If you know it is the last time you would see the person.  
(Big houses does not fit my paycheck.)

No, I am not leaving the forum, I like "erotic humor" and "sports talk" section and jerking off here.  I am leaving the hobby though.  I don't have ATF but I do have good relationship with a few ladies.  So I would like to give them some gifts.

Double my hourly rate lol

that would bring a huge cloud of gloom and despair over our last moments together. of course, this is assuming you have close relationships with these women and that there is some emotional attachment. i would do nothing different during the last visit, except enjoy yourself thoroughly and make sure you have an unforgettably awesome time. then afterward perhaps contact by email saying a formal goodbye.

but again, this is what would work for me, being the sensitive sort that i am.