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Ideal date
Fridays117 27 Reviews 1997 reads
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I know that everyone has their own tastes/preferences, but maybe we can list a few.

Personally, my ideal date with a provider consists of not only intercourse, BJ and DATY, but a few jokes, personal interactions such a discussions about life, and... everything.  A smoking hot body is great, but a friendly person with a personality takes the cake.  Brains, beauty and skills. Time on the bed is part of it,  call me a woman if you want, but I like to get to know the lady, cuddle and chat.  I don't want it to be "just a transaction".  I'm a guy who while being a monger who hires women for sex, also likes to treat them like he would like to be treated in her shoes.  Is this too sappy?  I'm sure you'll all let me know.

before and after sex as well. Its perfectly OK to seek out women who can handle good conversation and are well versed with current events, sports and arts.  To each is own...

With a relatively hot woman....Not some mouthy lil bitch who gets 3s and 5s from the easiest of the scorers. lol.. I mean I don't totally, blindly trust the review system, but when you see all 3s and 5s, you have to pity the mirror..No? :D

GaGambler707 reads

I know I routinely give Cosette a hard time, but except when she really, really asks for it, even I try not be that harsh.

Putting into a review is one thing, a discussion board isn't supposed to hit "below the belt" This is a bit like bringing real world consequences into a internet discussion, and seems like a bit too much, even for me.

Did something bad happen to the Nats today? That would explain the unusually harsh words.

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I'm also not sure how a "Sweetie did you hit your head" translates into soliciting a harsh reply.  

Cosettes been nice and friendly, well to me at least, so I have no problem with her.  

But then again what girl wouldn't be nice to an awesome guy like me? :D

if that was meant in good humor or ill. Can you clarify whether you were jesting or intending insult?

Cosette541 reads

Luckily for me, numbers and mirrors don't seem to infringe on my ability to provide sex. If it were dependent on being a model type I'd have called it a day already. Numbers and looks are as old a topic as penis size, which I won't comment on yours because the size is evident by the caliber of your insults.

Too far. The name calling that's been permeating around here lately is making my labia shrivel. I dun like.

A comment like that reflects very poorly upon you and serves no good.  Independent of the breach in protocol, the personal attack need not be expressed in this forum.  Show a little dignity.  If a woman who has opinions and the ability to express them isn't your thing, then ignore her

Completely uncalled for. I'm sorry that your life is so fucking sad that you need last out at people like this.

Very natural. It adds mental stimulation and intimacy. Why not get the whole package?

GaGambler732 reads

No, just kidding, Everybody has their own idea of the perfect "date" if that is yours, than that's what you should go for.

I will give you fair warning though, getting too sappy about the women here will earn you a mangina label, but you'll have plenty of company. Just don't go falling in love with every woman who gives you a great GFE and you'll be fine.

I said nothing about Love. I simply try to respect others and treat them kinda like I'd like to be treated if I were them.

GaGambler855 reads

There is no  "right" way to do this, but there are a few wrong ones. lol

I kinda just started it out with MY ideal date, but what are some of yours?
 

Posted By: Fridays117
I know that everyone has their own tastes/preferences, but maybe we can list a few.  
   
 Personally, my ideal date with a provider consists of not only intercourse, BJ and DATY, but a few jokes, personal interactions such a discussions about life, and... everything.  A smoking hot body is great, but a friendly person with a personality takes the cake.  Brains, beauty and skills. Time on the bed is part of it,  call me a woman if you want, but I like to get to know the lady, cuddle and chat.  I don't want it to be "just a transaction".  I'm a guy who while being a monger who hires women for sex, also likes to treat them like he would like to be treated in her shoes.  Is this too sappy?  I'm sure you'll all let me know.

Communication -  I don't like to talk on the phone for no reason. When I shoot email asking for time, I like to receive initial response within 24-48 hrs. Don't pussy foot with me. Give me a straight answer if you are going to meet me or not. I don't like to waste your time, and I dare not waste mine. Future communication needs to be equally professional but more frequent. For e.g. If I have a date at 2:00 P.M, and I send email at 8:00 A.M. confirming of our afternoon date, please don't have me wait two hours for a response. Please respond within 10-15 min that we are set.  With smart phones this is very easy.  

Timeliness- Show up on time. Since I typically only do outcalls to higher end hotels, I am a little relaxed. 15-20 min late is O.K because traffic in DC sucks ass. But please keep good communication through out the course if you are running late.  

Preparedness - Please show up prepared for the session. I've had sessions where women showed w/o condoms. Too bad for both of us. Killed my mood, and they had to go get dress. This is just one example, but can be applied to variety of things.  

Professionalism - Don't talk incessantly during the session. Holding conversation is different than speaking non stop. Please don't gossip about other Johns or Hookers. We don't care. At least I don't.  

Actual Act - Enthusiastic DFK, BBBJ, DATY, and CFS.  

Afterwards - Please get me a wet cloth. Don't make me get out of the bed naked...

Finally - You may leave whenever you want, but at least stay for the time you were hired to stay.  

Everyone's ideal session can be and will be slightly different.

ut of course!!! Who would expect anything less!

Posted By: Courtney.ova
Benjamin Franklin. :D

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When the quote "I pay her to go away" is used frequently. Of course you want this kind of business transaction so no chick shows up at your door when you least expect it. :)

100 % SERIOUS because you asked.  
She arrives ON TIME with a 6 pack of COLD Sam Adams . She opens ONE ( Mine ) and brings it to me while I am on the couch watching TV.
She unzips my pants and starts sucking my dick.
I don't have to ask her to get the remote off the coffee table she already knows this and with dick in mouth she reached for it and hands it to me .
She then positions herself so not to block my view of the TV and proceeds to silently fuck me while I sip my beer .
I blow my load, she opens me another beer and fucking leaves without speaking a damn word .
She is a whore , not my girlfriend and is paid to fuck me and keep her damn vocal chords silent!
Suck my dick and keep do not fucking speak !  
I don't care to hear a whore speak !!!!!
I'd pay about $400 for this dream date.

Why you want to talk (or care) about a prostitutes (aka WHORE / HOOKER ) opinion or anything else baffles me but your paying for her to speak so whatever. ......

Posted By: Fridays117
I kinda just started it out with MY ideal date, but what are some of yours?  
   
   
Posted By: Fridays117
I know that everyone has their own tastes/preferences, but maybe we can list a few.  
     
  Personally, my ideal date with a provider consists of not only intercourse, BJ and DATY, but a few jokes, personal interactions such a discussions about life, and... everything.  A smoking hot body is great, but a friendly person with a personality takes the cake.  Brains, beauty and skills. Time on the bed is part of it,  call me a woman if you want, but I like to get to know the lady, cuddle and chat.  I don't want it to be "just a transaction".  I'm a guy who while being a monger who hires women for sex, also likes to treat them like he would like to be treated in her shoes.  Is this too sappy?  I'm sure you'll all let me know.

Exactly, I'm paying, so that's what I like.  Human interaction.  If I wanted a blow up doll I'd buy one and put robotics in it to blow me.  But to each their own.  Your ideal date is great.  For you.  Thanks for the response.  Everybody's different, so that's cool if it floats your boat and you can find a provider to give it to you, congrats.  I am simply curious about other people's likes and dislikes, men, women.  This was purely a speculative thread to have a discussion we could all relate to.

Is when a girl doesn't charge me for her time lol

These words you don't want to hear while banging away, "Is it in yet".

LMAO

Posted By: Holedriller
These words you don't want to hear while banging away, "Is it in yet".

Which won't happen here.

I like the idea of a weekend room service/fuck fest

As a provider, what is your ideal date with one of us mongrels... Er... mongers, damn spellcheck...

This is one of the many reasons I prefer multi-hour, multi-dates.
Each date builds upon the prior ones, and have a trip planned to a unique boutique hotel, killer dinner, dancing afterwards followed by an amazing evening.  The next morning, brunch at the hotel, and a late check out.  Amazing views, passion, romance, and music.  Nobody says anything about Love, just mutual understanding and respect for what we do and the time we share together.  Each time together, we learn a little more about each other, and that makes the sex so much better.    

It takes a strong individual, not a weak person, to be sensitive and keep things in perspective without loosing one's head in this world.  

Love the hat, CurlyQ.  Thanks.  I wear it with pride.    

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Tonight at midnight (probably more like last call) I will date the wife of a man I don't like very much.

I like fucking other men's wives.

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