Yes, a man can be in love and not know it ... then a little shock would bring the realities to the forefront.  

There are a lot of reasons, especially for someone who has been through a lot, want to avoid a romantic bond.

Come on now.....tell me what do you think??

Shaye

Denial is the easiest thing to do. It is right up there with justification.

It is a rare life to live in truth.