Lets face it, you ladies are doing this mainly for money.... not for your own romantic moment or companionship or love.  Even myself, I sometimes think about what's on ESPN while I was doing my girl.

So, lets be honest,  what do you ladies think about when another john starts humping on top or behind you?

Is it a slice of Pizza? Or Pasta?  Or do you think about the Conan obrian show?  

Maybe the nearest place where to get your nails done? Spa? Hair Salon?  

GYm workout routine?   Or are you a Tom boy who's into PC / xbox / playstation games and thinking of how to get to the next level?

Or the next clever / smart ass word to play on "words with friends"? Scrabble??

Or.....

are you going to lie and say that you're actually truly into the guy during that brief compensated moment together?  

Just want to hear the honest truth. What's on your mind ladies?

Its naive to think any provider will be thinking of just you during your session.

I work in a factory and can assure you my mind is not always on the job I am doing at any one time.
But because I am good at my job, I can still do it well, while at the same time dreaming of being in Vegas and meeting some beautiful providers there.

I'm sure its the same for most providers too.

As long as the provider gives the impression your her only concern while your together, even if its only an act, thats fine with me.

Lets be honest. Would you prefer a dick in your mouth, or this delicious chocolate eclair????

If this is what concerns you in P4P...find a different hobby.

Try golf..or are you going to try and psychoanalyze that as well?

My favorite channel, but, you must be seeing the wrong women, if you are thinking about it while boneing her.

But I like to hunt for mine...and my favorite is "

WABBITS

With lettuce and carrots.

If one does give an honest answer, she'll be vilified and crossed off lists ( I love that) and those that use an alias risk some back channel backlash. So by the silence you can possibly deduce your answer.

I am not surprised at the ridiculous questions some guys ask   .  

Saying others have "self-esteem" issues, gets OLD.
He just asked a question, what's that have to do with self-esteem??

What do the guys who ask them expect us to say? Considering they are already paying for us to be in the same room...get a clue and guess...that way, it's on them and no-one gets hurt.

The stuff that is in the center tastes so much better and that I will swallow...lol

Or is it?

The guys want to ask about fucking and sucking...the gals want to talk about cuddling.

Well at least it used to be that way.  Now the remaining guys want to talk about cuddling!

I use that time as good thinking time...sometimes my other job, other times I organize my workout routine or make a shopping list.

Who cares what is going through my mind as long as I am doing my job.

I do find that a bit surprising on a board like this...

But refreshing never the less!

a lot probably think 'what the fuck i am doing here'..makes sense with all the fucking losers out there..

...not thinking about the first 10 O's he gave you while he's working on bringing you to number 11?!

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I have very strict boundaries with myself, so if I even start to think of something from "real" life, I stop it immediately. I don't want to mix the two. At all. Why ruin the fun and possibly upset myself when I'm supposed to be home and allowed to relax? During an appointment, all I have to do is be who I need to be during that amount of time. Everything else can wait, just like when I'm being myself, this can wait.

The other part of it is that I take this very seriously as a job. I feel like the clients spend a lot of money, and the least I can do is make it worth it. I know how I am, and it won't happen if I'm not paying attention. Does that mean that I never get distracted? Of course not. But it's always in a "I need to get that off the floor", or "this isn't working for him, what can I do about it?" way. I would never actually let it get to the point where I'm thinking of anything but him, and how to make the appointment better.

we already know?

providers aren't always into it? Really? women in general are that way.

i guess elaborating wouldnt help anything anyway, So best to just to keep quiet, right? i get it.

btw, providers don't always give "the best bj i'v ever had" . they aren't always "sexy as hell" or "smell nice" or "turn me on"
jus sayin'

legitimately am horny by time I take another call. I think my mind wanders no matter what though. I did three appts in vegas and stayed 9 days, I like to actually store up some horniness for my appointments. Unfortunetly or fortunetly my mind wanders no matter what I am doing as I am kinda the artist type person. I wouldnt change it for the world though and am grateful to be so creative I cant keep up with all my ideas I have for things I want to do.I would take my over active creative brain anyday over a catatonic vegetive state latter thats brain dead and has no creativity .  I never think of food during an appt, and actually I like to eat alot less before appointments, I sometimes lose my sex drive if I eat too much, . Although last night I ate alot I ordered 50 bucks worth sushi and then had a whole bag of this new ghiradelli chocolate flavor its called sweet temptation or something and in blue bag. It is EXACTLY like cadbury! {I am huge cadbury fan. }. I ate so much and all the chocolate, My belly felt pretty full but yet I was extremely horny. They do say certain fish and also chocolate big time aphrodesiacs! I got this sushi with caviar on it, and caviar seems to be a very horned out food.  I never ever think of food during sex. sex is anatural diet pill for me I lose weight having alot sex. I do think if craving ice cream or sweets though its cool to eat it off some one instead just eating it, I ate blueberry tofutti soy oce cream off that old biker daddy s balls once years ago! Then just last year I got drunk with a atf and smooshed an apple pie the little debbie ones into his whole crotch n ate off slowly. While we drove to n.h. It was so funny to see all the apple pie stains stuck on the chair for months after like a funny memory! aaah I found the name for you choclate lovers, Creamy devotion is the new flav, its soo great.

I rarely just drift off unless I am totally by myself, because if I am with someone and having sex it is a bit hard to not focus on what I am doing. I have a rather short attention span, but I just switch things up...does not mean my mind can't focus on each thing at a time. If I were doing full one weeks and months, yea...I would drift like a mofo,  but a few hours? Nope...not much drifting.

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Angel, I loved your posting —and while I may not be totally down with all the food play, you might be interested to know that I had a look at your website and would love to see you sometime.  It's been a while since I've been in Boston and it may be a while before I'm there again.  Bon appétit and come to Chicago some time.  [Feel free to PM]