Hi,

    I'm hoping for some advice.  I don't have any problem with the first pop; the problem is getting it up for a second.  (I figure if I'm paying $$$$ or $$$$$ for a full hour with a premium provider who allows second pops, I really ought to get my money's worth...)

    What if I took a Viagra at the very start of the session?  Viagra is supposed to take 30 minutes to kick in, so I can get the first pop in the first 20 minutes, and then hopefully the Viagra wil kick in and get it up so I can have a second pop in the final thirty minutes.

   Has anyone tried this?  Would it work?  Or do you have any other advice about how to achieve a second pop in an hour session?

Thanks!!!

Have read and heard comments that Viagra can actually help to defer a second pop.  My advise is to go for quality and not quantity - this two, three and four pop mentality can actually cause you to think so much about it that you may not even hit numero uno.

If you don't have any problems getting wood, then taking Viagra does nothing for you except cost you money.  It will NOT help you quicken/stiffen for round 2.

the times that I have had numero 2 pop - have all been with very skilled ladies.... who were (I hope) into me as much as I am into them.... unfortunately they live in other cities... but when I do see them I try to make a 3-4 hour dinner date (where possible).  In that manner, we usually have sex, rest, eat, have more sex....   so that the "evening" is enjoyed... trying to "go around the world" in 60 min TWICE just does not make much sense to me...  

I also find that ladies, when I schedule time like that, are very happy to see me, because they know, it will be enjoyable for them also (or so I hope) and because of that, they are more willing to relax and have fun themselves.  My only regret was I had scheduled something like that on a couple of occasions and in one instance we had plans for a night at the theater... and I came down with a fever and sore throat... and could not go (I did provide the tickets to the lady - as she did wish to see the play) and in the other instance, I went vagal just due to a lot of worries that had nothing to do with the lady.... and that kinda took the wind outta my sails... but for the most part, the fun, eats & rest, fun schedule works much better than viagra, levitra or anything else chemical....

It also helps if you "know" your refractory period... not that hard to figure out.  When I first reentered hobbying after my divorce, one lady I was with, asked me very politely what mine was.... she then set out to help me determine it! lol  - now THAT was fun!

Good luck



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I'm more likely to give a second to someone who treats me well as opposed to someone who walks right in and says, I can get 2 cups if I'm fast right or someone who keeps asking and asking during the inbetween down time. How VERY un-sexy/romantic/interesting so on and so on.

I have found that viagra doesn't affect my ability to get hard or the time between pops.  What it does do is keep me a lot harder during sex.  I'm able to bang away longer with a harder dick.  It's great!

I suggest booking two-hour appointments.  That's my preference.  I like to pop twice in appointments and usually can't in a one-hour meeting.  I can no problem in two hours.

I have heard that some men use it for recreational purposes, and some even claim that it works for them (which could be the placebo effect) It is designed for those who have physical problems with erections, and as I do since my cancerous prostate was removed.   Sometimes I can pop more than once, but it has nothing to do with the Viagra.  Without the Viagra I could not get erect (although I could pop) and thus could not engage in coitus.

Viagra gets me good hard wood, but it tends to desensitize my penis somewhat and make me last a long time before my first pop...I do not usually worry about a second pop...cause the first is so damn good...unless it is a two hour session that is.

I too suffered from second pop syndrome (ya...i just made that term up) Round 1 was never a problem but more often than not I couldn't finish round two in an hour.

I tried Viagra but it didn't really work.  I later tried Cialis and found it to be much better, and it does help me quite a bit with the second pop syndrome.

One thing to keep in mind though is that these ED drugs are only meant to give you a woody, and getting the body to "pop" is a separate function. If your body isn't able to recoup quickly enough to manufacture the "pop", you'll just have a big useless woody to contend with.

My experiences with Cialis have been very positive in terms of the whole second pop situation. I take it 45 mins - 1 hour before the appointment. Junior is ready for round 2 almost immediately after round 1 is done, but I always take a little breather in between to recoup.

Which reminds me....it's time for a refill

I recently started addidng Yohimbe and Ginseng supplements to my diet, and wow, has it made a difference.  My erections are as hard as they were when I was 16, and I can get back up in seconds.

Though before taking Yohimbe, talk to your Doc as it can lead to a spike in blood pressure.  But if your body can handle it, go for it.  Oh, and it only costs about $20 for a 100 pill jar.  I take one a day, whether I plan on having sex or not

It doesn't normally reduce refractatory period, at least not that much.  Even if you stay hard, your cock is likely to be pretty insensitive till it's ready again.  It also doesn't add to the amount of cum produced.  

Lastly, if you can get hard already and take Viagra, and if you get hard or stay hard after cumming, you most likely have one of those hard-ons from hell that won't go away.  It's an embarrassing thing for which to visit the ER.

Plus you invite all the other side effects.  Capillaries bursting in your face or eyes being one.

I have always wondered how that girl came up with the free tickets to the play. It was really fun.

And the BBBJDTTCCIMNQNS afterwards was priceless.

It actually takes an hour on an empty stomach before it works well. It would help get a second pop. What's really a bitch is when you down the pill on the way to your appointment only to get a call (or no call) cancelling the appointment.

the problem with Viagra is sometimes it gets you up and does not let you down for the first let alone getting you into a second round. With Viagra, YMMV in that you never know how it will affect each individual.  

Bummer,then you have to pull over and take the matter into your own hands.

Sorry, couldn't help but be just a bit amused by that statement.  We ALL use it for recreational purposes...

"I have heard that some men use it for recreational purposes,"

Yep, that's the bitch of it.
Without Viagra I can't stay hard long enough to finish the job, with it I can go for hours but frequently still not finish.

...shocking the massage therapist.

"I'm sorry, but it's not entirely my fault... You touched it."