Write Review
2,077,373 Total Reviews 3,622 New Reviews
9,027 Users Online

TER General Board

if that's so, you are a rare gem.....
MarkusKetterman 150 Reviews 366 reads
posted

I've not met the lady yet who would not bump a one or two hour date for longer date, an overnight or weekend, regardless of whether she liked the guy. It is a biz, after all.....

domoarigato424 reads

how many times would you let a provider cancel/reschedule on you before you cut your losses and moved on?

ReplyQuoteReport
hiddenhills321 reads

Normaly once, however, I have given some providers a second chance, if they come up with a great reason...........

ReplyQuoteReport
tmtlr27326 reads

I agree that it depends. I will give someone I've never seen one chance (if it's someone I really wanting to meet!).

If it's one of my regulars it might be unlimited if they are all good excuses. We're all human and I've had to cancle twice with two different ladies over the past 2 months.

My biggest problem with cancling is how much time they tell me. If it's very last minute I tend to get really upset. If it's a day advance I don't get upset at all.

ReplyQuoteReport
London Rayne380 reads

Hate to say this but if she does it to the same person more than twice, she either does not want to hurt your feelings or she is just a flake lol. Unless it is some serious medical condition with her or one of her family members, I would not accept it, especially if her rate is a premium. If you are shopping at K-Mart, you really can't expect to get top notch service, so that is your fault if that's the case.

Any girl can spead her legs and open her mouth, but it takes a business woman and a professional to be prompt in showing up, returning emails and calls, and knowing how to conduct herself like a lady in public.

Do more research before taking the plunge.

ReplyQuoteReport
Snownfire257 reads

I usually try to get back in touch with her to find out what happened.

If I can't reach her or she is combative...well that is the end and I move on.

Sometimes they have valid reasons, just like we do, so then I will try again.

There is no one right answer to this here question.

snownfire

ReplyQuoteReport
MarkusKetterman178 reads

Well. If the cancellation comes without some really convincing reason, an expression of remorse or disappointment and / or an offer to make it up to me, I apply a one strike rule, and move on.

But

Two of my favorite regulars canceled our first meeting. One canceled an hour before, but her reason seemed very legit. But both were sweet about it and said the right things to keep my interest. In both of those instances I am very glad that I tried again.

-- Modified on 12/5/2008 4:13:56 PM

ReplyQuoteReport
OCSIR134 reads

It all depends on the circumstances. My ATF canceled our first appointment with a good reason. Damn glad I gave her another chance.

ReplyQuoteReport
domoarigato267 reads

thanks for the replies.  i've had a provider cancel on me three times in three weeks and she wanted to reschedule again.  i think i'm going to move on since i'm somewhat annoyed by the situation and it would probably effect the appointment.

ReplyQuoteReport
MarkusKetterman506 reads

the ladies to think twice about canceling, bumping, NC/NS is if we

adopt a one strike or at most two strike policy

and

let each other know on our board who did what

Most of em don't think they need your business - there's other guys out there. If we want it to change we have to address it proactively...

ReplyQuoteReport
shudaknownbetter545 reads

Dom,
3 X in 3 weeks...  is sure a run of bad luck.  To let it go that long, I'd have to be convinced of a really good reason each time.  
I don't know if I'd have given a third chance...  that depends.  Are you into variety?  Do you prefer to get comfortable with a Fav?  This lady is unreliable.  (Maybe it's her fault, maybe not.)  If I was into variety, maybe I'd chance it.  As I'm into Favs, I'd not.
skb

ReplyQuoteReport
Post Reply Back To Forum
Register Now!