To me, there is nothing like DFK to start a session. How important is kissing to other hobbyists and providers? Is it something you are really into or do you want to get down to the "main event"?
Kissing is something I do with someone I have some feelings for, even if it's just liking a woman. When I meet a provider for the first time, I have no idea if I like her or not. Later in the session? Yeah, by that time I know if I like her.
Body kissing,
Such as on the neck, around the chest/boobies, on the shoulders & back...
How do you get your body relaxed enough to get excited?
How do you let your partner know that you are impassioned?
Are you vocal?
Sorry, I really enjoy making love and playing with my clients. If you can't have fun, what can you have?
a hand on the crotch and some dirty talk will do just fine to get things started.
Oh, I love kissing and touching all of the woman's body.
Kissing, for me, is an expression of emotion and affection. As I said, later in the session kissing is fine (if I'm enjoying things).
As for relaxed, a little time talking calms me down. Impassioned? Once we get rolling I don't think there's any doubt. And, yes, I'm very vocal.
I know it's weird that I'd go for the BJ's and intercourse before kissing. The reverse of "civvie" dating protocol.
I should probably add that I'm accustomed to kissing one woman, and up until recently have only kissed one woman for the better part of 45 years. We kissed passionately, and we had our way of kissing. When I've tried to kiss providers, my way of kissing isn't their way of kissing, and it doesn't go right. I forgot how to kiss women other than my ex.
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LFK is fine, but even better if we progress to DFK as things heat up.
And I totally agree with Amber that kissing should not be limited to just the lips!!! Let those lips and caresses roam unrestrained!!
With a good kisser and a fucking nightmare with a bad one.
So, I am REALLY into it if it's good and if not, I will doing anything and everything to avoid it.
DFK to start a session? - Assuming a GFE session - For me - LFK - a little tongue (not too much) and some just plain kissing on the lips and other places are a really good start progressing onto other things. DFK as a start - just too much - too soon. Depending on session vibe - I also like to linger in order to build tension and excitement before. Sort of like sloowly opening a present..... PSE - not so much....
How important is it? - don't see how you have a GFE session without it... LFK/body kissing an absolute essential. Won't book without that.
Something you are really into? - More about building tension and excitement/foreplay rather than the act itself. That being said - I also book multiple hours so that I don't feel compelled to rush
..for it to feel natural. Novel concept, isn't it?
Kissing is truly an art. Some do it well..and then there is the rest. I think of light french kissing as coaxing a snake; tempt it, invite it. Seduce it from its hiding place -- but don't make any sudden movements! Naturally, the kiss will deepen. Sticking your tongue down someone's mouth first thing to see how far it goes does not seem appealing. Sorry. Not sorry. That first kiss should sizzle.
You know are with a great kisser when you feel like you can kiss each other for hours...
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With a tongue poked right out in your mouth and just wiggling it back and forth. Who the fuck taught them that? Okay I will say some people might like that, but from what I heard it is not a favorite.
I have one guy that is THE worst kisser I have ever experienced. Picture this, partially open your mouth and then stick your tongue out so that about a half inch is visible. That is how he starts off. When he wants to really give it to me, he opens his mouth wide and shoves this giant tongue in my mouth and vigorously wiggles it around. Learned a few tricks to lessen the gross factor.
And yes hes has asked how I like to be kissed and I have told him but he reverts back to his default style and I have given up. I do my best.
My ex was a bad kisser. I felt as if I was kissing a fish....I don't know how else to describe it. I tried teaching him how to kiss me right...but it didn't work.
For me, kissing always sets the tone for the date. If she's a great kisser, I know I'm going to have a good time. If the kissing is awkward, it's probably going to be an awkward time as I like the kissing to continue throughout the entire date.
...start easy, just lips and or LFK. Later DFK. But if no DFK that's fine. Gotta have good kissing though. I agree with a previous poster that going straight to DFK at the door is a little soon. However, if it's a lady I've seen a few times and we click the DFK as soon as the door closes is good.
not that important. But it's fun when it happens.
An important element all though the engagement.
Most of the time i skipped it especially if it is just an hour meeting
Many of the responses have been about kissing, which is important.
So, does kissing always mean DFK? Do some of you even know the difference between passionate kissing and DFK?
I, personally, don't find anything sexy about mouths wide open and a tongue wrestling match. Sorry, that doesn't say " hello ".
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