Its called. Life-is-unfair-but-I-fail-to-realize syndrome..

Yep...it's called a

cancellation.

And you were NEXT on the list.

I see providers that post a week before their arrival. One would think that her expectations of her clients would prebook a week ahead after seeing the ad. Makes sense. Well, most providers allow this time frame of a week after they post their ad to properly book their appointments and screen. And, some do.

In my recent instant, I saw a provider post an ad one week before her arrival. I sent her an e-mail on the first day I saw the ad. This allowed her 7 days to confirm the appointment. 5 days past, she didn't reply. On the day of her arrival, I called and left a message. Nothing. The second day, I sent a text, and got nothing.

Some providers can't properly manage their schedules. Or, they don't practice professionalism as it relates to promptness. No biggie, you was fair to her, but she wasn't with you. You gave her long term notice, but she gave short term notice. I don't think that is respectful practice. Its kinda like you were at the bottom of the barrel, after she saw who she wanted to see.

In instances like these, you really can't blame yourself. You took the proper steps, and she didn't. So, what can one do but to move on.

she is due to arrive for a 3-day visit. Not sure about the rest of the hobbyists in TER land, but I can't change my schedule around on short notice.

I  called my regular lady .. she didn't answer back for hours.  Then, I called her Roommate who also provides and she's available (they both share hotel rooms most of the time).  I set an appointment.  My regular text back that she's now available.   Then, she text me and said "oh, but you set an appointment with my roommate?"  I said 'yeah, cuz I didn't hear from you.  You want me to fuck you or her?  She said "me me me".   Went to hotel room, both ladies were there - I just gave her roommate a tip and fucked her.   Anyway, last time I saw my regular, she had her period and she asked me to fuck her roommate, which I enjoyed very much - hence, the repeat.  I do like both ladies.