"What were the circumstances for your first time?"

-Curiosity/Experimentation
-Dated for a long time
-Engaged to the person
-Extreme physical attraction
-Had sex with the first person who let me
-Intoxicated (drug and/or alcohol)
-Married to the person
-One night stand
-Rape
-Really cared about/loved the person
-Scared to say no
-Things got out of hand
-Thought it was the thing to do
-Other

MY ANSWER: At a young age, I lost my virginity due to curiosity. I simply wanted to know what sex felt like, and ever since...(I will leave some things to the imagination)!!!

Aliases are welcomed, as this might be a personal question for some.

Xoxo,
Giamarie (lower case "m", no space, one name)

I'm pretty open about my first time. I was playing with a neighborhood boy and my friend who is a girl when we were in our early teens in our community swimming pool. The three of us went to the Sauna and decided to take our clothes off since it was hot. The act of taking our clothes off really ignited a fire within us and it was over..legs everywhere, arms everywhere, the good thing was this boy was older and knew what he was doing and my friend and I loved learning all sorts of things from him as our vacation months continued.

I guess I've always been a playful and inquisitive type of lady and it was such a fun way to experience my first time.

Ah...fond memories!

Sitara Devi

I was 24 I nice street gal in rough area of town I bike 20 miles to the inter city. Meant her on street I walk with her & my bicycle for a mile.  I meant a 3 mugger I got into a fight I did not loose my wallet but did get bloody knee and I got my bicycle stolen. I only had a credit card and a DL on me so since I had no cash she said IF I buy her 2 cartons & 2 packs I also bought both of us pop I we got a hotel room and did the deed. Well there more to story.

please post true story

i am an atypical hobbyist. i am an atypical individual. i am very eccentric and mostly harmless....

i encountered my first when she was on a date with another guy who lived in my college dorm. it was an embarrassing circumstance and she said that she was immediately attracted by the fact i (then) was fairly good looking and confident enough to not give a damn i was embarrassing myself.

it was her last date with the other guy.

she started camping out in the cafeteria waiting for me to appear and sit at my table. once one of her gorgeous gfs did something that was obnoxious and i got pissed off and spoke my mind. as a footnote to the ensuing rant i asked her out on a date.

it was end of term, she went on overseas travel during the summer.

on her return i asked her out again and she and i then lost our virginity.

years later after graduation we married. there was a little drama along the way. she is the mother of my children, the most difficult of my divorces, and still friendly. i posted below how she facilitated my success with spouse 2 in the "boy's night out" thread the details.

I hit a grand slam in my first at-bat.  How many hobbyists meet their ATF in their first foray?  I did, and five years later, over a hundred meetings in four states, the flame burns as bright as ever.  I've done pretty well with the many other ladies I've met as well...

As for my first time ever, that was three days before my 18th BD.  It was a one-time only event after a Rocky Horror show at a house party, but I still remember that evening fondly.  Interesting aside...the babe I played with that night years later dated my kid brother.  That lucky little bastard...he got way more than me!  But all we can do is LOL at this point, and move forward.  

was 17 and lost the bet between her and her friends.  I never knew what the bet was, but taking me into the back room and fucking me were the stakes.  Thank God she didn't welsh on the bet, because I had the time of my life.

I had been brought to the party as a joke by my older cousin, who ended up getting pissed that I got laid that night and he didn't. LOL  Everyone at the party had been pretty much giving me shit all night just for being there until it got out that I had gotten laid - then I was a big hit.  Kind of like a novelty and something to talk about.  Go figure.

I ran into her a few days, but she acted like I didn't exist.  That was the second thing she taught me about life.  I liked the first lesson much better.

I met a nice gal for a date from a personals ad; and you can probably imagine my mind set.

Fortunately, she seemed to like me enough to stay the night and I went at it like the world was going to end the next day.  Five rounds in about 12 hours, not bad and still my personal best.

It was worth the wait.

We dated steadily for about six months before she decided to find a new love (She was only 18, after all.)

We stayed in touch as friends for many years, even getting back together for a month or two here and there, but it was not quite the same.

She even worked as an escort for a while, in an ironic twist.

28 and a half for me. Got dragged to an AMP by a friend. It's one of those things where you know what goes on inside, but until you're faced w/an asian girl, who barely speaks english, asking if you "want boom, boom, boom" and giving the universal sign of the finger thru the closed fist, you just can't truly believe it. Fact is, I was in such shock that not only did I grossly overpay, but I just fucked completely mechanically. Only as we were cleaning up, did I realize I hadn't even really looked at her the whole time. All in all, not the best experience. Oh well. I did become a "regular" for a brief time, and had much better experiences w/some of the other girls.

Oh, you mean when someone else actually participated. That would be my first wife, when we were engaged.

HS girl friend...  both 15...  clumsy.

I was 16, she was a few month shy of 16.

We had dated for a year and had basically planned everything out from birth control down to the weekend her parents were out of town and where we would go for dinner.  We were both very organized, over-achievers so this wasn't really that unusual.

We had slowly progressed from a good-night kiss all the way to mutually completed oral sex, so we knew each other fairly well, physically.  Even so, I had heard enough horror stories about 'first time disasters' that I was a little trepidatious.  Ironically, she seemed more enthusiastic about it than me. Come to think of it, it was mostly her idea!

In the end, it was actually quite nice.  Very fond memory.

We stayed together for quite a while and continue to communicate off and on to this day.  It's been a while, maybe I should give her a call!

... I was in college and had been dating a girl that I've been seeing during the summer.  It all started very innocently: necking, kissing, etc. Progressed further, and eventually we started attempting to have sex.  "Attempt" being the operable word.

I was 21 years old, so was she.  Both of us were virgins, we had absolutely no idea what the hell we were doing.  With that in mind, we both started laughing hysterically.  We eventually "figured things out" and had sex for the rest of the day and night.

I have to admit that I'm a lucky guy. The girl I had my first time with and I are still close friends, and we still talk about that moment. We both talk about how lucky we were that it was a "happy" experience and how we didn't take it all so seriously. Still one of my best experiences ever.

I was 17.  Bunch of us guys from the track team went to a whore house in Kankakee, IL.  The girl made me wear a rubber.  I was done fast.  Humiliating experience.