I didn't cancel on one because a more desirable one became available.  

I had contacted a well-reviewed provider who's from a city 7 hours away from me, but who was visiting a city 90 minutes away. I didn't hear back from her for a few days, and so contacted another very well-reviewed provider in a city 5 hours away. She replied almost immediately, and I booked with her. (She's actually the more desirable of the two).

A day later, provider #1 contacted me to say we were on for the appointment in the close city. I contacted provider #2 and told her the truth, that a provider I'd already contacted had gotten back to me. It seemed like the right thing to do at the time, but it wasn't. Provider #2 was mad, and rightfully so. I should have told #1 that she waited too long to get back to me. I should add that I gave her two weeks notice on the cancellation.  

There's a certain justice meted out to dolts like me, and it came in the form of provider #1 canceling her tour to the city close to me. She didn't even let me know. I just happened to look at the regional ad forum, and she'd posted that because of insufficient bookings, she was canceling her visit to that city.  

I'm going to try to book with provider #2 sometime, but I think I'll wait until next year and hope she forgot about me and my oafish handling of the situation.

-- Modified on 5/15/2014 10:43:13 AM

nope. I'm a man of my word... Either that or I can't remember when I cancelled. rofl

I don't always cancel last minute,  
but when I do,  I have a very very good reason and usually outside of my control.  

I sure as hell won't cancel last minute for another girl cuz how much better can she possibly look?  I'm already booking girls that are pretty damn hot so I'm not missing out on much if I can't see that other girl.  

Last time I saw a visiting girl whom I always wanted to me,  I did booked both at once and saw them for doubles. It's less personal but still fun

I had to cancel with a lady over the holidays who I had wanted to see for some time and had been anticipating seeing because my Step Mom was sick, in turn I got sick. I would never go see a lady sick. I cancelled 2 days before our scheduled session though so that she could have availability to schedule another client in my place.

Now, I have been cancelled last minute, well ok 45 minutes prior, and this was a provider who reached out to me earlier that to confirm with me. That was aweful, I had already left to drive to her incall and didn't get the message until I arrived at the incall 15 minutes early so as to ensure I wouldn't be late.

so no hard feelings toward you.  We as escorts understand guys cancel.. for all sorts of reasons. and if you just RATHER see someone else.. that is a legitimate reason.  More polite if you don't actually say that too us.  Best if you can give some heads up time.   Like before she  leaves her house and before you have absolutely confirmed for that evening w/ the girl you are cancelling on. Cancelling on her while she is en route would be super shitty.  

and any excuse is fine.  WE already  know you are giving us a bogus excuse.  

but you also might consider:  sometimes the girl you feel won't be the best .... is really great and passing on her is doing yourself a disservice...   but if you gotta have the biggest titties available or it is someone you have a special fondness for....  any girl who gets an attitude.. *sigh*  she has to know it is sooo just part of the bizniz.  

on the reverse.. I have on occasion cancelled on an appointment to take a better appointment.   I think I said I had a headache.. ha ha   *joke*  or my period *joke*...   like I mentioned... your excuse doesn't really matter..  (-:  The unfortunate part about this biz for ladies.. is often there is a big dry run of no biz and then 3 men all want appointments the same day with the same start time... !  what's a girl to do?   (-:

NOT DONE BY GENTLEMEN.

When I make a booking I'm making a commitment. Canceling last minute because someone better came along is bullshit. I won't do that.

Besides, by the time I book an appointment, I'm pretty hungry for the lady. It's a must-do, must-have. If another woman catches my eye, I figure she'll still be available tomorrow.

... And that was for a funeral of a close friend. I gave the young lady 3 days notice and was able to reschedule, albeit two months later because she was providing part time then.  

I would never think of cancelling due to someone more desirable. But I have been NCNSed 3 times... once with absolutely no explanation or apology, the other two times with apologies and attempts to make things right.

Too bad an eleven just contacted me, BLNT.

It's happened to me once while I was touring and it happened with a well known hobbyist.  
He booked me on my tour since his ATF was out of town and I went to the city specifically for him, he ended up texting me 2 hours before our appointment while I was on the road to the incall saying I'm sorry but my ATF is back in town unexpectedly and I won't be able to see you today. Perhaps a better time.  

It doesn't happen often but it does.  

Kudos for the guys that haven't done that but for every one of you there are 6 shit dicks who will.

-- Modified on 5/15/2014 5:02:14 PM

When I travel for biz, I like to sample the wares in other cities. I always advise the lady that I am traveling and will text or call upon take-off and landing. Given the airlines record, I guess I should consider myself lucky that I was so severely delayed only once, that I had to cancel, though was still able to let the provider know 6+ hours in advance (since I was going to the left coast).  

Conversely, I had a well established provider NCNS on me after landing, even though we had confirmed the night before and the morning of my departure. I called when I landed, as usual, but no answer. Drove to the general area she had told me about in her email and tried calling a dozen times over 90 minutes before giving up. Wound up making last minute arrangements that were not as satisfying as I had hoped.  

Ah well...

I've only canceled one time. I was actually on my way to the date when the SO calls and says she's on her way over with lunch. Surprise!!! I immediately pulled over and texted that I was not going to make it. It was about an hour before the time and I felt terrible and tried to reschedule for later in the week to make up for it but got a cold shoulder about it. Thing is, it's the only time I have canceled yet I've been stood up by a provider 4 times in my short hobbying career.

I had a three hour drive to get out to her.

But she insisted I come, so I made the ride although it took two hours longer and nearly a foot of snow fell.  I also nearly got killed slipping on the snow covered ice when I got there.

But it was worth it.

She let me stay over at her hotel for a discounted rate also rather than have to go back at night in the snow.

I'm glad she insisted.

I have had to cancel on a few occasions but it usually has been 3 days or longer before hand.
Each time was because either work or a family issue came up.
I also  have been canceled on three times in last two months, one of those times being last Friday,  
After being in contact with " my friend" on and off all day she cancels right as I am about to leave to meet her, not the first time she has canceled but never like that before.
Excuse ......to long of a trip to just see me !!!!

that things can happen....but at least send her the $ for hotel. Many of us are low volume and don't have several appts in one day and make a reservation ONLY to see YOU. So...that would be very unfair and disrespectful.

of P4P and none were last minute.  To me, the only acceptable reasons are medical (don't want to give her my cold) or logistical--meaning either I have some sort of transportation issue whether it be the trip got cancelled by management or a flight delay when I had scheduled too tight to my expected ETA.

-- Modified on 5/15/2014 9:48:48 PM

I always make sure my Day is Free and Clear when I see a Provider. When I make an appointment I always keep it.

I cancelled once on a provider due to cricumstances beyond my control. Gave her 2 days notice. She wasn't happy, gave me a lot of crap about it. Needless to say took her off my list of those I would like to see.

I wouldn't back out for these reasons.

I have had this misfortune of canceling twice over the last 9 years. One for flight cancellation and the other I was very ill. On both occasions we rescheduled. I have been stood up a number of times in Las Vegas and it feels horrible given the preplanning, references and anticipation. Therefore I take this seriously just like a real date. I realize that a provider  takes time to prepare herself for me and I do the same. My date run  $400-900/hr.....I take this seriously...this is no Sunday school! This is lighthearted yet serious business from both camps.

But it wasn't last minute and she was glad that I didn't bring her my germs.  

especially last minute.  Sometimes providers are coming from out of town just to visit you and then you cancel last minute on them?  I had one provider come over 130 miles one way to see me on a multi-hour visit.  Going home she totaled her car.  Regardless of the benjamins, you don't do that to someone, and that goes in both directions.  I've never had a reviewed TER lady cancel on me except once, and that was a very unusual case that I was glad to get cancelled.  Had some BP girls do NCNS, but that's before I learned to use TER to screen.

I've never cancelled on a provider and wouldn't except for health issues.  With my regular, I have to juggle times or days around some weeks, but we always do that at least a week in advance.