When I was married several years ago, I needed to do my hobbying in the middle of the day because evenings and weekends were out.

My sex life with the wife was down to next to nothing, but often she would become interested in sex on those nights when I had just done some hobbying that day.

I wonder if some chemical wafting from my body created a desire in her.

In any case, being younger then, I could usually pull off a pretty good performance to allay suspicions, but I doubt I have the stamina for that today.

Has anyone else experienced this?

My SO and I tango 2-3 times a week. And a very high percentage of those times are on days when I've spent a lovely afternoon with a provider. My SO knows that I hobby but I don't believe she knows which days I hobby on, and she does not want to know who I hobby with. She seems content if I reserve my D/S play for her. If I'm coming straight home after being with a lady I do clean up - no sense rubbing her nose in it, as it were. So - what? Pheromones? She smells pussy on me but at a small enough concentration that she does not know it's pussy, but it's arousing? She smells pussy on me and wants to remind me what I've got at home? Re-stake her claim? I'd be interested in hearing from the ladies on this one.....

Often after an outcall as I am on my way home,Not having showered b4 leaving, I notice I smell like sex. It is quite arousing, I love that smell.  I hop in the shower soon as I get home as not to run into my SO. He would know what that smell is. Its not a pussy smell actually just like when its going to snow it smells a certain way, same thing right after sex, it has it's own sweet aroma.
I have been in line at the store or gas station and I do believe others can smell it also. Nothing else smells like sex. I've gotten some interesting smirks from men, I just smile. I don't know maybe I have that "just got laid" look, tossled hair, silly grin, that glow of complete satisfaction. Who knows. maybe the one earing gives me away. I have lost many earings over the years, never to see them again. A hazard of the job I guess. Oh well...another excuse to go shopping. (like I need one)



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when you have that look, that bouquet - especially if we've produced it together.... '

... I got picked up by a fighter pilot groupie at the Officer's Club, taken to her apartment where we had a wild romp.  I had the presence of mind to run through the shower before heading home.  I got in VERY late and, having gotten through the door without waking the sig other up, just laid down on the couch.  About 10 min later she woke up and found me on the sofa.  She wasn't pissed as she conks out very early and had no idea what time I had come home so she led me to bed and proceeded to unexpectedly give me one hell of a BJ.  I'm going nuts as I'm scared she will notice either that i've just showered or still taste the residual pussy down there.  I got off faster than normal and the S.O. commented 'wow... you must have really needed that.'  If she only knew.  Or maybe she did on some level?  
All I know is that being tag-teamed by two women in less than 90 minutes INCREASED my performance.
MVR

Re: Your "just laid look" is one of my fondest memories.

In fact, I just got a woody thinking about it.

Well I think there is some biological reasons for this phenomenon. The mixing of smells during the mating process, leaves the smell of the female on the male.  Other females can smell this (consciously or unconsciously) indicating that male has mated recently. This simulates mating feelings in the female because she now recognizes this male as a good mate because her brain sees him as "high value" because he has mated with other females successfully.

Either that or she's just horny.

it could be a trap....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TMt9XuUG2k8