concierge giving them the "evil eye," but really what is the consequence?  have any of you actually been stopped and questioned by either?  Ladies have any of you been questioned on check-in or out? Detained? I would suspect that the house cleaning staff would be the ones more likely to "turn you in!"

I've seen some really hot ones working the front desk.  But considering the amount of paranoia from most of the guys here I suspect they are afraid of their own shadows as well.

I have stayed literally hundreds of hotels all over the world never has happened.  

The lobby doesn't bother me so much as housekeeping which seems to always be about 1 door away when I get up on the floor

Invite her in...maybe even ditch the hooker.

From time to time there are hotels running stings with local LE. When that is the case, they will already be watching the provider's room, probably using the surveillance cameras in the hall and the elevator. If you end up in that situation, you are fucked, and a confrontation with LE will surely ensue. Keep your mouth shut, get a lawyer and hope for the best.

Very long short story .  
Lobby  Security in Reston ritzy building  stopped me as I was about to enter the elevator , asked  where I was going . I had never been there before .  
   With venom in my eyes  I told him "I am visiting  my ex GF , would you like  me to tell her you are interested" ?
I was surprised he stepped aside without asking what floor or room .  
  I hope he saw me walk in her incall on camera  and back out a minute later .  
 If he saw her follow me into the hallway ,  totally naked , while screaming my name , I bet he  kept the video .
   I wouldn't . There's  a vivid copy in my mind .  
 
   
 

and although I change my outcall location frequently, this one office staff knows and remembers me by my last name..

BTW - Do you still keep in touch with DSK?

I was at the door waiting for her to open it.
3 cleaning people come right up to me.
"Is that your room?" One asks.
"Why?" I say. Stupid answer I know...
"Because I want to clean it!" Now this lady is getting loud with me, and drawing unwanted attention.
"Yea it's my room." Another bad lie. I had no key card, and I just knocked on the door!
I just barked at her. "Go away!" "Come back in an hour." LMAO!
They scurried off thinking they offended a customer. No prob.
I was shitting in my pants though.  Next time I'll just say I'm meeting a friend.

...is to be as warm and personable as possible.  smile confidently, and say "hello, how are you doing?"  DON'T ACT CONSPICUOUS!  averting your eyes and scurrying off to the elevator or the room is just silly.  act like you belong there.  radiate confidence.  it helps!

when it's a smaller hotel, I'm arriving at 3 pm when they only have a few guests checked in, and the only thing in the lobby is the registration desk and desk clerk, the elevators and me...I just try to look like I belong there and go straight to the elevators...hoping all the while the elevators are easy to find...not sure what I'd say if approached by anyone...probably just visiting my sister on whatever floor I was heading to.

Big crowded hotels - keep saying that.

I am hardly an imposing figure, but maybe I just give off the aura of "don't fuck with me" because I guarantee you if hotel security EVER fucked with me over visiting someone in a hotel, I would raise such a scene that either I would be kicked out or the guy would be fired. The guiltier I was, the bigger fuss I would make. lol

Security, like other hotel employees, are there for our benefit and safety, not to fuck with us. While I treat all people with respect, and don't "look down" on people doing their job, I never forget that they are there to aid and assist me, not give me the third degree. Maybe it's the fact that I spend so much time in hotels, like AF I have been in hundreds of hotels in dozens of countries, and NEVER has security or any hotel staff given me the slightest bit of grief.

One of the things I haven't decide to try an out-call in Boston is:
1) I  live in the suburbs so I'd look really suspicious to book a room and have to show my drivers license; I'm sure I'd get that evil eye from a female receptionist or a slight grin form a male receptionist.

to the curb for the night ...lol

I do it simply because it's easier that pulling my DL out of my wallet, but I've never had an issue.

Quit worrying about what the hotel staff thinks about you, people check into hotels to fuck their mistresses all the time, it's not a crime. Except to your wife of course.

I've got an ex hooker GF/fuckbuddy that I see all the time in Atlanta who is almost exactly 30 years younger than me. We check into hotels together all the time, never once has a hotel employee had the balls to say anything out loud. I will admit I do get that "slight grin" from many of the male receptionists.

BTW lot's of times we leave our bags in the car and go upstairs without luggage, which means it's prety obvious we are going up simply to fuck. I still have never had hotel staff say a single word to me, nor do I expect them to ever do so.

It's US Government issued, does not have my address, and most airport hotels know it.  In alot of places, it's like showing my passport.

I have been pushed out by hotel concierge like once or twice.  
It was in a hotel that was in a "hot area" with active LE.
It was when I first started escorting in 2007.
If you are low volume and in an escort-friendly area, you should be fine.

Or in-laws are in town visiting and are staying at your house, & you need to escape. If it's hot outside...the AC in your house is on the fritz. Or your water heater went out & you're staying at a hotel until it gets fixed... there are a ton of excuses if they even ask. Most don't.