Hey, I am gonna swing by and #### I am all about the thrill of that.
May I suggest, just buy a blow up doll you willl get the same effect.
and talk about the first thing that pops up.
(I'll go stand in the corner now.)
you have to pay for this fantasy. If you want a quick fu*k and suck or a live fu*k doll, then have at it. For me, I'll take door #1 anytime.
For me talking is not just a plus but a must. I enjoy good conversation. Getting to know about other people, what they think and what they like is a turn on.
I want to get lost in the moment the minute I meet and start to get my motor running. It takes time to warm my engines up and does so for most men as well. Conversation might help some nervous first timers but a whole lot of tongue works much better. Getting in the heat of the moment can be every bit GFE as sitting and making small talk. Want a drink ? how about waiting till your really thirsty. Getting lost in the moment and losing track of time is far better than wondering why there's not enough time to do what you came there for.
I myself wonder if some men feel they are being rushed because i'm a lady who wants to get in the moment right away. Would you feel I am rushing you just because I plant my lips on yours and pull you into my pleasureland ?
Kisses Haley
No I would not feel rushed. I'd love it. I like to talk but it can happen at any point along the way.
I am okay with a little talk up front, but I do like to kiss, caress and explore immediately, so the talk is pretty simple, mostly along the lines of warm greetings (lovely to meet you, god you are sexy - that kind of rocket science). In my hobbying time, that has seemed fine with most providers but I can think of one particularly chatty lady with whom I had no rapport at all, the date was a bust, and I think a lot of it was that she wanted to talk about all sorts of stuff, and I wanted her to shut up.
I do like smart and interesting women and enjoy lots of conversation afterward, just prefer to start with passion and warm caresses.
But, it is not always like that. There is one lady who entertains me greatly and we discuss art, philosophy, what is and is not beautiful, what are the sexiest places on the human body and more during foreplay. This began the first time we met, and it put me off a bit - the big head got more excited than the little one. It has grown on me since then and I do enjoy it.
One thing I have not yet done is talk much once things get truly passionate, but I expect to try that too, one of these days.
So I guess it is not so much about whether or not I like to talk, but rather whether I want to talk with her, now, here, and the answer is probably not a lot to start, but I never know for sure.
Zig
And I have to admit, I sort of have a weakness for bright women; so I like a bit of conversation with them.
Certainly, at times, if they know what they are doing, intelligible speech is a bit beyond me. But outside of those times, I like a lady who can chat.
Yes, I've had a lady play 20 questions when I have been a bit outside the norm of most clients she has seen. But I don't really mind. As long as they don't ask any "if I told ya I'd hafta kill ya" questions, I see no problem with answering them for a woman with whom I've been intimate.
I'm the nervous type when meeting someone new so I need the small talk to calm down a bit. Otherwise I wouldn't enjoy the session.
Thankfully most of my reviews mention that I am big into conversation, so it's been a while since anyone has mistakenly thought we could skip the getting-to-know-you part. 
To each his own, but it's not for me!
I love to have conversations with the gentleman I see it makes for a more pleasurable experience in my opinion.It is not 20 questions more like an intelligent conversation that flows like water before something else is flowing if you get my drift!Everyone might not agree with me but when a gentleman contacts a provider who does provide a Girlfriend Fantasy he wants something a lot more than "wham bam thank you ma'am See ya!I am out!"
He wants the conversations,the passion,and not being rushed.I can have a conversation with a gentleman on vast array of different topics.The guys who I see usually set appointments for extended amount of time so that is a chance to have a conversation get to know one another a little better before the hot naughty fun.But,don't get me wrong I know how to shut the hell up when it is time to get down to business.
There is a gentleman that I have seen quite a few times he is not very talkative at first but after some time he does open up everyone is different.If you want a provider with zero or little talking then you are most likely not looking for a GFE.Some providers who just want to take care of the guy hurry up and be gone before the next guy.That certainly is not me I like to take time talk get acquainted get down to some fun maybe more conversation and on a couple of occasions time has ran over because of the conversation the gentleman and I was having was very interesting.
I prefer talking to actual sex. Funny, but the providers I frequent do, too!
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