ok i screwed up.... deliberately

in the "real world" i do not have a reputation for being aggressive with the ladies unless it is very casual and there is ZERO LTR potential. in fact what i hear is that i have absolutely no clue when a lady is interested in me. (as i get older this is a rarer occurence to be sure!) all of my LTRs in the civy world have bitched and some _still_ complain about how much effort it took to get my attention. thing is it wasn't that i wasn't interested, i just need an invitation on a silver platter if it's looking serious. if it's not serious i'm more casual and easy.......

anyway i've been working too hard lately. (that means i post here too much in mini breaks. LOL!) so i went to a favorite watering hole for a very late dinner and a drink on the way home. i approach the bar and it's starting to get thin. i notice this attractive young thing, very slender nice curves, blond dressed sensually, femininely and cleanly hot, if you get my drift.

(this is NOT a type preference. my _types_ run from Keira Knightley though Dolly Parton, Grace Park and Tyra Banks)

i order. the waitperson chats me up. he asks my status so i bitch about work being too heavy and he asks if i've found a suitable GF yet. (a little drama about a pretty young red head played out in plain view in that bar but that is an old story.) i respond vaguely about being in between.....

ascertaining that i am temporarily single the attractive blond perks up and starts making conversation. several factors lead me to believe that she is a provider.

1) she is too attractive to be alone in a bar on a Friday night.
2) in conversation she is very evasive about her means of support but is also very obvious about having large maintenance requirements
3) she describes _one_ of her abodes in a way that indicates the plumbing is set up for especially kinky water games to be played by 2 or perhaps more

i consider all this. i consider that i have no way of screening her. she has obviously screened me and found me satisfactory. so i decide to pass. i don't focus on her conversationally. (she seems uncomfortable when i respond to the waitstaff and don't ignore them.) eventually she gets tired we exchange first names only and she leaves while i close down the place.

no research possibility.... too much work.... i'll screw up the situation because i'm not going to be led by the little guy.

but if she reads this.... please send a PM! LOL!