I have been out of town for 8-9 days and I was going back and scanning recent threads... to see if I missed anything exciting lol...
Anyways I was curious, for the guys and gals...
Who here (alias or not) prefers GFE ... or PSE? Then I would like to know why... Or if you like to partake in both... If I was a guy, I'd probably want both- depending upon my mood.
I am primarily GFE and it seems most guys want that BUT I think if they could do all the kinky stuff they would lol. Who wouldn't, especially when you don't have to live with them!
There is much that I have tried, there is some I haven't that maybe one day I will.
and easily excited, up for new things. Who wants sex.
But I am not interested in getting anything on her, so to speak.
that I hope to one day be as open-minded as some of the people who post on here and I think we all should respect the whole "to each their own" ideas. I am not "for" some things / experiences but why should I care as long as it doesn't affect me. If it gives you pleasure it's all good.
I'm sure I might like PSE but frankly, I feel much safer, particularly about STDs, with GFE. If one of my ATFs offered, I'd be hard pressed to refuse. I guess it all depends on who actually is involved.
Hmmm.... I know what PSE stands for but I still don't know exactly what it is. Could anyone explain the difference to a newb please.
To tell you the truth, I've met gals who said that they were PSE, but were more like GFE, and I've met GFE who were more like PSE, so go figure.
In most cases, I think that the title of PSE is a code word for the fact that a provider will do certain things that most GFE don't do, mostly Greek, and perhaps things like COF; but it's not necessarily the case with everyone.
In most cases, you can ignore the labels, read the reviews, and see who turns you on the most.
I've mulled taking the term PSE off of my website because in my case it is simply a designation of a particular something that I am willing to do.
Whenever I'm contacted by reviewers whose profiles feature write-ups of real PSE providers I am reminded that that isn't really what I offer and suggest other providers who are comparable to me and can truly offer what the client is looking for. In the instances when I have provided a true PSE sessin its been pure chemistry and a matter of me feeding off of the energy of the client.
link is on the top of the page, has a post, GFE VS PSE, which I really like.
I stick to that.
I don't think BBFS comes under either. But that's just me.
TC
I like a combination - I'm a sucker for kissing, cuddling, touching, romance but also like COF
any gay-ness or submission on *my* part, I'm good 
In fact I am extremely flexible and adaptable.
The very best sessions and the very best "relationships" I've had in this sport were primarily predicated on the two of us being a good "fit" regardless of the specifics of "services".
The sessions I walk out of feeling the best about the time spent are those when I rocked *her* world. Yeah.
"What turns *me* on is discovering what turns *her* on......and as long as it does not involve....
Posted by GoodTimingMan, 8/20/2009 5:32:52 PM
any gay-ness or submission on *my* part, I'm good "
In my opinion there is no such thing as a attractive man and if I was a woman I would be a Lesbian..I have often wondered what women see in men but I am lucky a lot of them have at at the least "acted' like they like me..
I didn't think there was anything a man and woman could do together that would be construed by others as gay, except maybe line dancing, and if I really like her and she gets me hot enough I will line dance with her no problem ..
mutual stimulation. Once in a while I will ask for COF or something on the PSE mild side.
I want her to really want me or at least act like she does. I love being wanted by a woman. If she can throw in some PS qualities, all the better, but I would prefer a loving girlfriend rather than just a fuck and suck machine.
Swim
PSE is where you are being given a sloppy BBBJ with lots of spitting by the lady and even a gag reflex soundtrack in the background.
PSE also where anal sex occurs either via digits, a red blooded cock, or a dildo sex toy hello double penetration.
PSE also has rimming with lots of spit and motivation dirty talk by the lady encouraging you on. If the lady does the rimming on you all the more better.
Now, really when you have GFE with your SO or wife do the above activities even come to play.
I'm not interested in anal, cif or that sort of thing; so probably PSE isn't my cup of tea. I'm also perhaps a bit oversensitive, but I'm not into dirty talk beyond maybe 5th grade level. I saw an earlier thread where that makes some providers hot -- but I just can't even picture myself doing that.
But I also enjoy really hot sex -- hotter than you usually get from a girlfriend unless you just bought her a nice car. LOL
And I also prefer to spend a portion of a session serving the lady in some fashion -- it could be daty, massage, etc. And I enjoy cuddling.
So I'd say "GFE ... plus".
I also prefer a GFE. However, after the first one, I'm not so sure. Not even a single cup yet out of $$$. Not sure if hobby is for me. I think I'm one of those "nice guys" that finishes last. Either that or I'm just so ugly that even a provider will not sleep with me !!
I did have a great time and the lady and I spent quite a bit of time together. Above and beyond the original agreement. So, come to think of it, I shouldn't complain. I'm definitely going to see her again. Hopefully, fingers crossed, the second time will be even better than the first.
Someone who enjoys all the GFE stuff, yet is willing to try some different things. I've met a couple like this, and just keep going back for more! 
Eventually she will try everything whether I want to or not..If she gets me to that point..lol
I love the GFE with a side of PSE at times...
I have cple ATF's that know what I like, ask me what I would like them to wear on our dates ( mostly extended ones or dinner ones ) Also like to roleplay, schoolgirl is a fav and hers is for me to be Daddy !
Both my ladies focus 110% on me....like Im the only guy in the world at the time. Holding hands, cuddling, hand on neck or leg when driving and so on.
As most have S/O in their lives, have met both of theirs and something you dont hear often...I know she in good hands when she with you and I know she is safe !
Also like to find out things they like and colors and then surprise them with gifts. Even have had the offer returned when they got me gifts for Christmas and not just some little dollar store thing either.
When we are on a date....its that, a date like in real life...treated like a lady, flowers, hold door open, pull out chair and the like.
and not so much an ego/emotional salve. Both GFE & PSE are great; but since emotion is an intangible, illusion/delusion I'd sooner enjoy the catharsis found in unfettered carnality.
I love it when she kisses me like no tomorrow, but she take it up the ass like a true porn-star! Or she sucks dick like your best GF, but lets you CIM and then dribbles it out like a Porn-Queen!
