I saw a provider a few times and really liked her but her incall was a little messy and when she handed me a towel with makeup on it for my shower I decided I would look elsewhere.

Later, I was with different provider who I saw off and on until she retired and we were talking about different subjects. When I related the above story (without mentioning a name) the provider "one-upped” me by telling me about a friend she worked with for years who wouldn’t even clean herself after her sessions with Hobbyists. In the midst of relating the story she told me her friend's name and it was the same provider I had seen before.

Now, I occasionally see reviews of the provider with the hygiene issue and I have yet to see a bad review. Most reviewers say they will be back.

I grimace each time I read her reviews and am tempted to write the reviewer and say, “Hey, be aware."

So, the question is … Should I write the reviewers or not? What would you do?

-- Modified on 1/24/2007 3:05:09 AM

Many guys don't pick an ATF - so a review may simply be a one-time shot.  Ya know?

I have faith you will do what's right, but it's also a matter of catching those before they visit, ya know?

If she knew she lost you due to bad hygene issues, you're doing her a favor by telling her.

If you were about to eat in a restaurant and saw the cook come out of a toilet stall and then go right into the kitchen without washing, what would you do?

I suspect that at least one of the ladies mentioned doesn't.

Hygiene isn't rocket science, after all.  Writing her privately and saying "Um, you kinda grossed me out" isn't going to make her leap up, slap her forehead, and say, "My God! I've been a filthy slob!  What was I thinking???"

Write a review that is fair about the lady's appearance and the details of the session, but tell about the smudged towel issue and your other suspicions, and say that you won't be returning.  Everyone deserves to know about this, and better that they find out before they've booked a session (or, God forbid, agreed to do a double with her).