I like to send a thank you text after what seemed like a mutually enjoyable session with a provider, which the provider usually responds to in kind.  Every once in a while there is radio silence in response though, which I really find off putting.  

I've only done it three or four times, but I've always gotten a timely, positive, terse, response, e.g., "thank you honey."

out of band communications with clients.

included scheduling another date with her in your "thank you" text, you'll get a response 100% of the time. That's assuming it truly was a mutually enjoyable session.  

Sometimes you get a vibe from the woman that it's not a good idea to contact her afterwards, and that's regardless of whether or not the session went well. On those occasions where I thought it would be well received, I've rolled the dice and sent a message. There have been some who ignored it, and I just let it roll off of me like water off a duck's back. I know I'm not in this game to make lifelong friends nor to establish everlasting relationships, I'm in it to get laid by women who accept my donation to do it.  

That took all of 10 seconds.  
No excuse for not responding except that she doesn't value repeat clients.

Agreed. Some providers respond to a thank you text, some don’t. I wouldn’t dwell on it.

And maybe she receives tons of texts as it is? I think I only text a thank you to my ATF traveling provider who I only see twice a year, otherwise I give thanks during the goodbye as I’m leaving. Not saying her not responding is right, but I don’t think you need to spend any energy on why or feeling some sort of way about it.

...a response unless you're setting up another appointment. Unless you have a SB arrangement with her, non-appointment based texting is superfluous. I actually get annoyed when I receive post-coital texts from providers cause I feel pressure to text back and pretend I want to see her again soon, which may be the case but just as often not.

If you booked through a booker (aka KGirls) or an agency, your text will likely not be read by the provider.  

"After you, my dear Alphonse."
"You first, my dear Gaston."
"After you, my dear Alphonse."
"You first, my dear Gaston."
"After you, my dear Alphonse."
"You first, my dear Gaston."
"After you, my dear Alphonse."
"You first, my dear Gaston."
"After you, my dear Alphonse."
"You first, my dear Gaston."
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to the essence . . . .If you have given her your sincere thank you, no response is necessary  If your "thank you" is just baiting her to see if she will start texting you off the clock, the smart ones will figure that out by the content and tone of YOUR text, and may not take the bait.  Why not just add at the end of your text, "If you don't acknowledge my 'thank you', then I won't come back."  Then it will be more clear to you why she doesn't respond.    Are you also the kind of guy who gives someone a Christmas gift, and then thinks the recipient is rude when they don't give you one?  Like gifts, the joy in compliments and thank you's is in the giving.  

I happen to think that thank you follow ups are just good etiquette - but there are plenty of legitimate reasons why you may not receive one.  The key here is that you enjoyed an exceptional in-person experience. That's a win in my book!

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that I have completely missed a client's "thank you"/follow up text after our date but it's not out of spite or lack of appreciation for their time and patronage. It's purely due to not having my work phone on my person or around me. After an engagement, I'm cleaning up, showering, and getting ready for whatever else I have planned that day. Typically, by the time I see the text and want to respond, it's been a few hours or sometimes a full day. That in mind, I find texting back to be indiscreet so I'll send a "thank you" via email.  

Let the agency know things went well [or not].

...my ATF has texted me her "thank you" text before I'm gone 10 minutes.

I almost always send a text and always get a reply.  I don’t try to start up a conversation, but that often happens and then it makes me really want to see her again.

If I can't answer a text within 15 minutes I will not reply. I never want to cause any friction in a man's personal life and untimely texts can do that for most. I love to hear from gentlemen I have seen and always welcome the just saying hi. Always try to answer myself but if i'm busy that 15 minute reply can timeout quickly. Perhaps this actually could be the reason you are not hearing back.

Yeah, and I'll throw in a "Drive safely" in there cause they're usually leaving at 3-4am from my hotel and we may have had a few.

These are often women who have other jobs, other appointments to get to, a kid at home, traffic to navigate, etc.  And some of them are young and not very business savvy or wary of extended conversations with a client. Or whatever. I just wouldn't read too much into it.

Concerning your answer to the question about thank you messages after a date on the General Discussion Board:

I never would initiate an after-text but one time decided to text an after-text and she left me on read.

completely respectful to your customers' privacy.  Unless you know them well, its impossible to know whether you are texting at a convenient time or not once he has time to drive from your location to any other destination. I have the same respect for providers, and that's why I only text to reply to a contact initiated by the provider.  I never go first.  I prefer to contact via email which we can both check at our leisure when we are alone.  The only time I text is on the day of the appointment, for location, and to announce my arrival awaiting further instructions.

not because I did not have a good time.
In the cases I did not respond right after a thank you text was sent was due to me not seeing the text until time had passed.
Many gents I see are married or I don't know their situation.I do not know if they are at home or somewhere a person can see or hear their phone.
I will however send an email or a P411 msg saying I received their text messages.

...have mentioned this which I think is very smart and thoughtful of you guys, but I'm just surprised that there are still hobbyists that engage regularly with providers haven't taken the plunge in investing in a "burner" phone.

You DONT TEXT providers, since you go through bookers 95% of the time.
You DON'T EMAIL providers, since the bookers don't allow you access.

...as using an app saves on the costs of getting another phone and line and is arguably more "convenient".

Point taken DeClemente, further thank you's can be seen a superfluous to some. On the other hand, if a friend invites me to an event or gives a gift, I likely thank them in person, but it is (or used to be) also polite to send a "thank you" card.

all you needed was a stamp.  Now you have to write out the thank-you card, take a photo of it, scan it, upload it, and send it to the recipient with a polite email, which invites a back and forth email exchange over the ensuing days.  There was a finality from sending a card by mail, which I have grown to appreciate even more lately.  Lol

an enjoyable session, leave an envelope with thank you written on it with some cash and you will probably get a thank you text!

This 100% - I say thank you because i mean it, not to get a response back.

I think the idea is to drown out any noise you and her make during sexy time.   I can understand it, especially if it's her home, but I agree it is annoying.

It's an apartment and people living on many sides and or they have more than one working room.  
This is low level and probably some don't know what I'm saying. But when the areas are separated by sheets...

Yeah, it is not uncommon.  One alternate theory is that as young girls masturbating, they probably also used background noise to cloak their activities and now mentally associated that environment with sexual pleasure.

quite often.
On more than a few occasions I am waiting for a response from a gent or I have sent incall info that he never received.
It is always with guys who are using those app numbers instead of a secondary "hobby: phone.
I recommend a second phone...many places to hide it. Heck put where the spare tire in the trunk or the toolbox in the garage. Guaranteed wife/SO is not looking in either one of those places. lol

I usually respond and I sometimes send one myself. But it has to be right away. So some gals may not see it until later and are unsure if it's ok to send a response at that time.

...if providers go through the same dilemma if the text isn't a post-coital thank you, but rather an appointment request?

This has happened to me  on Civvie dates where the Chemistry has been great.  I appreciate when a lady thanks me, especially after I spend the evening with her, wineing and dining her.  As far as P4P goes, I have reached out a few times, sometime she has replied, other times not.  I never really take it to heart if I have no response.

I use Google Voice heavily and have for a few years now. I have never had an issue with it and certainly never had it display my real number.

I never initiate post-appointment "thank you" texts/emails, but I *answer* them.  Reason being I don't want to act clingy.  However, if a provider shows me goodwill, I respond in kind.  Because (1) it makes me a decent person, and (2) it'll make scheduling easier in the future.  Either way, such texts happened to me only twice in my entire hobby career.

This is what I always thought.  If you guys don't see the message until later, you don't know if it's safe to text back.  The client could be back with their family, and it would be very bad to get a text from the escort he saw hours or days earlier.

send a blue mountain online card

I do exactly the same.. Has only happened to me couple of times in 20 yrs.

I get these once in a while. and it's always a pleasant surprise. Rarely will I initiate a text but I will sometimes send an email of thanks sometimes at the end of the day of the appointment. I have never gotten a negative reaction to that.

I see a provider on a fairly frequent basis and actually enjoy her after visit correspondence , at first I thought it to be hokey , I now realize it to be genuine . I not only intensely enjoy the physical release that we both enjoy but also the conversation about both of our lives .