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no_email 3 Reviews 3023 reads
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Gentelmen & Ladies, What would you do if your daughter told you she wanted to be a prostitute?

Bromios 7 Reviews 1035 reads
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Ok, not really eom.  I'd tell her to charge a lot, stay safe, and go to college anyway.  Just like I'd tell her to if she wanted to be a professional race car driver, astronaut, snowboarder, or anything else risky.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 1311 reads
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scoed 8 Reviews 1238 reads
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But I had a foster daughter, that I love like she is my own, and a son. If ether told me that they wish to be a prostitute, I would teach them how to stay safe and accept the choice. In my mind it is a legitimate choice, not one I would hope they would choose or wish for them, but one I could respect.

ImOkYouSuck 1059 reads
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5 / 39

I cant prove this, but my educated guess would be if we took a survey, and each gal currently in the biz was asked if they would be ok if their own daughter entered the biz, I think the majority answer would be "no". And by a wide margin. And if that's their take, that's good enough for me since they are "in the know".

In addition, it is an illegal activity and I wouldn't give my thumbs up to my own flesh and blood for something illegal. Is that hypocritical? Sure. But we are all hypocrites on something.

Lastly, and most importantly, I would believe her risk to her personal safety would increase. That in and of itself, would be reason enough to oppose.

toofuckingstupid 1200 reads
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6 / 39

ame here. in keeping with the things our parents have done for us on this Memorial weekend, many of our fathers went off to war but would never wish that on their sons. it's called parenting. i would not want my child doing drugs just because i did either, so it's not just prostitution but all the things i have done that were risky, and only by luck am i alive today.  

we generally want our children to surpass us, not always follow in our footsteps. this is not a business for everyone and though you won't see it on the boards, many providers do not like doing this job. for every hot clean guy they see, another disgusting, dirty, pushy one has to be dealt with. unless they are asking for a full body photo, you can't know what's coming to the door.  i would assume there are some things all the screening in the world will not keep away. i would not want my child to even have to deal with one set of nasty balls for money. one is one too many.

maxwell44 23 Reviews 1216 reads
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7 / 39

Tell her that if she really wants to prostitute herself, she should become a politician or a lawyer.  That way she can fuck people all day long and it is completely legal.

Posted By: bigvern
Gentelmen & Ladies, What would you do if your daughter told you she wanted to be a prostitute?

Bromios 7 Reviews 1076 reads
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8 / 39

My jokey response above probably isn't accurate.  I do have a daughter.  I've met a few women working this gig that I'd be fine with her becoming, but I tend to see through my own eyes, where I'm a safe, fairly good looking dude who I know is going to have fun and leave, and I pay top providers a lot for that.  If my sweet little girl was guaranteed a string of dudes like me (and some of the great guys who post regularly) I'd be okay with it.   At least as okay with it as I'd be if she was fucking a bunch of random guys at college, which is to say... Okay.  Just okay.

But -- and I don't really like to think about this -- the reality is probably not that.  This line of work likely is probably going to expose a woman to some horrible stuff.  

So if she was dead-set on it, I'd encourage her to charge a WHOLE lot, be extremely picky about clients, go to college anyway, get it out of her system, and get out of this line of work as soon as possible.  

But i'd try to talk her out of it.

And no matter what, I'd make goddamn sure she never fucks anybody who goes by "Udo" -- though since she's not Asian, I doubt it'd be a problem

HavingFunInOC 1063 reads
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Posted By: maxwell44
Tell her that if she really wants to prostitute herself, she should become a politician or a lawyer.  That way she can fuck people all day long and it is completely legal.  
   
At least as a prostitute, she'd be providing a service to the community.  Politician or lawyer?  Heck, next someone will be suggesting she become a used car sales person.

MyRantAlias 851 reads
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11 / 39

Gets a P411 or RSK or TER acct and ads so she can get some decent clients.
Show her how to screen or get her a mentor like London.
You could probably do this for her and save her the 25-40% an agency or pimp would take.

Or you could tell her no don't do it.

Lovelyelle See my TER Reviews 976 reads
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12 / 39

Posted By: bigvern
Gentelmen & Ladies, What would you do if your daughter told you she wanted to be a prostitute?
Every lady has their own reasons for being here. I love the MONEY, the freedom, the travel, the NSA understanding, and all the other perks that come along with being a Companion. Although I'm not ashamed of what I do, it's not something that I ever want to show up on my resume. I don't give a crap WHAT the reason was, I'm being completely honest when I say that I have no freaking clue what I would do if it were one of my daughters. There is absolutely NOTHING I can say to make my own mother be "content" with my current lifestyle choice (I was NOT forthcoming about it until I just couldn't lie anymore), and she loves and supports me in EVERYTHING I do. I could approach it in a liberal sense and try and predict whatever I wanted to. But, realistically, I'd probably go bat shit crazy.

Just my .0

LovetoDaty 7 Reviews 1040 reads
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13 / 39

I've seen or plan on seeing. We do have a very open and close relationship, she doesn't know that I hobby, but we do talk about boys, sex, and drugs. However, I don't think she would tell me in advance that she would want to be a hooker. If I found out I would have to be supportive. Obviously, as a father, I am very protective of my kids. I would hope she wouldn't choose this career path but if she already did I would try to help her as best I can. Obviously, I would need to "out myself" that I hobby. I would probably see if my daughter would be agreeable to meet my regular and vice versa. At least she may get help getting into this in a safe way working with my regular. I would encourage her to charge a lot, be very selective and careful in screening and to consider this as a temporary profession until she finishes college.

justanillusion 914 reads
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14 / 39

Because you know first hand what a hooker actually might have to go through with some, not all, of her clients

pleasureglans 17 Reviews 1163 reads
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15 / 39

Posted By: toofuckingstupid
 
 same here. in keeping with the things our parents have done for us on this Memorial weekend, many of our fathers went off to war but would never wish that on their sons. it's called parenting. i would not want my child doing drugs just because i did either, so it's not just prostitution but all the things i have done that were risky, and only by luck am i alive today.  
   
 we generally want our children to surpass us, not always follow in our footsteps. this is not a business for everyone and though you won't see it on the boards, many providers do not like doing this job. for every hot clean guy they see, another disgusting, dirty, pushy one has to be dealt with. unless they are asking for a full body photo, you can't know what's coming to the door.  i would assume there are some things all the screening in the world will not keep away. i would not want my child to even have to deal with one set of nasty balls for money. one is one too many.
 
You hit all the right issues here. I would try to talk a child out of any high risk activity, motorcycles being another example. Take all the "moral" questions out of it, it's the safety factor that would have any responsible parent concerned.

kweezy619 4 Reviews 1000 reads
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16 / 39

ask her would she reconsider for a Klondike bar

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 1076 reads
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17 / 39

since I don't have any kids, nor will most likely ever have any as I am single...

But how many parents and kids these days have such open, honest relationships... I mean what are the chances that she would be telling this to one of her friends, let alone a parent...?  How many of you guys tell your male buddies that you see hookers?

Its like asking someone how will they survive if they were stranded on the moon...

-- Modified on 5/27/2013 9:16:22 PM

GaGambler 1009 reads
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18 / 39

Most of them are jealous, some of them are fellow mongers, and those that have a problem with it can "go fuck themselves!!!" lol

but yes I get your point about a young woman "telling all" to her parents.

inicky46 61 Reviews 928 reads
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19 / 39

They are mostly jealous.  One of my buddies refers to me as his hero.  Yes, all my friends are twisted, in a good way.

GaGambler 1056 reads
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21 / 39

A few of my single friends are jealous, mainly because they can't afford to monger like I do, so they feign indifference, but some of my married friends live vicariously through me, and like you, I am their hero.

I will say that while I am very, very open about my whore mongering, the few people that I do keep in the dark are the wives of my married friends. I feel I have the right to do whatever I like with my life, but to admit/brag about my whore mongering would create problems for them at home, and I won't do that to my friends, or their wives for that matter.

inicky46 61 Reviews 1125 reads
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The still love me.  One of my pals has even given his wife a faux hooker stage name.  He calls her "Chloe _____, The Worst Prostitute in the World."  Or, sometimes he calls her "Chloe ____, Dystopian Goddess."  You can't make this shit up.
PS:  And the real Chloe (Carter) knows about this.  She thinks it's funny as shit.

-- Modified on 5/27/2013 9:46:50 PM

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 1020 reads
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23 / 39

and my daughter wanted to do this... I would not be ok with it because I am aware that many ladies have had bad things happen to them. Not all, but most. I would try to be ok with it if she was strong like me and at that point I would make sure she really knows what she is getting into. I would also make sure that if this is what she was going to do, that she went upscale and knew what she was doing. I'd be concerned that she would be doing it for reasons of wanting to be loved (yes some gals are like that).

I enjoy doing this but I am also able to have control of my emotions. It doesn't even have to be about danger... it can be about learning to live 2 different lives and knowing enough to keep your head about you. Some don't think before they do and get themselves in all sorts of trouble by falling in love with everyone they meet.

WondersOfTheWrld 957 reads
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24 / 39

decision to be an escort, and it's not that I don't like a lot of things about being a companion (I really do), but the risk of abuse and murder (both happen more often than we want to admit), being arrested and in general worrying about one's future due to being outed and stigma, I wouldn't want that for the children I might have one day.  

Now if I had a daughter who was adamant about being an escort and disregarded my opinion on her decision to prostitute herself, I'd show her how to keep herself safe and see respectful, rich men only

WondersOfTheWrld 778 reads
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MagicMedic 5 Reviews 878 reads
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26 / 39

I would bet none of these ladies here that say they enjoy what they do, would encourage their daughters to be in this biz, and I absolutely would never want my daughters to be a provider

MagicMedic 5 Reviews 1069 reads
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27 / 39

quite possibly one of the first times I cannot agree with what is going on here.  

To be considered a hero, because you pay for and fuck whores, is just a little more than twisted. If you were able to go out any night of the week and bring a girl home, that might be a different story. Renting a pussy from a shopping channel like TER, would hardly make anyone my hero. Especially to say such a thing on a day we are supposed to honor true hero's, is a little far fetched for me.  

I know that was mostly in jest, but it just struck me the wrong way.

MM

GaGambler 1005 reads
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28 / 39

Or do you think you are "special" and they only enjoy your company, but not the company of their other clients?



MagicMedic 5 Reviews 1073 reads
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29 / 39

that the majority of the ladies here, would prefer to be doing something else than telling old, fat men that they think they are sexy? Or don't you agree that not all of the tricks these women see are ones they would date in their personal lives?

I may not be the best, but I'm fairly certain that I'm not disgusting and I know I don't stink. It would be foolish to think any of these providers has a great time with ALL of the johns they are paid to see. Does it happen? When they see me of course they have a great time, lol

MM

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 954 reads
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The first time you were polite etc, so I saw you. Second time I knew what I was getting into and still saw you because I wanted to, fully aware of what you look like/how you are, Second time means more than first time.

Every lady has her tastes/turn-ons, I like the polite guys who have brains. Animated guys. I don't care about anything else.

You can be a great lay and that doesn't mean anything to me. I am way beyond that.

MagicMedic 5 Reviews 918 reads
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Which is why I asked "don't you agree that not all of the tricks these women see are ones they would date in their personal lives? Not all being the operative words.

I fully understand that there are people that you have seen for pay, you would see in your private life. It has happened to me. Those guys are the exception to the rule not the norm, and I agree with you in that having a good personality, being funny, and confident can go a long way.  

On the flip side, if that "great lay" came back with a full envelope would you see him again even if he was not polite, or animated? Of course you would, because this game is all about the money and as a friend of ours would say "this isn't match.com".

MM

RedheadBombshell See my TER Reviews 1018 reads
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Honey, we're all twisted in one way or another. It's the ones that judge, who have "twisted" themselves to be intolerable and living in complete denial.  Pitiful.  

Between consenting adults? I say, "Twist on!"  
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inicky46 61 Reviews 941 reads
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Well, I think he was using the word "hero" very loosely! LOL!  It's more like a combination of envy and respect because I'm frank about what I do and they would love to be able to do the same thing. Is that better?

Posted By: MagicMedic
quite possibly one of the first times I cannot agree with what is going on here.  
   
 To be considered a hero, because you pay for and fuck whores, is just a little more than twisted. If you were able to go out any night of the week and bring a girl home, that might be a different story. Renting a pussy from a shopping channel like TER, would hardly make anyone my hero. Especially to say such a thing on a day we are supposed to honor true hero's, is a little far fetched for me.  
   
 I know that was mostly in jest, but it just struck me the wrong way.  
   
 MM

MagicMedic 5 Reviews 780 reads
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It caught me off guard, of course that is what they meant. I need a fkin drink.

MM

toofuckingstupid 875 reads
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many of the women here have daughters who are not even 10 yet, so they can't see a grown woman when you say "child." get your head out of your ass more often and buy a clue.

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 879 reads
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It's not about any of us ladies or any of the guys thinking there is anything wrong with this profession...

It's about knowing the risks and not wanting anything horrid happening to our child whom we are to protect and love. It is also knowing that it is not for everyone. Even some of the girls who do this aren't built for doing it (such as the ones who cry in the middle of a session).

Damn right I would give my future daughter hell for wanting to do this, but if she went ahead and did it... I'd be the first to make sure she protects herself so she doesn't have to go through what some of these ladies have had to.

Nothing wrong with the hobby at all and I enjoy it. Never had a bad experience (yet).  

Not a double standard in my book, but about protecting your loved ones.

single47 983 reads
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AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 1117 reads
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was just like me, she would do extremely well in life. You really don't know me huh? That's alright because I am in the process of retiring for my own business in less than 6 mns.  :D Don't cry though because I am like London and will be here to mess with everyone ha ha.  

Again,  I will say, do you not protect your child from the bad shit??? Because based on your arguments with others, you don't. Your whole post to me is why would I give her hell when I know she would be put in danger. That is what you are saying. Re read what I posted. And just for you, re read it again, because I clearly stated that if she just had to do it... I would make sure she is as safe as possible.  

Do you disagree with me about keeping your/my/anyone's daughter safe?????????? Because you are arguing that a child should go through the horrid and any good parent should respect that. Don't tell me that's not how you feel because you have done nothing but argue with every single poster on this.

I write very clearly, (him/her?) what do you not get? I got great respect for the ladies but do you not get that bad stuff happens? I would NEVER want my child to go through what some of the gals went through. Oh fricking god I am repeating myself from prior post. God please teach people to read.

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