On a related topic on my question ( I have an inquisitive mind LOL) about what you prefer a woman to wear to the door or to your outcall, do you notice the little details ( and I know for the ladies, it's important, at least to me, to have a very neat, clean, and elegant appearance. I always have my makeup done lightly ( unless I'm asked to wear it heavier, or no makeup at all) and in a natural classy manner, my nails and toes are always manicured and pedicured, my hair is done ( not much for me to do except let my natural long straight hair loose), and my skin is soft, lingerie and heels in good shape and not tatttered or messed up. These things make ME feel good about myself, and in turn, help me to make a session as best as I can.


So men, do you notice or not care if a woman has a sloppy appearance ( even if her reviews are good and her pics are glamourous),  broken nails or unmanicured hands, and more importantly, does it matter to you if her incall is neat or messy?

and not just in the hobby.. clean and neat, well manicured and appropriately dressed are important everywhere.. and noticed.... why do you think the pictures of the denizens of Wallmart are so popular on the i-net....

it doesn't even require money to be neat and clean... soap, water, and elbow grease are relatively inexpensive... as a youngster, I wore many patched pairs of britches, but you can bet they were clean and neatly pressed before I went out the door...

sorry to be so long winded on this one, but it struck a chord....

and I do want to read the book when you finish it.. please publish in Kindle format

At least I hope so. After all, this is a fantasy, isn't it? But, you mentioned something perhaps the most important - that your grooming and wardrobe selection is done to make you fell good about yourself. Trust me, that will shine through and be apparent to your clients. I have learned that the models I meet are happiest when they are free to choose their attire, etc. If a special role play is being planned, if a public rendezvous is included, I will be willing to make suggestions. Otherwise, I love to be surprised. In my case, simple and understated clothing & undergarments can be as much a turn on as "professional" attire. One can be natural and not sloppy.

Not into glamour. If you saw my answer to the "attire" question below, you will see I like it simple. The same is true for physical appearance.

Nails should be clean and neat. I don't want to see broken, dirty, or chewed nails, but manicures and pedicures are not important to me. Makeup, none or very little. Hair should be clean, soft, and smell good. Down, ponytail, braid, something simple again. No big fancy hair. No ten gallons if hairspray.

To adress your last question, a clean incall is important. There was a long thread about this just last week. For me it does not have to be fancy or upscale, but clean yes. Especially the bed and the bathroom. (Oh, and make sure you don't have 4 people 'hiding in the toilet room' and no cameras or bugging devices! )

shave her pussy, or has a 5 o'clock shadow, keep it smooth damn it for DATY!

BTW, I come in clean & well groomed, if I'm paying, I expect the same.

Two people in the bathroom, only one camera and I will throw in a pat down.

I love men like you...my style of providing was made for that. Just today the request was low rise loose fitting jeans so he could see those angled grooves right near the hips bones, a crisp white tank, freshly washed and blow dried hair (no product) and bare feet (painted toenails are a must..lol).

Made this dude beam I did....

"Thanks Chicago" message on a regional board? Thanks for what? Odd.

Were her photos recent and accurate?    If not I really don't care about anything else - she has ruined the date

I prep for a hobby date as I would any other that I would have in RL. If I don't shave my legs, that's my way of knowing I am not giving it up later on lol. Needless to say, legs are shaved, privates are sweet and clean, nails and toes are done, hair and makeup on, and perfume applied. It's all part of feeling like a woman.

We're paying for a fantasy; Not a common house frau or trash!

 I don't mind a "Lived in" ambiance when visiting a ladies INcall; but visible piles of dirty laundry, dishes, malodorous smell, and sticky stained floors should be kept to the sub-$200/hour demographic of provider.

 When a provider comes to MY door (outcall) I would rather every "house frau" and their beleaguered, brow-beaten husband on my cul-de-sac stand in slack jawed awe, contempt, and moral indignation of the brazenly attired strumpet strutting up my walkway.

I'm an informed consumer, a pragmatist, and a pathological iconoclast.

Seems like there may be another cross dresser here

I am not paying for fantasy.  I am paying for exceptionally vibrant and exciting sex with a beautiful woman.  I live in the moment of that experience, and relish it for what it is.  I have goals about the experience, but I would not call those fantasies.   But the goal is that I have a good time, that she has a good time, and we walk away from the event wanting to do a repeat.

Well, actually it is but not for the ones with IQ of room temperature in Celsius

Of course men (most men) like women to pay attention to the little details. And by the way, attitude and enthusiasm is WAY more important than appearance.

being greeted warmly and a beaming smile.

If you want to know how much more important that is, I'd say by a factor of 10:1.

post that on the regional boards to get free "airtime" ad on the regional's, and crave attention.

Guest you didn't get the joke...& no, I'm just your basic  "scumbag" hobbyist as you like to point out as your clients.

Don't worry CPA, you don't have to spend your entire weekend now sleuthing about on TER trying to determine ewes from rams,I'm a dude. You can now go outside & enjoy your weekend. Or perhaps you can hire the #1 poster's lawn-boy, maybe barter a deal w/him, & watch some baseball on the tube!

But you need to call them out by name...you know, the way I do it.  Then there's no confusion as to who you might actually be.  Unless you were looking for the attention?

I just called Holmes and told him that he and Watson can take the weekend off...but can you send me $ 1,000 since I don't want to piss them off with their fee arrangements.  I may need them in the future again

All others pay cash

The hookers have taught me well

Yes, although I couldn't tell you what color hair or style, or little details... If the look is not right it is noticable. I expect the grooming, cleanliness to be near perfect as its part of the job...

Glamour or trashy, you should still be well maintained!

As far as appearance in and of itself, the single most important factor to me is the face.  If I'm not turned on by what's above her neck, then I'm not interested at all.  I don't care how much makeup, eyeliner or whatever else is applied, it just has to be something that I like.

Now, the following could be considered a separate issue...  The other factor is hygiene!  This is VERY VERY important to me.

Everything else is going to take a backseat.  Would I like her to have her nails and toes done?  Sure, but that's far from a deal breaker.  If the other criteria has been met then I'm not going to pay much attention to short nails with no polish on them.

The only things I really expect are that she has properly shaved her legs and tended to her hair.  Beyond that I don't go "looking" for other features.  Dress really isn't high on my priority list either... as the clothes won't be staying on for long anyhow :P

Of course, this is all just my opinion.  I would guess that various other guys might feel differently.

I notice and I appreciate the effort. Beautiful hair, smooth legs, some makeup, perfume, a sexy outfit; it's all a part of the fantasy and an important part. But then, I'm also not one of those guys who ever complains about a girlfriend taking extra time getting all dolled up for a date because I appreciate the effort and the results.

If you've ever seen pictures of celebrities without being "done up" by professional hair and makeup people first, you can see just what a huge difference it makes. It can turn an 7/8 into a 10.

If the provider is not willing to be neat about her appearence then how can I be sure that she is neat in the hygein areas.

Again, show me a link to where I called "MY CLIENTS" scumbags lol. Just because you feel that way about yourself is no reason to project that crap on others ha ha. I love the guys I see..they are not fkin retarded nor do they need their ass kissed on a fk board. Check Mate. You're busted...deal with it. Oh, and there is no apostrophe in "Hos" love...it's PLURAL.



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I'll agree with that. A warm smile and a hug