If she's supposed to meet you at your outcall and confirmed earlier  the day, how long will you wait before giving up?

After five minutes I will call her if she don't pick up after three times call I will give up.  I some tines blow up her phone just because I mad. Then if she says she coming I will give her another half hour. Then call after 3 plus half hours if no show forget her.

Seriously though:  Call at 15 minutes, then if nothing for another 1/2 hour, split.

I'm gone.

Only happened to me once. I got a hotel for our date, she confirmed earlier in the day, I sent her the hotel info and then she went dark on me. All I got was a relaxing night out with dinner. It sucked.  

I think the answer is as long as you can remain patient. We each have our own limits. I'm very liberal and feel I've been handsomely rewarded by my being patient and not jumping to conclusions  

And while it can be considered unprofessional, which it is IMHO, I also realize that most providers have lives outside of the hobby that might interrupt my lust full interests.

That's a reasonable suggestion, but if I hadn't heard anything (/couldn't make contact) by 15 past I'd likely GTFO...my college courses trained me well in that regard.  *laughs*

Prices will rise

Politicians will philander

And Prostitutes will be late

Even some of the very best that I've seen have been late, albeit they stayed in touch with me and updated me with their arrival or ready time along the way. If you are hung up on punctuality, you'll be disappointed in this world.

I once had a lady call me 25 minutes before our scheduled time and ask if it was ok for her to arrive early, I said sure, and I was so pleasantly surprised as I'd never had a provider arrive early. Well, I still haven't had a provider arrive early, she ended up being 20 minutes late, huh?  

As for how long I'll wait, that depends on if she has stayed in contact with me, and I am fairly certain that she will show up. I can usually be very patient as long as there is contact.

If I hear crickets chirping, then I will give up in a rather short period of time, and I'll never give her a second chance to disrespect me again. Shit happens, but in today's world with the technology available there should be zero reason for her to not keep me in the loop.

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I lose my boner.  Time varies depending on who the provider is and how long since the last time I cleared my pipes.

But there car jacker that will get you.

With no contract telling me she is running late 15 minutes max.

Waiting near her incall with good communication schedule depending up to 30 minutes if there is a good place near to hang out that isn't my truck, 15 if not.

On a outcall with good communication schedule depending, 30 minutes or so.  

Rarely do I have more time allocated to grant to a ladies tartiness. I do not waist a lady's time by being late. I respect her as a person too much and always allow myself extra time for travel. I expect the same in return. Businesses that don't respect my time lose my business. These ladies are running a business.

I usually hobby in a city that's a few hundred miles from home. I leave the morning of the day before our appointment, and usually get to my hotel by 5 or 6 pm. I see the provider the next day around noon.

If she's running late, I can wait, or I can just go back home. Any providers I want to see in that city generally require more than a couple hours notice for an appointment, so booking with someone else that day isn't an option. It seems like a real waste of time to just go back home after all that time and travel, so I'll wait.

I've had my favorite run as long as two hours late. She was always late. I tolerated it for a long time, then finally admitted to myself that she had no respect for me. If she did, she'd be on time. I won't be seeing her any more.

I had a provider over the weekend be half an hour late, but that was because she somehow burned her hair. She let me know right away. I don't know how a woman burns her hair, but it seemed like a legitimate excuse

...so I'll wait until check out time, and no later

I've jumped thru all the verification hurdles required,  now the only thing they have to be is to be punctual, no way.  I'm paying 500+ an hour, and some times more.  And calling me with what ever excuse they have doesn't cut it either, leave earlier, and arrive earlier. ...........

If she has contacted me and said she going to be late then I'll wait a little longer, but usually an hour max because I'm usually too disappointed and too pissed for it to be a good session.

Lack of contact is the worst.  No fun sitting around in a hotel parking lot or nearby waiting... and waiting, and waiting...
Then 30 minutes past the scheduled time, "oh, I am sorry - can you give me another 30 minutes?"
Fortunately the lady I met who did this was fantastic in all other ways, so she made me forget the rocky start

As I walked around in midtown NYC stinging after that from a highly reviewed visiting provider who blew me off in a mid-January cold rain a few years ago, I drove home to NJ  to view an ongoing e-mail chain with  a CA based lady whom I had seen a couple times who lamented that I wouldn't be able to attend an M&G in Vegas the following night and week-end in Vegas.  An hour later...airfare and hotel plans set, I had to take time off the next day at work, but, so what?  That night, I fell asleep with my friend/lover from CA, and the loving far more than made up for the previous night in NYC.  A couple of nights later, on our last night in Sin City on that particular week-end, OMG!  There is something special when you bond with a woman, even if she a provider.