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the guys don't hurt us on purpose .They have to learn how to start off genlty..edited
BetsyWetsy 2139 reads
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Try caressing and see what you can do but ask first or wait for her to ask for more.
You wouldn't want us to grab your penis when you have become too sensitive after coming and spoil your afterglow with nerve wrecking over- stimulation.
I have found that some men are very sensitive after they come and can hardly even protect themselves.They can be weak and vulnerable after an explosive orgasms.
I have taken my revenge on a few after they didn't stop daty after I became too sensitive AND THEY WOULDN'T STOP.. They scream and beg me to stop and they get the point when I grab them and ruin it for them too.They were too sensitive and believe me it is nerve wrecking and even painful for the women.
it is not that easy to just move when you have orgams from DATY and the guy will hold on and keep going until I kick him off-ruining the whole experience.
I put in the info that I left out- hope this clarifies.
Once a guy slapped my ass really hard and I reached around and slapped him across his stomach so hard he hard enormous whelps. I said, " ah, I have hands too"
ok ,I want to end on a nice note and say that many of you guys are absolutely delicious and thanks for your generosity and for letting me come first.

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-- Modified on 1/8/2008 10:35:19 PM

Ok, some may not intentionally, but when you have guys below basically saying shut up and deal with it, then yeah, not good in my books.  I've had guys pinch, nibble, and lick to hard sometimes.  I say ouch and most stop but others insist on it.  Don't get me wrong this is a service we provide but we don't need to be degraded or tortured in the process of trying to please someone.  We are humans and not just some warm piece of meat, contrary to what some believe.
But hey that's just my two cents.

Tasha

BetsyWetsy857 reads

Yes, you are a person and these men need to hear this.
Men in general may feel entitled to do as they please and their wives may not be able to get through to them.
Thank you ,Tasha for your courage.
You are helping the other ladies.

Start gently .Add more pressure when asked.
We should make an instructional video.

Going a little overboard there, aren't ya?

--"make them scream and beg you to stop?" because they continued to DATY after you became "over-sensitive"?
That's ridiculous.

BetsyWetsy539 reads

err  well,they learned. Honey , I'm still their ATF
and I have learned to communicate in other ways.
We were young and inexperienced . You like us young so we are less mature.
Hopefully we all grow and change.

You think it's ok once a woman has an O and is sensitive to continue to lick and suck away AFTER she asked you to stop???  

I don't think so.  Imagine a hand job with no lube, and when the skin starts to tear a bit or get raw, you ask me to stop, maybe grab so lube but I say screw you and keep it going.  Is that fair?  Or am I being insensitive to YOUR body?

Maybe I misunderstood your post but that's what I got from it.  I will most likely get flammed for this post and the above one but hey, this is a National DISCUSSION board and there is an amendment  saying we are entitled to free speech.   So, whatever, bash me, call me names, tell me I'm terrible and provide a bad service, I don't care lol, heard it before I'm sure.

Smooches,
Tasha

BetsyWetsy472 reads

I meant that after repeated requsts for them not to continue DATY after my O I finally did it to them back until they got the point. They came back and now we have even more fun.
I think Zisk was a bit taken aback but he seems to be nice most of the time.What I was trying to convey is that the men want and deserve consideration and so do we.
Some men are harder to train than others.

It came across differently in your original post, but maybe that was just me. And yes, I was taken aback by what you originally posted.

In your initial post there was nothing said about requesting that they quit.  It read like you took your "revenge" simply because they weren't observant or considerate enough to notice that you were no longer enjoying it.  While that would be bad enough, it would hardly merit "revenge".  On the other hand if you ASK a guy to stop and he doesn't, well, he deserves pretty much whatever he gets...


Sooo, why the alias?

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BetsyWetsy352 reads

I would tell you but then I'd have to kill you.
LOL ok not really.
This is a sensitive subject and I do not want to be flamed.
I derived the alias from the fact that I am a prolific squirter when provoked ;)

you seem to be jumping the shark as well

you've nicely defended yourself against comments that no one has yet made regarding your post. That's when people start tossing around the term drama-queen.

But let's review a moment what I wrote in reaction to Betsy. She stated she was out for revenge and took action to make her clients BEG her to stop hurting them. That's is waaaaaay too extreme to someone not putting on the immediate breaks. If it were the bad, ummm, all she has to do is move.

I didn't mean to offend you at all and like I said I may have misunderstood your post.  But this business isn't always nice and not every guy is as nice as the last one or next one.  I am by far not a drama queen if I can help it, and even avoided the post below for this reason.  The reason I made my last comment in the post above was because I have been flammed for stating my opinion before and most likely will again from guys like "notthetruehowardstern" or whatever his name is.  It wasn't directed specifically towards you.  I was responding to your post, yes, but didn't mean for it to come of for just you.  Some guys like Howard don't understand that we do get sensitive.  Our bodies have just as many pressure points and nerve endings as a mans and some need to realize that more often.  I am not looking to argue with anyone or even point fingers, as I have tried that before and it turned into a big train wreck.  I just wish guys were as sensitive to our needs as we are to thiers.  And once again not pointing fingers or saying most guys aren't just generally speaking for the people mainly below that pretty much said, shut up and deal with it, but in fewer words.

BetsyWetsy505 reads

why you were so taken aback.
They were experiencing a horrible tickle that was unpleasant.
Is this also painful because I have not been told this?
It hurts women to be overstimulated after orgasm and we can't always just move.
ok?
I am glad that we are COMMUNICATING.
Tasha was a little defensive because of the negative posts and is not a drama queen. Let's fight fair and just try to understand each other for our common good.
thank you.

your off my list too, sure are lot of man hat'n providers on the board tonite...you & the poledancer, sounds like the same person...might as well be...

I don't think so hun.  You sound like a woman hater though or better yet one of those men that treat a woman like a piece of meat.  Go ahead and take me off your list too lol, you won't hurt my feelings I promise!!!  Why don't you tell us your real alias so I can put you on my do not see list too while we're at it.

AWomanLikeNoOther1183 reads

We don't care too much for you, either.

hears a rasberry

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...I'd expect I'd spend an entire day on each inner thigh...

Three day-long long appointments: left thigh, right thing, and the day you fall in love with me...

Or is that the day I fall in love with me, or you, or...

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