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Ok boys and girls I have a question...this topic came up during a conversation.
Hpygolky 233 Reviews 1323 reads
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When a couple recruits a lady to join them, who makes the initial contact to the girl, the "husband or the "wife"? Ladies, who have you noticed who makes the initial contact? Guy, have you made the first contact? Ladies, would you want to hear from the "wife" at anytime to see if there's some understanding like is she actually Bi or just to find out if she's the right person to get a feel of her.?
If it was me I'd have my SO make the call after we have viewed her site and whatever reviews are left. My thinking is that the girl should make the initial contact so that she's comfortable, but that's me.  
And please don't say, "We got on a conference call".
So what does the peanut gallery think?

-- Modified on 5/10/2018 4:40:32 PM

ask your wife how she and her "friend" did it.  

 

 
(Sorry Happy, if you tee it up, I'm going to swing.  Lol)

In two of the cases, my wife wanted to join me and a gal whom I knew very well, so I made the arrangements, and for the most part, things went pretty well.

In the third case, my wife and I were away at a resort, and she came up with the idea of calling an escort to join us, so I grabbed a Yellow Pages which, believe it or not back then, had an escort listings section, made a few calls, and explained what we wanted, and a nice gal came over.   Things went well from that also.

The wife actually called me and set up and chatted with me. We actually met for coffee before the appointment so she could make sure we were comfortable with each other. She was one of the nicest ladies I've ever met.

I don't mind who makes contact as long as everyone is on board!

...that as long as the lady in the pair is happy, everybody's happy.  
So I would think that the wife/gf making the initial contact would be a more reassuring event for the provider than if the guy made the call.

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