She seems to have no idea about how the world works. She lives in a bubble.

The last thing anyone would think!

First of all, I'm not married.  Second, my ex, my kids and my friends know everything.

I've never told anyone outside of the hobbying community about my hobby, so it has been a non-issue.  If someone did suspect something, they've never said anything to me to raise suspicion.

Although at this point in my life, even if someone in my civvie life were to suspect something, it wouldn't be a big deal ...I 'm not married, no kids, and since I retired early, I don't have an employer to worry about anymore.

Open marriage has its perks.

This is a good question. Just last night, I had a provider leave the used condom and wrapper on my bed. If I wasn't single - I'd be so busted! Most providers "clean up", but there are some who don't. Who should do it?

...they literally don't know thisworld exists.

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If you're careful and do the right thing at home, who'd know? As someone once told me, tell NO ONE in your life. Tell one person and it's not a secret anymore. I never tell anyone in my private life what I do, and it's stayed that way for 15 years.

my grown daughter accepted a fed-ex delivery of Japanese super-thin condoms for me, which, by the way, ended up being way too tight to enjoy, but came with the customs declaration on the box showing that condoms were inside.  Jeez.  Fucking Japanese bastards.

Would you suspect this face of anything?

All this is SO far removed from my "real life" persona that spouse/family/friends would find it utterly implausible.

And she isn't the only one.  It's an "open secret" for me.  My ATF and I are even making plans to have an outcall date to my house when my ex-wife is home...just to rub it in her nose.

I do not think so since I only hobby away from home,  but who really knows!