Last night, I haven't heard from one of my favorites for about a week inspite of my messages.  Then I finally get communication from her that she's homesick, depressed, etc and is way in over her head .. and that she needs 4 benjamins. I say ... well that's a bit on the high side, but I'm gonna see you tomorrow at 1:30 pm. I call her at 1pm to get her hotel info, and she said she's not available until 3 pm. WTF.  I'm so pissed. I said "no, I'll be at work at 3pm". Just venting.  

I called my Plan B lady. Left a voice message. She calls back and she said she checked-out and was on the road to another city. Oh great, thanks and no thanks.

I called my Plan C lady three times. No answer.

I was going to do Plan D and E and F .. but I was already so pissed, I just didn't want to push through anymore.

So, how about you? If your plan A, B, C does not work, are you going to try until you get an available provider?  I don't know. After Plan C didn't work, my mindset wasn't there anymore.  
Guess this wasn't a good day for hobbying at all.

You should dump your plan A. She has too much baggage.  

To answer your question, I am in a city with plenty of AMPS with beautiful drama free providers. Some require little notice or have several to choose from when I am in a pinch.
I also have a few R&T massage places where I can get a great massage and happy ending to ease my stress.

in Philly, enjoy

but I can't think of a valid reason. lol

Anyone got any ideas???

... & striking out. I reach the point of saying enuf's enuf & gone to a strip club for a different kinda fun.

If three plans fall thru, in most cities it will be too late to even hit a massage parlor, unless they have 2am or all-night places, which are rare.

At this point, I'm jerking off. Internet porn is your friend.

b,c,d, etc, but a for agency; one who knows me.

superstitious as I am I interpret it like maybe it didn't happen for a reason. As mentioned earlier internet is your friend. Or a 5 mile run! you feel good after it and you can still look at your 3,4 or 500 and start the joy of planning the next adventure. I wouldn't do a stripclub, that would really kill me if I'm in that mood.

I'd call it quits, you're in the territory of your little head thinking more than your big head.
Most experienced hobbyist have been there, when you're ready to go, and then everything falls apart. It's dangerous territory and it's best to say it's just not going to happen today.

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If Plans A, B and C don't work it's like baseball, 3 strikes, I'm out. There is no sense to push my bad luck any further. Someone smarter than me is telling me it's time to head home before I do something I will regret. I've gone ahead to D a few times (I'm a slow learner, what can I say) and rarely did I have a good time. Today's rule is if you don't connect on the first 3 attempts it's time to pack up the gear and look for a game another day.

3 strikes and you are out. at that point I am giving up. And I know you can go crazy and do something stupid. If I can't get the first one I usually go for the easier to obtain ones for my back up.

three way with Mini and Rosie......

don't think I ever NEEDED to get laid so damn bad I had to go to that many plans!

Fact is I only make plan A.  If something goes wrong, I just skip it and try another day.  Wow, some of you guys need therapy!!!  LMAO

Should have stopped at plan B and went out for a drink at the local bar!  And, I wouldn't call on the favorite in plan A for a Long, Long time...there's always another day, another provider.

I ain't acting out of desperation.

session. But normally, I don't go past Plan B. I'll just cut my losses and hobby another day.

start over on another day.
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OMFG.....  That is so funny... WRONG...  but FUNNY!  *LOL*

I totally agree that if your plans abc not working out call it a day. Last time it happened to me and I pressed my luck...ended up some seriously fat chick shows up to meet me at a motel in Rhode Island - I had to give her a 100 and send her away as she was sooo wrong for the job.
Another time I couldnt get an agency, went with an unknown independent and had a fairly unpleasant experience (giant sggy boobs, provider asking for more money mid session). I say stick with TER (photos, reviews) and make sure that there is one agency that knows you and hopefully you can trust to get the right type of girl for you