Ask her if she does any "private shows" and see what she says. Even better to do it in person, so you can read her body language. Be careful.

Oh Shit!! What the Fuck Just Happened!!! moments with strippers than with any other type of people.  I've heard nothing but bad ending stories about it from others too.  I don't know what it is, but getting involved with strippers just never works out. Be careful and good luck.

asks for your e-mail and follows up, she is not a stripper, but a pro. Nobody gets into this business for just the sex. If she wants more than a dollar in her g-string, she's a pro.

Most strippers dangle the hope of "OTC" in front of you like a carrot to get you to keep coming in and spending money on them.. Emails, cell phone calls and promises mean nothing. Remembering your conversation is part of her job!  If she approaches you and you try to arrange it believe me, it will happen quickly if she is for real. If you keep hearing excuses week after week just move on.

I've seen a few dancers OTC for paid sex and, honestly I've had much better times with the ladies of TER than with the strippers that I have seen OTC with one or two exceptions and those ladies were actually on TER!. Being an escort and being good at it requires a certain mind set. Not the same mind set as being a successful dancer. A good stripper can make as much money as a good escort without ever having to have sex. She may be beautiful and carry on a great conversation but it doesn't mean she can entertain a stranger that she just met in the bedroom.

It's always been puzzling to me why some guys think that looking good in a g-string and 7" heels automatically means a woman would worth paying for sex. It is two entirely different disciplines. Some women are good at one or the other, some are good at both...of course, some are good at neither...

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beneath you and you've inserted tab a into slot b, you won't know whether it's real or a come on to get you to spend more money at the club.  If she's gone as far as to e-mail you I would set a date at a neutral (i.e. safe) site and see what happens.

Like BG and others I too have a dancer I see regularly (in the club).  However, as I have been going to see her less and less because of my hobbying activities.  I have notice my mileage has increased hugely in the VIP room (DFK and her hand down my pants).  So, I asked her, do you see people OTC?  She said no, but that she would make an exception for me (mean she would provide FS OTC).  Of course, I know better than the old - but you're the only one line - lol.

It would be a nice fantasy.  However, there are so many highly rated/reviewed dependable providers I have opted not to follow up with her.  

To me there is a clear distinction between the hobby and strip clubs.  They are like oil and water.  At the end of the day it would probably be better not to mix them together.

I've had it happen a few times...
One gal gave me her cell number and we texted each other on and off for a year or so. She made it clear thet extras were not on the menu; I think she just wanted to keep me copming back.
Another one gave me her email. pretty much the same story.
Another gal gave me her number and started giving serious hints that she provided on the side. I actually took her up on it, but she she charged more than a regular provider and she was FS, but definitely not GFE.
Same thing happened in Vegas. Got propositioned by two ladies at Spearmint Rhino. Little head took over, and so I went for it. Once again, not really worth it. Did not get ripped off or anything, just not GFE and not worth the $. Had a much better time for less $ with a well reviewed provider the night before.
Moral of the story: Some strippers will also provide, but usually you will wind up paying more and getting less than you would with a well reviewed provider. Still, the chase is kind of fun...

...Mrs. L accused her of "being after [me]" under the most ridiculous of circumstances. I figure, since I've already been punished for the crime, I might as well commit it...

That said, I'm not sure my tactic of tipping her $20 to the usual $3-4 is doing any good.

and everytime that are NOT interested.

They want to strip and make a quick buck doing lap dances and such.

They are not escorts..they are strictly strippers.

I know for myself I would never want to be a stripper. I love escorting.

If she shows up, she interested, if she doesn't, well you've got your answer at least.

Many strippers offer pfp services, I do have to agree with the consensus however, you will epsecially over the long run, get a lot more bang for your buck with escorts than strippers.

I've dated many a stripper in my younger(dumber) days, they have been almost without exeption the haighest maintenance women I have ever been with.

One other thing about strippers, forget about being a "nice" guy. Strippers have no respect for nice guys, they make their living by making promises that have no intentions on keeping. Believe it or not, your best bet with a stripper is to be an arrogant asshole, if you can't pull off that persona, you're are much better off with escorts.

it means your about to get pimped for every dollar you have thats why i stick with providers

Thanks All.  It took me awhile to get back to this and I really appreciate the excellent replies.

My guess is that she's up for me spending money on her OTC, but I doubt she's really up for $ex with me OTC; most likely just a long tease.

I am certain that some of her friendliness is all about getting me back to the club to see her and spend my money on her.  She works the day shift and the pay is low and slow for the most part and I'm a day shift visitor.  I'm pretty sure I had met her on a Friday or Saturday night she wouldn't remember even seeing me let alone my name and other details.