I am not starting this thread to point fingers or anything of the sort....just to hear honest opinions.

I have been in this business for four years now and counting.  I have 11 pages of reviews on here that pretty much explain everything I will and won't do and explicit details of how a session will most likely go.  Most of the reviews are great, but like everyone else I am not perfect.  Most people who see me, usually proceed in reading a few of these "stories" to get an idea of how things might unfold.

Recently I have encountered two different things that I find to be odd and that have never happened to me in the four plus years I've been doing this.  

First: A gentlemen comes to see me and doesn't bring my number along to call upon arrival.  MMMMMMMM is that odd or is that just me?  You have been viewing my site and IMing with me for 8 straight days and never thought to grab my number one time before coming to meet me?  And also only knew what hotel I was at, not even the room number.  That seems a bit odd IMO.  

Second: This one has to do with reviews and details.  Anyone who has ever seen me knows that A) I only do CBJ and there's no persuading me to change that. B) If you book an hour that means one cup of coffee.  Why is that?  I am young but that doesn't mean I am a machine.  I love sex and what I do and hope to continue enjoying it.  I am not a piece of meat, but human, contrary to what some may believe.  SO anyways, basically, one hr, one pop, two hours, two pops and so on.  I saw a person a while back with a girlfriend and his friend.  They didn't pay the 2 girl donation and didn't mention they wanted time with both of us, but that's what was expected.  It was an hour session and once again in my reviews it pretty much states one hr, one pop.  I recently hear that the person is telling potential clients that they shouldn't see me because I only offer one pop per hour.  This is a bit appauling to me in more ways than one because I was given a glowing review from this person.  On top of that it was said that his friend was very disappointed and "pissed" but yet I still see his friend with the one hr one pop thing.  

Am I over reacting to all of this or does this seem a little off the wall to you as well?  I have been pondering this for the last few hours and decided to come here for insight from my fellow board members.

And another question: What do you guys expect from us girls?  Robots that lay there for 3 pops in an hour?  A girl who has seen two guys before you and is a bit, ummmmmmm worn out because she's a machine?  Someone you can connect with on a different level than just sex?  A crowd pleaser?  Someone who enjoys her job and it shows?  What are your guys expectations, so to speak for an appt?  And by expectations not meaning, bbbj, daty etc.  

Sorry for the long rant and hope no one thinks I am being crass, I just want honest opinions please.

Thanks,

Confused Tasha

Others will disagree, I'm certain.

1) Yes, that seems very odd. How did he expect to locate you if he didn't take your phone number? However, even smart people sometimes do really dumb things.

2) I've never done the kind of date you describe. I guess your experience demonstrates that everyone should strive to make sure the rules are clear in advance. The more complex the situation the more likely it will be that not everyone shares the same expectations.

3) You are going to get a variety of answers on this one. Speaking only for myself (and I am at an advanced age where the hormones don't flow nearly as fiercely as they once did) a feeling of human contact has become very important to me. If after the appointment I feel that I experienced nothing but a mechanical performance it probably won't leave much of a glow. On the other hand (and nothing says that we guys have to be consistent about this) my ATFs (Ashley Shye and Mia Domore) push the sexual envelope very hard and have taken me places that I never would have gone on my own initiative. I like that too.

You might want to ask the third question on The Erotic Highway. The Love Goddess gives some very insightful answers to emotional questions related to this hobby.

I not sure my thoughts are much help since I'm pretty confused about what I want and am certainly no expert on what anyone else wants.

Mathesar

I have been pondering this myself from the other perspective. If I pay for an hour or a half hour of time and things start off too quick, I want to maximize my time because nothing else I know of costs that much per minute. Time management is important or an engagement can end too fast leaving me feeling ripped off. Yea, we need to be more aware of your physical needs and limitations. And I am. And, it's a lot about the non-phisical interaction. I would say, in my experience, ladies should play out the begining, the foreplay, longer. The guy will be ready to bust and have no problem finishing in time.

Yup some expect 2-3 in 1 hour!! I do and I am done for the day. I feel same way 1=1, 2=2 IMO its selfish to ask for 2-3 in 1 hour. I will feel like a tired ragdoll.

Like I'm saying, draw out the begining. Save the best for the end. Ya'll seem to always want to get right to it as if youre trying to get off early. If he's a jerk about it, nothing you can do.

1) I am impeccably prepared (even if my cell is calling you all on its own by accident...lol) so I can honestly say I don't understand how one wouldn't have all the details covered...but maybe it was a one time mistake.

2) I personally don't count pops.  I've had one hour appts where I've popped twice and overnights where I've popped twice and both were awesome experiences in their own right.  I'd much rather have the time flow for both of us in a natural way...and if a 2nd pop in the hour seems natural and both are agreeable I see no problem with going for it.  But both need to be agreeable and I certainly don't go into a session with any preconceived notions about pops.  Any preconceived notions I might have are more with maybe what the girl does well or maybe what I haven't yet done with the girl that I'd like to try this time.

3) I expect us to interact like real lovers to a large degree, lovers who are having fun.  Take the $$$ out of the equation and let's pretend that we've known each other a long time and we're so happy to see each other again that we can't help but play together.  I've outlined my expectations in previous posts as far as GFE so I won't go over that again, besides you surpassed my expectations regarding them and I am looking forward to a repeat if/when we can make it work.  But what I really want is to be able to relax, be myself, and interact with a girl on the physical as well as (somewhat) the emotional level.  It certainly helps if the girl enjoys what she does and likes the way I touch her.  If they don't it won't be a good appointment.   Which is why I try my best to stay with low volume providers who haven't seen someone else that day at all, or schedule so that I'm first on the calendar for that day.

So that's me.  Let the flaming begin if I'm too much out of the "this is a fucks for bucks" box!

Slo-

1. I don't think there's a girl out there who doesn't enjoy the way you touch them. Btw, sorry about the large wet spot on your bed! hehe.

2. One thing I really like about hanging with you is that you like to talk and chill and you treat me like an old friend/lover/whatever. You are a perfect gentleman who seems genuinely interested in cuddling and conversation as well. That helps to make it a fun experience. (That and the orgasms.)

Either way, you're a gem.

Mwah.

Katie

My goodness, I can totally understand where you are coming from. I mean the audacity of a guy that pays $400+ to see you for an hour and is turned on and gets off in 15 minutes and then has the gall to ask to try for a second given he has paid you for a whole hour. I know it has to be tough to lay on your back and spread your legs. Personally, I would rather get off in 5 or 10 minutes and then lay around with the provider and listen to their interesting background as I prefer talking and cuddling vs. hot sex no matter how much I pay.

Bottom line, boo hoo, provide value added for your clients and don't be so uptight. I am sure there will be plenty of guys responding to my post saying I am so out of line and that they totally understand where you are coming from in some lame attempt to try to develop more of a rapport with you; and for them I say, whatever losers. I read posts like yours and that tells me one thing, you are not up for going the extra mile and I would not roll the dice on hanging out.  Happy Holidays!

PS - where did you go to college? You might want to work on your vocabulary/spelling in regards to "appauling". A provider that does not have proper grammar is a total turnoff for me.

1. Odd? Maybe yes, maybe no. He very well could have had a lot on his mind that day and thought he had it with him, maybe he was running late and simply forgot it. There's a ton of innocent oversight reasons that could have happened. Or, maybe he's just an idiot. If that were the case, there's no shortage of idiots out there so it's not really that odd!

IMO----> Count yourself lucky because this pales in comparison to a lot of stuff providers pull that falls into the "odd" category.


2. Not every guy is a TER VIP member. If they aren't VIP, they can't see the details of your profile and the services you do/don't offer.  Nor could they read the "juicy details" sections. This could explain some instances of guys going against the grain.

IMO---> The fact that this happens now and then isn't odd at all, but if it happens all the time, then yes it would be odd.

3. This one struck a nerve with me to be honest.  Do we think your a machine? No. But apparently you think of guys as machines, ATM's that is.


The guy who forks over $400 for 1 hour of your time is doing so because he wants HIS hour to be enjoyable to HIM. And at $400 for an hour, he deserves to get that, and a second pop is by no means an unreasonable request.  The only thing I see as unreasonable here is that you seem to think that his hour should be less satisfying to him because YOU may be tired, and he should just suck that up and not blink an eye about giving you $400   .

To answer your question "what do you guys expect from us?".......we expect our time to be of pleasure to US. What you did before we get there, and after I've left, isn't our concern.  We don't think you are fucking machines, we just expect that you will take the necessary measures to make sure that our time and money is well spent with you. If you aren't capable of delivering $400 worth of services in an hour because your tired, or sore, or not a "machine", then don't take the damn money. Or book less appointments in a day. Or charge $250 for a 1 pop session like the Craigslist girls do.

I don't know what baffles me more....the fact that providers can have so little respect for the hand(s) that feed them, provide them with a huge income, keep them in fancy cars, etc.. or the guys that happily sit back and just accept what has become such as ass backwards service industry.

Being charitable, I hope he forgot to bring your #. I once brought the wrong number (typo), and was kicking myself that I didn't bring my computer along that had her contact info. Fortunately, she was running late, and called me.

Like peterpickle said, not all guys are VIP. I've hobbied enough that I don't need to read the detail reviews. You might want to:

1) Ask TER to update you profile to change Multiple Pops to One.

2) Update your Citivibe add to state one pop.

I don't expect the lady to be a robot. Maybe that's why some ladies prefer older guys. Not that I wouldn't enjoy a 2nd pop, but after one pop, I also enjoy chatting with the lady while we are laying together, or she is giving me a sensual massage, etc.

why don't you lodge your bs on my website:  www.gfy.com (in case you are a little thick, that stands for go F yourself!)

You're the one putting your body & health on the line every time, it's your right to lay out whatever rules you want.

If guys want things you don't offer, there's plenty of other providers who do, & they're free to see them instead.

About the only thing I could think of is maybe clarify on your site that 1 hr=1 pop, paraphrase your post to explain your reasons.  The profile here doesn't say More Than One Pop IN AN HOUR, so "sometimes" is accurate, longer dates get more pops.

& to the guy who jumped all over you for misspelling "appalling", wow, ONE typo in a long post like this, yeah, that's a good reason to not see somebody, lol.

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and that's fine, we all need to once in a while.

Honestly, any guy who books an appointment and doesn't have your contact number with him on the day of is just a dope. I wouldn't lose much sleep over it.

As far as your policy about one hour/one pop goes. You have a right to run your business how ever you like but you can't realistically expect guys not to mention it to other guys when questions about your service come up. I'm a two hour/one pop guy so I could care less but I do look for a certain level of GFE service for that two hours. My experience has been that women who count pops and not the time on the clock tend not to be full GFE and not my cup of tea. Weather you realize it or not, others feel the same way.
I don't really consider giving a guy an hour's worth of service for an hour's worth of money to be robotic. If this is what works for you than I say keep doing what works for you.

I don't mean this as a criticism. I am just giving one man's opinion on the way some of us perceive things.

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1. was this his excuse for not seeing you?  odd?  yes, but shit happens and often in this business.

2. not everyone reads all the reviews, so, not always aware of what you offer.  Do I think it's unreasonable to expect 2 cups if the timing is right? Nope, not one bit.  I at least expect the opportunity to do so if I wish.  

All my SO's were more than able to go for multiple hours per day.  Maybe they were machines, I didn't think so.

If the guy in question is telling potentials not to see you because of one pop, I don't really see that as that odd.  Many guys want multiple pops, if there is some question, most guys will PM, etc. to find out their experience.  Maybe he won't have to tell anyone and they can just refer to this post.

If you are still consistently seeing this person, good for you, this is a business and you are making money from him.  While one pop maybe ok for him, he understands that it is not for others and is telling them so they are clear.

IMHO, guys are here to play.  The more the better.  Most are going to look for more bang for the buck.

You are free to run your business how you feel. Good luck, you seem to be doing fine.

As for forgetting to bring your number:

   One of the true tragedies of getting older is someones ceaseless talent at misplacing something or leaving it behind. This is far more closely linked to if the item is unusual than its importance. Those of us getting on in years refer to this as "having a senior moment". So truth be told I have forgotten someone's number and not realized it until I was well on my way. Fortunately she called me to tell me she was running late.

Pops per hour:
   
   Since you have a hard and fast rule of 1 cup per hour, I suggest that you include this information on your web site. That way its clear.


Robots in the sack:

   This is about everyones expectations. Yours and theirs. Some guys frankly don't care and just want to get off. Others seek a fantasy which you may fulfill. Personally I'm not into robots, but if the timing works out that we can have a second go I'm all for it. I generally don't begrudge either decision, nor would I penalize someone in a review. However the dynamic how a second cup did or did not fit into the flow of the appointment does influence whether or not I would see a lady again. Generally I find that if the over all experience was very good and the natural flow of our time did not allow for a second cup I don't miss it.

-J

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Without trying to answer all the questions, I encourage you to set your paramenters and live by them.

There will be those who will see you and those who won't. That choice is theirs. With regard to the "talking about you", I am sure you would be shocked if you heard all the things you did or did not do with retellings by the gentlemen who have seen you.

Look past it!

OFF

1- I did forget to bring her phone # once simply because of the hectic morning preceding the appointment. Luckily she had emailed me the detailed info. the night before and I knew where to go.

2- Those who have read your reviews and understood the information should know what to expect. For those who haven't read them, it's your responsibility to clarify your rules. Finally, everyone wants to receive more than they have paid for, literally or figuratively. Some will pursue this more aggressively than others, to the point of making it a principle, so don't be surprised if they ask you for two pops even if they signed an agreement stating: One hour = One pop. This is part of business.

3- Personally, I expect not to have been given any misleading information and perfect hygiene. Everything else is YMMV.

And you're a gem too...

Based upon the info supplied in your first incident it is hard to react in fair accordance to what really happened.  Perhaps he forgot his cell phone, perhaps he scribbled your number down and forgot/lost the note but recalled the hotel, perhaps he changed his mind and used this as an excuse, who knows?  He could be as innocent as being forgetful, maybe he is a flake or maybe he is rude and did not have the decency to cancel with proper due notice.  While I understand that the situation would be bothersome to you, in light of your 11 pages of reviews with mostly satisfied clients, this sounds like a real out- there exception.  I would not dwell on it.

Re: Your CBJ, one-pop policy.  I believe every provider can and should set her limits and rules and every hobbyist should respect them and not agressively seek to ask the lady to make an exception.  And while some guys who may ask you to change your ways may be representative of the a-hole male client, you seem to be making an assumption that every client had or has access to the details of your reviews.  Although this does not apply to me personally as a TER VIP member, there is a gray area for guys without access to a ladies reviews as phone and/or email discussions usually and rightfully avoid mention of specific acts/services.  So it is possible that someone is seeing you hoping that you allow BBBJ and multi-pops and will not know until they are with you.  I'll repeat again that when they learn of your rules then they should be followed and the guys should act as gents.  However it also their right to express some level of disappointment in their following reviews as long as they accurately report the facts (e.g  'I was unaware that she had a CBJ, single pop policy so that took away from my complete satisfaction. But...').  It is presumptious to assume that every guy knows the deal going in...

Finally regarding your machine references.  As you stated you had an urge to rant and certainly there are guys out there who may act/feel that way.  Likewise there are providers out there who view their clients as ATM machines and will do whatever they can to get the most for delivering the least.  With so many people engaged in this biz it is inevitable that each side will come across those who shed bad light on those who play with two-way respect.  There are many, many ladies out there who willingly allow their clients to enjoy as many cups as they can muster within the boundaries of their agreed upon time.  Many of these ladies take delight in seeing their clients achieve multiple climaxes.  These ladies run the gamut in age, physical attributes and experience.  You have decided to provide under a different rule-set.  That is fine and your rules should be respected but don't view all guys and ladies for that matter who deal differently then you in such harsh non-human terms.                          







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Ouch that sucks, sorry to hear about your troubles. You should seek a refund on the 6 figure education that it took to get this job, trade in the Lexus SUV for a used Hyundai, sell your nice house and move into a studio apartment, exchange that flexible make your own schedule lifestyle for 50 hours a week with 2 weeks vacation, take a 4000% cut in hourly pay, and go back to stocking shelves at WalMart. You'll finally rid yourself of such unimaginable dilemmas at the office! Maybe in 5 years you'll get promoted, get that 3rd week vacation and a 2% annual raise too!

Thanks,

Confused guy

PS. You asked for honest opinions so I gave mine.   You are probably a kind & decent person and all but you really sound like a spoiled brat in this post. d

You bring up an interesting topic.  However, I am unsure that the questions you pose are really important. It seems to me that clear communication and respect (client & provider) are your real issues.

Your 1 hour per cup policy seems reasonable providing that it is understood by both parties at the beginning of your session.  Perhaps you could mention it as one of your ground rules or even offer it as an upgrade for someone who was in absolute need.

My major concern is that you seem to have genuine anger in regards to the way some of your clients percieve you (ie robot - machine comments).  And, to think that your clients have an obligation to read your reviews and know what to expect is presumptuous at best, self indulgent at worst.

Fascinating. So many underlying issues come to mind.  I find it curious that nothing ever seems to be said about how many pops the provider may enjoy. Granted, in my experience with women, my focus has always been (and always will be) to 'help' with as many as physically possible in the time we have. Much of my enjoyment of the whole experience is founded in that principle. Few things are more insulting to me than a woman faking orgasms or lying about it. So unnecessary. I understand that many men see this as their opportunity to fuck something (other than their hand) and others see it as much more. Different 'strokes' (sorry) but how many times someone gets off in an hour, to me (a confirmed one pop guy) is utterly irrelevant. According to all the 'proper' criteria, it's the "time" that is being paid for and, considering that there are many attorneys (living in much more comfort than this boy!) who make half of what many providers do, that's a pretty good profit margin (whatever their 'overhead' is).
So true that not all of us can get the 'complete' picture easily. Obviously, this site is often the closest thing to the 'test drive' prior to purchase (let's hope they don'tr start charging us full price to test drive that next new car!!! We're doomed if that happens). Hence, not all are up to snuff with the details. Common sense and common courtesty should prevail in all situations anyway. From BOTH parties. It is a bit of a dillema when 'discussion' often carries a strict gag order but not knowing EVERYTHING is unacceptable.
All of that said, I am eternally grateful that you women are able to do what you do and the risks you take. I only wish there was more of a 'market' in reverse. I think I could make a go of that!

#1.  We're guys.  We do dumb shit sometimes.  Next.

#2.  I've seen you a couple times, and never knew until reading this that you're a one per hour provider.  I think that because your profile can't account for how many hours the guy might be there for, "sometimes" is technically correct, but could be mis-interpreted as more than one/hour.  I did know about the cbj, and also know that some guys would love to see you if it weren't for that.  That's clear from your profile, so it's no cause for complaint.

#3.  I think your confusion lies in that you're describing a connection as NOT wanting multiple times per hour, and from a guy's perspective, the illusion that you're my GF (at least for the hour) is that you'll want to be all over me, for as much as you can get.

Hope that helps.

That there is nothing wrong with every point you made... my guess is your anger is because some people lost the clue and you got stuck getting it for them...

Now to my opinion... the expectation from guys vary tremendiously from guy to guy... so some guys will look at you like a robot or a piece of meat. Most won't... CBJ is a choice and there will always be people challenging that... but in the end it is your body and your rules... if they dont like it... well there is enough variety that potential clients can go elsewhere.

as far as multiple pops... its never been offered and I have never tried... so I don't know their motivation... I am guessing it goes back to there are always those few who...

My guess it is all a cycle and you just have hit yours... it will go away soon enough... if you have made it this far... eventually you will see it through...

I am sorry for your suffering. i hope it passes soon.

a question... has anyting in your life changed? maybe you have changed and now these things are bothersome, where as before they were not? just a thought?

Thankfully the photos remain!!!

I think 1 hour 1 pop is baloney.  Sure, I usually can't go for a second and almost always never try.  But at times I do like to try at least.  Heck, a quick pop can be a quick release but leave you hungry for more.  I think it's a must to say up front what the deal is.  I ALWAYS like the idea of having the second pop option even if I seldom use it.  Now, if you are charging $150 for 30 min then I say, sure, 1 pop is the deal.  But $400 for an hour...I would fully expect the option of a second shot.  But don't worry about running into me.  The cbj is a deal killer for me.

It's not so much that I don't want to allow a guy to enjoy himself to the fullest.  And I myself only book two appts a day at the most to make sure that everyone gets Tasha not the run down craigslist girl.  If you look at my reviews from the past when I was with an agency, you can see when I was expected to see 3 or 4 guys a day.  Is that thier fault, NOPE. It's mine for working with them.  Do I feel that a guy paying $400 an hour is something I deserve, not really.  He is chosing to give that to me and I appreciate every man who does see me.  We can't all click which I understand and respect.  I never want a guy to leave me feeling like his hard earned money wasn't well spent.  Not all of grew up with a silver spoon in our mouth and can throw money around, a lot work hard for it.  

AS for going the extra mile in an appt, I almost always do.  I don't like rushing into things with a new appt especially and enjoy things like talking and foreplay.  I guess it just made me feel bad to hear that someone had something negative to say about me when I thought that the appt had went well and that I was leaving someone happy.

I also believe I am way better than a CL girl however and wouldn't allow myself to stoop to that level.  I have tried to allow guys more than one pop per hour and actually have been more than happy to do it.  But when I get guys that want to pound away at my cooter for 30mins then cum, and want to go again right away, there's only so much my sensitive parts can handle.

Sorry if I offened anyone here by this post.  I am not a prude and by far am not better than anyone.  I wasn't looking for a flaming I was simply asking for input and others opinions.

Tash

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because you're liable to get what you asked for. In this case, honest opinions.Remember TER is a two way street, guys will tell their experiences good and bad.

Your one pop rule would not really affect me. I usually take just about the whole hour for one pop, two is pretty much out of the question.

After reading your post however, I would be very unlikely to schedule with you. I am paying for an hour(remember paying for time and companionship only?), and an hour  is what I expect. Your rates, while not outrageous, are not cheap. If a guy wants to spend most of his hour inside of you, unless he's hung like a horse, that is part of the job description.

Not meant as a flame, but you did ask.

fulfill my hour and usually even stay longer.  I am far from a clock watcher and do not limit a guy on how long he has to "perform."  I may need a water break and a little daty to lube me back up, but don't complain if he's not finished in 10 minutes.  But I did ask for opinions and I appreciate everyones response, just didn't expect to be called a spoiled brat lol.  But, like you said, be careful what you ask for.

I guess I'll call this first public flamming LOL.

Hugs,
Tasha

I doubt this "public flaming" is going to kill your business.

Hugs, back atcha

and like the other lady said, I don't think anyone has a problem with the way you touch hehehehe.  I am sure we will cross paths again and thank you for the post hun.

Smooches and big hugs,
Tasha

Tasha, there isn't much I can add to what has already been said either way. There have been some opinions stated both supportive and in opposition to your post.

There are a couple things in your posts I find inconsistent. You ask if we think you are fuck machine in your original post and never think about the 2 guys you saw just before you saw us and then state in a later post that you never schedule more than 2 appointments in one day? Doesn't add up.

If you are too tired from previous appointments I would rather you contact me and cancel or reschedule than be so tired you become robotic? Sure I'd be disappointed that you cancelled but I'd probably be willing to reschedule. But if I saw you and had a bad experience because you were too tired for me to have a good time. In that case I probably wouldn't come and see you again.

As for the one hour one cup problem. I went to check out your website to see what it had on there. The first page says you want to 'turn us on, and on, and on....' Now this could just be me, but reading that would definitely make me think you were not a one pop girl (even for an hour.) Nor is there anything else on your site that would make me believe that I couldn't have 2 cups in an hour if I was so inclined.

Occasionally I will pop too soon the first time and have no problem going for a second cup in an hour. Other times I don't and could only go for one cup in an hour no matter how many you were willing to offer.

However, based on your post I'd be leary of seeing you because, in the back of my mind, I would know that you weren't really wanting to give me a second cup. This hobby is about the fantasy and for me, a big part of that fantasy would be missing just because I read your post.

Which really sucks because I'm heading to Vegas next month and you are a beautiful girl with great reviews.

however, when I had mentioned the "fuck machine" part I wasn't referring to myself hun. I was generalizing some of the girls who take mutiple appts in a day.  Sorry for the confusion.  And I wasn't saying that I always only allow one pop per hour which is why it's not posted on my website.  But there are some guys who can go and go and go and take almost the whole hour to complete and then want to try for round two and after an hour of rubber burn there's only so much I can handle.  I've had plenty of guys that finished quickly and we tried and/or completed two rounds in the hour. But I do understand your perspective and others.  

Thanks again,
Tasha

I don't know about the first part but let me give you some insight into the second part or rather how I do things.

First and foremost I can't and won't allow 59 minutes of friction...too painful. I have a physical limit and when that is up I stop and move to another method. If and only if I am asked for a second it is a hand job. The guys get their two pops and I don't get sore.

If they don't like that, then they are free to take their business elsewhere as I probably would not see them again anyway.

As for the "money's worth" gentlemen, you are within your rights to wring every little moment out of the session, just make sure you pick a provider who allows/enjoys this. I am not a fuck machine or a blow up doll and I am certainly not for the above mentioned men. And they are not for me.

I saw you about a year ago in Las Vegas at my house.  Though we had a good time, I unfortunately didn't do all my research and didn't know you only did CBJ.  We had a good time and I enjoyed it the best I could, but I didn't post a review, nor did I invite you back due to this.  Just not my cup of tea.

As for number of pops, I'm of the opinion if I can get it up for 2 or 3 pops, I'm donating for an hour of service, not 20 mins.  If I want to go 2 times, I think you should oblige.  Now it's a different story as 2x is rare with me.  It' not a 1-1 or 2-2 ratio IMHO.

Pump

The degree of distain and contempt I read in your post makes me think you got a button pushed. You will probably lead a happier life if you figure out what it is, and how to remove it.

-- Modified on 12/6/2007 6:14:13 PM

In your original post you say


   "Anyone who has ever seen me knows that A) I
only do CBJ and there's no persuading me to change that. B) If you book an hour that means one cup of coffee.  Why is that?  I am young but that doesn't mean I am a machine.  I love sex and what I do and hope to continue enjoying it.  I am not a piece of meat, but human, contrary to what some may believe.  SO anyways, basically, one hr, one pop, two hours, two pops and so on."

  Please explain how you can now say in the post above:    
    "And I wasn't saying that I always only allow one pop per hour which is why it's not posted on my website"?

  Because unless you have redefined the English language you did in fact state that you DO NOT allow more than one pop an hour.

 You can't have this both ways. You did say it and now it seems you regret the feedback.

-J



-- Modified on 12/6/2007 6:15:23 PM

and am not going to keep going back and forth on this.  If you read it, I said "so basically that means..."  I didn't say that always means or is a set thing.  But not every guy is going to pop in 10 minutes and most of the ones that do I try to give another shot.  

I asked for feedback and I have recieved just that.  I am not going back on what I believe and some who have seen me and read this post I'm sure know they have got 2pops in an hour.  As for the negative feedback I have been given or slaps for simple spelling mistakes and being a spoiled brat...I do care what people think but chances are they don't know anything about me except this post and most likely won't take the time to get to know me either.  I appreciate everyones post and I got what I asked for as another person posted above.

Happy Holidays and Thank You All Again,
Tasha

Opps too many caps in one sentence, guess I'm not only am I a terrible speller and spoiled brat but also ignorant lol.

I could not agree more. Nothing makes me more uneasy than when a provider actually talks about time.  Lovers enjoying time together would never watch a clock.

And with regards to "pops"  would you stop an appt at 1 "Big O" for yourself?  

Hell no!! If you were getting off and enjoying yourself you'd go with it as long as you could.  Why should it be different for us?

Hello,

Well if it makes you feel any better, I've picked up girls off of the strip (For almost 10 years,.which is always a huge mistake -- learned that later on...) After reading most of this, I'd call it a rookie mistake, as I'm not new to hobbying, just new to escorts.

How those appointments go is you pop and they bounce. No one is patient enough or cares enough to give the hour, that's why I've sort of shifted to escorts. I find as I get older (almost 30 -- sucks..)  I want the GFE a little more. So from what you say, to be honest, and your reviews you sound just fine.

My only advice would be to communicate. Why not say hey, you know what I can't really get you off two-pop with straight sex, but offer an alternative, if the guy has an extra 10-20 minutes. and why not get that out in the open before the call.

By the way, I've seen the pictures, and your a bargain to me, especially at typically inflated Vegas rates. These people talking about intelligence and grammar, I mean .. who cares..but anyway, skinny petitie girls can be rare these days, so keep it up!

Tasha,

While I have never met you we have chatted a little here and I believe you to be an upfront lady.  While there have been many posts here covering the subject I wanted to throw in my two cents.

First - Shit happens.  The guys could have been rushing, had a bad day, thought he had it, or is just an idiot.  Anyone who does anything for very long knows that unusual events will occur and dumb people are not in short supply.

Second – The CBJ thing should not be an issue because you are upfront about it.  I am not mad that Red Lobster will not offer me Chinese food even if it not on the menu.  If I wanted Chinese I should go somewhere that offers it.  Same concept applies here.  As far as the one pop per hour issue I see you have addressed it already.  Limiting a quick shooter to one pop could be seen as restrictive.  I understand your desire to not be pounded relentlessly for the whole hour.  Neither party should have to do anything that do not want to do or that causes pain.  A successful session would find a happy medium that both people are comfortable with.

What I expect out of a girl is a nice smile, an accurate representation of her from her pictures, a clear description of her menu from her ads, and her undivided attention during our time together.  I would say that a true GFE make one forget that money is a part of the equation and instead make the guy feel like he is with a girlfriend.  I don’t want a girl who seems robotic, is worn out, or seems distracted.  

Best of Luck to you and I hope that some of this was helpful to your situation.  Although I bet you will be fine.  


SC

As you always say, remember to drink your eggnog.

One hour, one pop would not be so bad if most of the entire hour were used building up to that pop.

However, in my experience, it has been that even when paying for an hour, a provider is motivated to make the hobbyist pop in, at most, half that time.  Given that the average price for an hour with an incall provider with her own website may be $300+ and that a hobbyist may see other girls, such as those on Craigs List, and pay half that much for a half hour (and I am talking QUALITY women, at least in Los Angeles), then it is deceptive, in my opinion, to advertise for 1 hour, one pop or otherwise, if the pop happens well before the hour is up.

You really shouldn't be booking consecutive appointments if you are not really intending to give a full hour of service...or at least you shouldn't complain about it if the guy actually expects a full hour of your time.  After all, aren't we paying for your time only and isn't anything above your time consensual?  In such case, I would say that for every minute a provider shorts her client, she is stealing $5 from him.  Kick the guy out after only 40 minutes and you have just stolen $100...not too cool.  $100 will allow me to take out a real life civilian woman to a decent enough dinner that may warrant much more than 40 minutes in the sack.

There is no way in hell she walked away from an appointment without getting her full rate, and if somehow that happened she'd have screamed it from the rooftops immediately. Everyone who knows her would have heard it, and yet here she is talking about something that happened 'a while back'?

I call bullshit.

I also love how people feel compelled to hide behind alias.  But once again thank you for YOUR opinions and rude comments.  You have all made my day.

Tasha

-- Modified on 12/7/2007 1:13:23 PM

it never ceases to amaze me the number of nutless wonders who hide behind an alias to talk smack..... not to imagine the assortment of creepy mongers who come out of the shadows to attack any provider who dares to drop the "you guys are all so perfect" line and actually ask a legit question hoping for some feedback
I'm actually embarrassed by what she received BTW
I dont know Tasha but I do know some folks who do and think highly of her..... and that's good enough for me

What if a guy is super excited to see you and within 10 minutes "pops".  Do you give back some of the money?  NO you don't NOR should you.  But I don't think any guy would find that fulfilling.  However according to your logic that is perfectly acceptable.

What does $300 or $400 for one cup of coffee or one hour mean to you?  I don't want to be rude here but if you went to a restaurant and paid for a 3 course meal but you were only able to eat 2 courses does the restaurant get to take back the 3rd course.  THIS IS AN EXAMPLE - I AM NOT COMPARING WOMEN TO FOOD.  No you paid for 3 courses and you should get 3 courses, even if you decide to take the third course out to the parking lot and toss it in the dumpster.  So if a guy pops in 10 minutes he should be allowed to regain his "standing" and then try again until the time is up.

This is the one thing that really bothers me about  this hobby.  The providers really have the upper hand.

Honestly, don’t you white knights ever get tired of running to the rescue? And especially over ladies you don’t even know, that’s so sad. This is “adult fantasy” or service for cash industry to put it bluntly. Anyone that thinks different should go to eHarmony or some of the other love match sites. And the people who forget this is a business are always the ones that cry foul & wonder “how could this happen to me” or “why do people act this way”.
  Secondly she asked for the board’s opinion about that CL type service she providing & she got her response. It’s over, let it go.

it's actually $6.67 per minute. Sorry I just felt like nitpicking.

She wouldn't like me, once I'm told that it's one pop and out, I make sure that it takes me 59 minutes and 59 seconds for me to cum.

'This is the one thing that really bothers me about  this hobby.  The providers really have the upper hand."

Only if we let them. that's what TER is supposed to be about, the sharing of information so we, as hobbyists can get the most for our money. Unfortunately, the whiteknighters among us, for some unknown reason think that we have to publicly kiss the ass of every provider out there, whether she deserves it or not.

I really wish the white knighters would grow a collective set of balls, but I might as well ask for peace in the Middle East. These are usually the same ball-less wonders that are sneaking around on their wives, thankful that anyone will fuck them no matter how badly. How bad does your life have to suck, if you can't even stand up for yourself on an anonymous escort board?

I've had the privilege of knowing a few of the best martial artists around, and one of things they have in common is that I never hear them say one derogatory thing to anyone, or about anyone. Two people can whale away on each other and learn allot about themselves and their opponent, but as soon as one breaks a rule, particularly hitting below the belt, the learning stops. If the person continues to break the rules, s/he will no longer find any sparring partners to learn with.

Tashsa took some pretty hard shots, they hurt, but they were above the belt; there was energy there and sometimes anger, but no demeaning or contempt expressed. And she has shown the true humility of someone having learning a hard lesson. However, in your lastest post you have clearly chosen to hit below the belt. Too bad, for I do wish to learn from your experiences, but it seems you are more interested in hurting someone by attacking their character in a demeaning and contemptuous manner.

I disagree with Tasha on some, but not all of her points.I doubt I would ever schedule with her, but I harbor no malice towards her.In her defense she does have eleven pages of mostly glowing reviews.

My issue is with the "whiteknighters". There are many hobbyists who feel compelled to rescue every provider out there. They are the object of my contempt, not Tasha. I also have issues with those that take pot shots from behind aliases, but thats a subject for another thread.

is that really all you took away from it and felt the need to comment on?

Someone could ask the same question of you since you apparently don't understand proper usage of the term 'PS', and which, BTW, is not an acronym.

I felt your posts to Tasha were above board and was directing my comments to just the post addressing "whiteknighters." I have read many of your posts and find them helpful. But, I guess I felt a bit lost, since I'm not certain if your contempt arises out of what was being said in just this thread, or if there is a longer history, and with specific individuals you have in mind. I felt much the same in this thread, overall, though. Like I was outside of an inside joke. There seemed to be a history between people that left some of what was being said lost on me. Or, perhaps I'm just having an early onset of Dementia (LOL).

"Not every guy is a TER VIP member. If they aren't VIP, they can't see the details of your profile and the services you do/don't offer.  Nor could they read the "juicy details" sections. This could explain some instances of guys going against the grain."

This one surprises me. Why would one make an appointment with any provider listed on TER and *not* pay to get the full details? The client is already prepared to pay $300+ for an hour with the provider, so an extra $20 to see if she's really likely to meet his needs and expectations just seems like common sense.

--b.

Not that I am aware of at least. lol

You are right about my feeling towards the White Knighters, it's something that has been building for a long time. It's not really directed towards any one person or persons, it's more of an attitude that of course applies to some  individuals much more than others.

Usually the white knighters come in groups, supposedly in defense of some poor maiden in distress. Really what it is, is an excuse for the pack to descend on someone who has enough courage to say something unpopular and rip him apart. I guess it makes them feel good about themselves.

Hang around for a while, you'll have the opportunity to see it for yourself, then you can make your own decision. You seem like a sharp guy, who catches on quick. Whether you end up agreeing with me or not, it's a pleasure to have you around.

Hey, thanks for filling me in, and for your welcome.