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You're just giving them ammunition to fuck with you. They know which buttons to push and you let them. Fucking let it go. Be the bigger person.

Be, be the ball... ;)

He's obviously into young, somewhat dumb (based on her going back to him after he allegedly became physically abusive) hotties so is he a "young, dumb digging piece of trash"?  Why is his being into her for her looks somehow less offensive than her being into him for his money?  Both are getting what they want out of the deal (theoretically anyway), why is she the 'bad' one?  Is she really supposed to love him based on something besides his financial statement when there's a 60-some age difference? C'mon.... ;-)

I hate it when you have a good point lol

It makes me think and everyone knows how I HATE to think

Let me read that article again and see if there is some other information that may lead me to a different conclusion.

I'll call you when I'm finished ;)

I'll drink to that.

Posted By: EdrienneCole
He's obviously into young, somewhat dumb (based on her going back to him after he allegedly became physically abusive) hotties so is he a "young, dumb digging piece of trash"?  Why is his being into her for her looks somehow less offensive than her being into him for his money?  Both are getting what they want out of the deal (theoretically anyway), why is she the 'bad' one?  Is she really supposed to love him based on something besides his financial statement when there's a 60-some age difference? C'mon.... ;-)

however, do you actually think her lawsuit has merit as a civil action?  I don't.  he's an asshole for telling her he'll get her an apartment, she's an asshole for waiting around for the apartment, but suing him is a stretch.  she should, however, have followed through on an assault charge, if he really hit her.

Posted By: EdrienneCole
He's obviously into young, somewhat dumb (based on her going back to him after he allegedly became physically abusive) hotties so is he a "young, dumb digging piece of trash"?  Why is his being into her for her looks somehow less offensive than her being into him for his money?  Both are getting what they want out of the deal (theoretically anyway), why is she the 'bad' one?  Is she really supposed to love him based on something besides his financial statement when there's a 60-some age difference? C'mon.... ;-)

I definitely agree that if he did actually become physically abusive, she should have filed a police report.  Her failing to do that would cause me to *lean* toward believing it didn't happen.  But, I do know that many, many cases of domestic abuse go unreported for a variety of reasons.  Honestly, I'd need to be able to hear both of their sides of the story as well as see/hear testimony regarding the stitches needed in her foot from the attending physician (and that person's account of her attitude and explanatory story at the time).  From what little I know of these things, if the doc suspected domestic abuse, he has a an obligation to report it....

Does her lawsuit have merit?  Again, I couldn't know unless I heard more from both parties.  I do believe it's entirely possible that either side is embellishing, or flat out lying.  Just can't say without more info.

Someone mentioned her being a rather stupid SB to not get her needs met up front.  I completely agree.  If the course of events was truly 1) he promised the apartment [quite believable for an old billionaire to say that to a SB], 2) there was a dispute of some sort and they broke up, 3) he gave the apartment to someone else [indicating he bought it and was in a position to give it away which lends credence to her side of things], 4) they got back together and he promised her another apartment [why would she get back with him without some sort of incentive, again, lends credence to her account].... then yes, she's a goddamn fool for not getting the deal signed, sealed and delivered BEFORE any nookie.  He'd already shown himself to be violent (allegedly) and petty (giving the apartment to someone else), why trust him to deliver after all that?  

But, being stupid is (unfortunately) not a reason for others to not honor their arrangements....presuming there's any integrity to be had by the parties.  Hell, there are plenty of "stupid" people sucking up unemployment (or other social welfare programs) for 2+ years and the rest of us are forced to honor the damn government's "arrangement" for these people (as stupid as that arrangement is in the first place)... but I digress.  Apologies for the tangent...  Her being a dumb SB is not justification for his failure to honor an agreement - IF there ever was one.

Possession is 9/10ths of the law

Collecting IS the business...

Posted By: EdrienneCole
I definitely agree that if he did actually become physically abusive, she should have filed a police report.  Her failing to do that would cause me to *lean* toward believing it didn't happen.  But, I do know that many, many cases of domestic abuse go unreported for a variety of reasons.  Honestly, I'd need to be able to hear both of their sides of the story as well as see/hear testimony regarding the stitches needed in her foot from the attending physician (and that person's account of her attitude and explanatory story at the time).  From what little I know of these things, if the doc suspected domestic abuse, he has a an obligation to report it....

Does her lawsuit have merit?  Again, I couldn't know unless I heard more from both parties.  I do believe it's entirely possible that either side is embellishing, or flat out lying.  Just can't say without more info.

Someone mentioned her being a rather stupid SB to not get her needs met up front.  I completely agree.  If the course of events was truly 1) he promised the apartment [quite believable for an old billionaire to say that to a SB], 2) there was a dispute of some sort and they broke up, 3) he gave the apartment to someone else [indicating he bought it and was in a position to give it away which lends credence to her side of things], 4) they got back together and he promised her another apartment [why would she get back with him without some sort of incentive, again, lends credence to her account].... then yes, she's a goddamn fool for not getting the deal signed, sealed and delivered BEFORE any nookie.  He'd already shown himself to be violent (allegedly) and petty (giving the apartment to someone else), why trust him to deliver after all that?  

But, being stupid is (unfortunately) not a reason for others to not honor their arrangements....presuming there's any integrity to be had by the parties.  Hell, there are plenty of "stupid" people sucking up unemployment (or other social welfare programs) for 2+ years and the rest of us are forced to honor the damn government's "arrangement" for these people (as stupid as that arrangement is in the first place)... but I digress.  Apologies for the tangent...  Her being a dumb SB is not justification for his failure to honor an agreement - IF there ever was one.

I'm sure this was a Sugar Daddy type situation.  But that doesn't give her the right to demand he buy her an apartment.  I call bullshit on this one.  They are no longer together.  It's time for her to walk away, and start taking care of herself without his support.  

IMHO she is trying to extort this apartment from him.  It's wrong.

My .02 cents. Betty xo

HalfHour254 reads

First off -

The dude is 81 years old. Holy shit! At that age even your foreskin is badly sagging.

Next -

The dude is a fuckin MULTI-BILLIONARE! He returned 1 billion dollars to avoid being in a regulated catagory of investors. Let me repeat that: HE RETURNED ONE BILLION DOLLARS.

No joke here: he could buy her a NEW luxury apartment EVERY YEAR for the rest of his life, AND use $100 bills as toilet paper, and still have more money than he could ever use.

Next -

He promised her, and we all know its true and we all know why.

AS IF he wasn't COMPLETELY clear that a hot actress in her 20's was his girfriend because of his tremendous wealth. It sure not her attraction to liver spots.

BottomLine -

There is NOTHING wrong with being a SugarBaby. And in this case SugarGrandpa didn't give SugarBaby what she deserved.

I hope she takes him to the cleaners. SHe deserves it, and he'll still be obscenely rich when she's through.

:)
HalfH?ur, AMFWT

(alphamale with female writing tendencies)

How much money he has is irrelevant. The term "deserving" is also subjective. Who the hell are you to state who is or isn't deserving?

BUT, I will agree that buying her the frickin apartment and being DONE WITH HER is probably his greater option.

HalfHour197 reads

You aske "Who the hell are you to state who is or isn't deserving?"

FIRST, let me say, I don't think you are a stupid person.

With that said, asking me "Who the hell are you to state who is or isn't deserving?" is about the most stupid thing anyone could say here. Anything anyone says about this is just their opinion from their perspective. I don't know if you are arrogant or just used that meaninless rhetoric out of habit, but it has no place in a meaningful exchange on such a matter as this one.

Look, every one knows that some women seek out a man for his wealth. Hot young women do not seek men 50 years their senior for any other reason. Don't believe it?? Go to a local senior center, where there are healthy old single men and count the young hotties looking to get picked up.

What I say is WHO THE HELL ARE YOU to deny this is true? And more importantly, WHO THE HELL ARE YOU to say there is anything wrong with it?

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH IT!

On the other side of the coin, there are many older men who want to have a Pretty Young Thing as a companion and use their material wealth and resource to lure them.

So what?  

All relations are an exchange. What is used as currency varies; it's not always money. As long as the two people don't hurt each other and they each get what they want from the exchange, its fine.

Now, some older men who would like a young hottie as their GF simple can't attract one, so they employ the services of young escorts on what might be considered a temporary and itinerant basis. Don't argue that point. Whether you believe or not it is true. ;)

Other men will marry a young hottie, if they have enough money to attract them. And if they treat her well, they might keep them. When they do, bless them both!  

Still other men  have a bevy of young hotties a live-in girlfriends, and wear robes all day long, and marry one of them now and again, and occasionally lose a real expensive engagement ring in teh process. Big deal!

This is the way of the world. Anyone who doesn't like it can scream "gold digger!!!" and "dirty old man!!!" all they want.

But the cold hard fuck-you-up-the-ass truth is that in EVERY one of these scenarios, BOTH parties may be functioning as an opportunist at some level, BY CHOICE, openly and admittedly or wrapped in denial.

Now, I could see a preacher in his pulpit getting worked up over the issue as he spouts his version of morality to his congregation, condemming the whole scenario as sin and succumbing to the devil with lust for the flesh on one side, and greed for amterial things on the other. But somehow this doesn't seem to be the place for such misdirected ideals.

Here's the way I see this scenario:

He wanted her her body, her sex, her beauty, the status she gave as armcandy and companion. TRANSLATE: HE WANTED HER BEING.

How much of her did he get??? Sounds like got all of that from her, likely most of what she had. How much is that worth??? I won't place a value on that.

She wanted the security, the status and the lifestyle that he could provide. TRANSLATE: SHE WANTED THE RESOURCE HE COULD GIVE HER.

How much of him did he get??? It doesn't appear to be much, and certainly not what he dangled in front of her to keep her hot young body and attention for himself.

So, you see his resources are ABSOLUTELY revelevant. They are the basis of the whole issue.

Who am I to state what I think?

Well, I am me. And when I am put in a jury box with 11 other people, I might just be called upon to settle such an issue. I might even be called on to decide if someone should live or die. So, I better fuckin well be able to form opinions and make judgements, and hopefully do so in an educated and informed way based on what I can see.

So, I repeat: Base on what I see, SHE DESERVES every goddamn penny she can get awsrded to her. It won't hurt him one bit.

Now, what say you jurors numbers 2 through 12?

:)
HalfHour

HalfHour157 reads

and now, little boy, you should try to prove you have a modicum of intelligence.  ;)

Opps! you can't prove anything! You're just an ASSCLOWN using an alias, so no one cares other that you!

Oh well.

:)
HalfHour

I have no idea who you spoke to, but HH has got to be a fucking woman, or at the very least a cunt.

I don't really give a fuck what anybody says, no way in fucking hell is there anything but estrogen flowing through the veins of HH.

HalfHour161 reads

I'm actually surprised. I thought it was just your bravado that was coming through. Apparantly, I was wtong.

:)
HalfHour

I admit, I stand up for the underdog. And you were getting the shit beat out of you for a few.

But now, you need to kick back and rethink your strategy.

You were given another chance, so to speak. Take advantage of it.

I'm not even as brash as I used to be. But don't test it, cuz it'll come back out and bite you in the ass.

Fucking relax. You made your point. You're gonna make me a liar and then you'll wish the rest were coming after you instead of me.

Tell me if this concept doesn't compute...

Don't fuck with me, and dance around the subject at hand. A simple yes or no will do.

HalfHour171 reads

No dancing around it, either.

The only thing I will say is if someone comes at me, I just may go back at them. I think you could see where I'm comin' from on that.

If you look at some of the newer posts, there are still some jerks following me around with an assclown alias just trying to harrang me. I might not ignore all of them.

As for the folks that are straight-up, as yourself, I think what you're saying makes sense.

:)
HalfHour

You're just giving them ammunition to fuck with you. They know which buttons to push and you let them. Fucking let it go. Be the bigger person.

Be, be the ball... ;)

HOMEYtheASSCLOWN!166 reads

It's a matter of principal in this case, sure he can afford, but she dose not deserve anything.
I wonder how many young women he promises realestate to?

cuppajoe177 reads

He returned investor's money to them to get that money out of the fund he manages.  It wasn't his money, not that he couldn't have afforded it.

HalfHour136 reads

Let's see if his is not considered a flame or off topic. Or maybe some people don't like genuione expressions of kindess on the board???

:)
HalfHour

A smart girl knows the get the money up front.

When I use d to play sugarbaby, I would meet a guy and in the first 30 minutes say "I am looking for a sugardaddy. We need to make arrangements before we can move forward."

Also, silly girl - guys who really get you things surprise you with keys, nit just make promises after sex.

She should get nothing. She wasn't his wife or even a smart sugarbaby.

Kisses,
Vanica

HalfHour152 reads

You make some great points. I afraid that your testimony would change my verdict.

:)
HalfHour

He's a fucking billionaire, and he admits to getting his dick wet with the hottie. Shoulda just bought her the first apartment and went over for a booty call now and then.

Don't know about the slapping, choking and lamp throwing cuz I wasn't there and since there's no police report it's 'he said/she said'.

In any case, being worth what, 14.5 billion(?) seems like 2 mil would've been cheap compared to the bad press he's getting and the shit storm coming up, especially from other ladies that could claim the same but didn't have the nerve to say anything until someone else did it first.

There's a saying I go by, 'Don't let your mouth write checks your ass can't cash', meaning he never shoulda told her he was going to buy her an apartment not once, but twice and not follow thru. ESPECIALLY when you're laying there nekkid with a lady after she just got done fucking your brains out! lmao!

and I guaranfuckingtee you that he isn't going to admit to promising her a goddamned thing if he has an ounce of brains.

Besides, what the fuck is someone as smart and as rich as him doing fucking around with a rather average looking chica like her? I've fucked a dozen hotter looking chicks than her just in the last week, and though I might be thirty years younger, I don't have 1% of the resources that old fuck has.

and does anyone really think that "pillow talk" is an enforceable contract if the "promisor" comes to his senses a few hours or days "post coitus" lol

But, and I admit I've been drinking since I first read it, he admitted to seeing her. I didn't see her pix, just thought some old fucker with a boatload of money wouldn't waste his time with a fugly.

But you gotta admit, sometimes guys think with their 'little head' even though they might be a financial genius and confound the business world with their expertise as far as money is concerned.

Just seems to me the guy fucked up. He didn't go the TER route, though that's not an iron-clad guarantee, and see ladies that are more discreet. If he was abusive, the ladies would back channel his ass and put him on DNS lists. Or so they say.

Anyway, he's in for some shit. And there's gonna be some money-grubbing(put your expletive here) that are gonna try and jump on the money train also.

I don't feel sorry for him. Fucking dude has 14 billion plus and went to grade school with Moses. So fucking what?

With that kinda fundage he coulda paid her ass off privately, thru their lawyers, and it never woulda surfaced.

His ability to pay is irrelevant IMO. I'm not going to be shaken down for one red cent myself. Who knows, maybe he feels the same way?

I don't claim to know the truth of the story, but nobody else does either. It's really easy for other to say "pay the bitch" when it's not their money. I say "fuck the bitch" if he didn't actually promise her the apt.

but you are right, an honest provider beats the hell out of a money grubbing mistress, for ten mil, he could have hired every girl on this site, and many of them are a hell of a lot hotter than her.

The article says that she is now "studying economics at Columbia University."  Textbook probably says, "To get rich in the modern USA, sue some deep pockets, even if it's frivolous. They'll probably settle out of court just to get rid of the nuisance." She's going for an A and $10 million by doing this.

We cannot really think of this as outside the hobby.  This is so obviously "pay for play" as to not even be funny.  This is NOT civie dating any more than my trysts with strippers is civie dating.  There is NO difference whatsoever between this, and the occurance of a guy setting up a date with a gal on backpage going to where she is, and she doing an upsell.  He gets angry with her and slaps her on the face over the price for services dispute.  The only difference is the form and amount of payment.

We all know the old joke of the guy at the bar who asks the lady on the stool next to him, "hey, would you have sex with me for $??"  She replies "NO"  So then he askes "would you have sex with me for $,$$$,$$$?"  she replies "sure"

So then he responds, "well, how about for $$$?"

She looks at him and says "no way, what kinda gal to you think I am?"

To which he replies, "we have established what kinda gal you are, we are now just haggling over price!"

Soros has made billions by "scamming the system" while preaching how bad capitalism is... yea, it is bad when people play by the exact rules instead of a moral code...  so, as far as I am concerned - the lady did a good thing by exposing the jerk.

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