Hi all,

I've never posted on TER boards before, I'm new to the hobby, I've seen 3 providers total, the second being someone I've visited regularly for sessions since back in September/October.  Our first session or two was just a normal FBSM with her being topless, and because I was so new, I was very hesitant to do much or any touching.  On the first session, she kissed me, just a few pecks, and every session since the first one, things have continued to escalate, slowly.  By the third session, she was fully nude, allowing MT anywhere I liked (if not moving my hands where she wanted), and doing a modified nuru type massage just on my back.  A few sessions after that, we were touching each other and having simultaneous...while kissing and mutually masturbating.

The last visit I had she had been out of action for medical reasons, and as such, the session was not going to be a normal session - she left her shirt on but no panties, and when I flipped onto my back, she came to lay next to me on the table, and we kissed a bit but we couldn't get comfortable for the finish.
Then unexpectedly she decided to get up on the table and give me a CBJ...now like I said, the price for our sessions together have not changed at all, and evolved from topless only FBSM to nude MT to climax, to CBJ...is this normal?  Will the sessions potentially continue to escalate?

I only want to ask here because...I'm moving away next month, and she's a pretty chill person, and I'm going to miss our little visits together, and I'm hoping it won't have any effect on her you know?  
Or am I just reading way too much into it, and she's just gotten comfortable with me and is getting away with more fun for herself?

Thanks all

You need to move away and not think about it.  She'll be fine, but you are treading at the edge of territory you should not enter.  You need to have more experience before worrying about her emotions.

As a betting man, I would bet yes.

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and I've experienced same on many occasions.

It's a lot of fun and a great adventure to see where these things can lead to.  I've known one tantra massage gal for over ten years and we are still on a journey of discovery.

Don't give any thought to worrying about the gal.  I'm sure she's a big girl and can take of herself.  It's you you should worry about if anything.  Time to do more research.

I started with a women that way too. She started to rub herself on my leg and I would masturbate her. One time I started to kiss her on her thigh and finally dove in and started full daty. She began with a CBJ and moved after a few sessions to BBBJ.  

We continued this way for a few sessions until one day she was getting herself off on my leg and I asked her if I could 'stick it in.' She asked 'with a condom?' I said, 'of course with a condom.' She whipped one out and we were off to the races.  

I now meet her in her home, not her place of business and we have multi-hour sessions. Oh, I forgot to add, she seems to like anal. I asked once if she liked anal, she said sure and now everytime we meet I spend a fair bit of time in her ass!

So far, no CIM or COF but who knows.  

This process as taken a few years and we do get along well, we have good chemistry.  

Just because she is getting paid doesn't mean she can't enjoy herself. I doubt she would see me if I didn't pay, she's over 20 years younger than me and hot as hell with a smoking body.  

Of course she'll miss you. She'll also miss the money. She'll recover.

For some of us ladies, it's why we seek the 90- 2hr dates... We both don't feel rushed.

I personally rather meet up, and start a friendship with the FBSM.  
Then it leads to the fs/pse.  

Feels great to see someone after the first initial meeting.
For me is this way... the feel of excitement to see that person again.  

 

Everyone is different.

Besos
Viv

And what does she advertise as?

Believe me if you see her long enough there will be the law of diminishing
Returns as she will at some point want to move on.

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We are women first afterall. Not escorts. Women overall are very giving creatures in and outside of this business. It's just part of our nature. Not all, but a good percentage. Enjoy the connection and hopefully if you enjoy her you can fly her to you at some point or you can travel to her. Comfort can come from one hour to an overnight to 10x together depending on your connection. And especially someone who wants to see you over and over again (repeat business for the lady) is a pretty special thing so she's probably even more gracious and connected to you in that sense alone.  

Remember there's a whole sea of beauties here. And any gentleman who chooses to see the same lady over and over again here is a pretty special thing indeed.  

Good luck to you. I wish  you much escalation before you leave  

T.  

("I've fallen for a provider"). Evenworse, you think she is falling for you. Your sessions are getting better because she is more comfortable with you AS A CLIENT. You are also more comfortable with her. You mentioned yourself that you were afraid to do anything on your first session. Nervous clients can make providers nervous too. You being more comfortable probably helps her be more comfortable. Getting to know each other, "clicking," having "chemistry," services getting better, or more intense, is why some guys like repeating with the same lady, and why some develop  "ATFs." All this is totally normal. Thinking she has feelings for you or worrying about "hurting" her when you move away is not normal, and gets into dangerous territory. Just enjoy it while you can, and move away and move on. She certainly will. Do some research and find other providers in your new area.

She'll be fine.

1. Low price clothed massage w maybe hj at the end $60-$80
2. Topless or nude massage with nothing more on menu (the worst since you were expecting more)$120-$180
3. Topless or nude massage with some mutual touching or b2b and kissing or pussy and breast touching $160-$220
4. All of the above with full service. $200 -$400
Based on TER reviews and your own experience it does not take long to figure out where they fall.
Good luck!

Whoa whoa, I think I just didn't word my original post well enough - I've gotten comfortable with her, and it's almost like a friendship you know, once you've had that intimacy and comfort with someone for a period of time, but I'm not reading into things too much.  My real question was in regards to the escalation and if it was typical of some providers.
Thank you for your concern though!

Thank you T, I think that puts things in better perspective for me - I guess it's easy to forget that there is a lot of "customer service" involved in a providers work, and with more pleasant clients, there is more personal motivation to provide better service.

Thanks for the luck

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