Duh, it would seem as if that is an obvious answer being all we can talk about on a fk board is sex, but I feel kind of odd that I am not about all things sexual like the majority of people here. I don't watch porn, don't really masturbate, don't fk guys for free, don't swing/go to strip and swinger's clubs, and really don't work that much as a provider.  

I think about what it would be like to bang you so it is partly your fault I am so depraved lol.

A friend and I were talking and I said to him, "psychiatric studies show that men think about sex every 10 seconds" he looked at me and said "if not more" lol  

My life for certain does not revolve around sex. BUT when I see a beautiful woman who fits exactly what I am after I become pretty consumed with the notion of potentially meeting that person in an encounter. I have learned over the years that the truly outstanding women both in terms of looks and performance I highly regarded and often unavailable unless you know ahead of time when they are coming. Aside from sex throw a fast car in front of me and I most likely would opt to drive the car for 2 hours first then grab the girl I think if we are overly obsessed with anything it is a bad thing balance is important from sex to work etc etc. With that said I am off to go get some porn LOL... JK  

Hell, I'm making up for lost time during two marriages that ended up sexless.  So I spend a fair amount of time planning my next exploits.  If you're serious about having a good experience you need to do your homework.  It's fun anyway, but the result is I've rarely not had a great time.
Of course there's more, but that ain't anybody's business.

Then I'm horny and/or see something that makes me think "I feel like getting laid".   Lets face it, sex is fun, exciting, pleasurable, etc.

and how most of my friends act....I don't feel very sexual at all.

Yes, that's more what I was hinting at, I suppose. Sometimes you think people in our business are just a bunch of animals who will do anything to get off, and that is so rarely the case with those I am close with. Most every provider I know has either a full time job, or is going to school...if not both. They spend time with friends and family in (square) surroundings, none of which have anything to do with sex.  

No, they are a bunch of guys like myself that have wifes that don't want to have sex anymore.   My wife doesnt want to have sex so I'm forced to look outside the box.

You edited your last 3 posts chicken shit, but it did in fact say, "I don't have the time to be on the Top Poster's List" making YOU the one who implied your life was busy. Put the crack pipe down, stop huffing paint, learn proper English, and find something to do with your time rather than worrying about some hooker who is a thousand miles from you, and thinks you're fkin psycho! You asked me both in public and private for my site password, and now you act like this? You are fit for a straight jacket. Remember hon...I am retiring. You OTOH, are still having to keep that faux image up so you can get dumb men to pay you.  Might want to be careful lol. Your clients are reading this.

A picture is worth a thousand words:

If we're talking about the pursuit of peak life experiences, the kind where you feel the most present and alive...well, you can narrow those down to "sex" (in its various permutations) and "near-death" experiences: anything that gets you in touch with your animal instincts and mortality. So yeah, sex is awesome and hugely important, and anyone who has never had good sex is absolutely missing out. Does my life revolve around it? No! You already answered it - this is a fuck board; do you really want to see a bunch of threads about paper mache and cooking and water skiing, etc.?

Too many other priorities, but If I were in a position to revolve my life around sex I probably would.

LOL, once again, I mean your life when you are NOT on TER and us. Do you spend coutless hours masturbating, watching porn, going to swinger's clubs, and actually having sex, or is the hobby how you get that desire filled? Yes, I am bored, but I see I have a new mouse to fk with. I wish it had more sense though, because she is not much of a challenge.

I speak my mind, i don't make assumptions and i will dare not call you names.

BLOWN! Your unedited post will be back soon so everyone can see what you originally posted, you fkin nut job. Stay away from me, or you will regret it. I do not take kindly to crazy bitches like YOU!

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Sorry i voiced my opinion without an intention to hurt your feelings. I thought it was a silly question not stupid just silly.  

London, if you're really curious for your survey, I'm not really a "hobbyist" in the sense that I spend all my free time and money on this. Honestly, I'm actually pretty much like you. I hobby no more often than you provide and I only see high-end providers for extended dates. I treat it more like the best kind of mini-vacation for when I'm feeling stressed or otherwise need a break from the day-to-day grind.  

I can't wait for an old favorite game called Thief to come out in March next year.  I hope the new installment is as cool as the first one on the old Xbox.  Until then, I will be busy with the new Assassins Creed and Madden football.
 
When my eyes are about to fall out of their sockets from all the gaming, then I may just get back to painting the rest of my house......Adult responsibilities, who needs them.  

I did not think it needed to be spelled out in fkin code for some people, but I digress lol. I will put you in my book ha ha.

I suspect you may quit doing your current work in that context...but to retire from staying active is not good for the soul.

Which I have pointed out myself. The majority of the posts on the GD board, seldom have anything to do with sex, let alone sexuality. Other than sex being the underlying factor, of discussion.

Seriously, if you write that book, I will be first in line to read it. Although, you better not go all FarrahGFE and only dwell on the ass end of the biz.

no the question is not silly for those who understand what the fk I meant by it lol. I spelled it out countless times, but you are still too DUMB to get it. How is asking if everyone here has a life that revolves around sex, silly? The answers VARIED meaning it was up for discussion. Damn, this is giving me a headache, you are so ignorant.  Some people are SEX ADDICTS! Some people are NOT. Why don't you post some stimulating discussion, Zoe, or can you even type out a whole two paragraphs by yourself without fkin up the grammar lol.  Obviously, YOU are not that bright and more obvious that someone else does your ad content. That's pretty sad. The next time you want to have a battle of wits, arm yourself with more intellect than a damn rock, ok? You know exactly what you posted, and you edited BOTH of those posts. Other people saw them. I am bored with you now.

Yeah, "retire" is a bad word; I will be financially independent (can't fking wait!). No, I will not be watching tv and playing golf all day. The big plan is to traverse the globe on motorbike once the kids are off to college - ladies, I may be in need of a companion for that!

No. I have a lot of other things going on in my life. My business. My hobbies.

Good Luck and Good bye  

Do you realize how you look, you think by calling me names, making assumptions and conclusions is making you a STAR..  

I'll bet that after some time you'll get the itch to get back in the game.  It's a VERY different game however when you don't care about generating any real money.

I am DONE LONDON RAYNE..  

I would pay big $$$ to do a double with you two! No fighting allowed...

Now you are talking my language. I play online with internet friends. You would never guess it but the talk there can be more sexually graphic than here. lol  Let me know if you ever want a good game Wonderboy.  

I called you names because you are a chickenshit bitch who posted a bunch of insults then went back and REMOVED them after I handed you your ass. I do not just start shit with people for no reason, nor did I have to pull my posts like you did to make them sound all nice after you realized how NUTS they made you look.  Please...go put some more time into that fake image you so desperately try to pull off lol. NO ONE is bying it, which is why you can't stand any female posting except for you. Thank Gawd you did not claim to be educated, because that's the joke of the century. You're hot...that's about it. Sadly, that will fade and without some smarts, you will forever be havig to suck d*ck to get any man to take care of you.  No wonder you're so crazy. See ya.

Lets me know when...

Dammit! And I had a grand scheme planned too.

This would be a fucking blast

I'm very err. Ecsentric. (Did I spell that right?)
I go from extreme to extreme in lots of things.
Bouncing from obsession to obsession.

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The spider and praying mantis are not the only creatures to eat and spit out their own.  

I just started in this hobby.. 4weeks ago and I have had nine visits with 4 seperate ladies.. making up for a lot of lost time with the wife saying leave me alone.. and me waiting for a change of heart (12 years at least.. but who's counting).. since starting yes.. 100%.. I paid bills this weekend and reality set in.. gotta slow down a bit.. so I did see one ATF or at least all month favorite and I scheduled a  2 week visit.. so now I wait for the two weeks to pass.. every day I think of calling someone.. (new).. and because I have something scheduled.. I stop and tell myself to wait.. but in the meantime I count the seconds.. so yes.. That's all I think about now..

But the spin rate varies. There are days when it is on my mind off and on (usually at work). When I am active in one of my other hobbies or with family I don't have that focus on sex or the hobby.  
I will watch porn a few times a week, but I don't go to sex clubs. If I am bar hopping then sex is always on my mind. So I guess that means that sex is on my mind most of the time.

If she wants to try and be a woman, she needs to let her insults stand vs. pulling them like a scared alley cat, but that's what hooktards do. She's the one still trying to get business as a provider...not me lol. This little exchange won't hurt me one bit, but I bet it has already hurt her.

Gold star for you and your answer lol. I will use 'stupid' code for my next post. Would not want to leave anyone out and all.

Thank you for your honesty....a varying opinion, and further proof this was intended to be a serious discussion. Sorry about the drama newbie.

But yeah. Posting and then editing comments to make someone's response look out of line is not cool. It is a pain in the ass, but quoting the reply saves the original wording.

No comment on editing..

Well, I do know my four letter words, don't I lol. Thanks for the response...makes perfect sense. I am more obsessed with my TER buddies than with sex..that's obvous. Do I have a problem? Hey, maybe so, but as long as nothing in my life is suffering as a result of this, then I am not hurting anyone. I certainly do not post on here whilst with family....ever. I do not even take emails durig that time.

You are more adjusted in the head than most.  
Just be careful you don't start asking girls to spit your cum back into your mouth.

I understand when the guys get frustrated. That the SO won't put out for what ever reason.

Wouldn't want you to break a nail...and this will get you to China faster.

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...and spend time with family. I have so far spent nearly every Sat since Sept at my college football games. I participate on a message board dedicated to it. I spend a lot of time at my local sports bar. I am a man though so sex is on my mind at times. Usually when I see an attractive lady while I'm at work or whatever. The sex thoughts do go up when I'm planning a visit with my latest favorite. No my life doesn't revolve around sex or sexual things.

So to stay on point here....I guess I don't think about sex 24/7/365  ;

She insisted on showing me some power tools

You do know that she moonlights at Wal-Mart don't you?

I don't understand Zoe?
I'm being honest. I'm trying to help.
I don't lie... Ever.
I didn't read your thread with London.
Why are you so pissed?
I don't look at your profile when you post.
I still haven't.  
I don't care.

household to maintain, kids to look after, friends I hang out with; a complete life. Never been to a Swingers club, haven't been to a strip club in years and generally don't watch porn. This is just a fun break from real life, whether posting on the boards or paying 4 play.

Bullshit like this could never happen then.  Things were a lot better when the volunteer mods ran the place.  They knew much more about the way things work in this world than the current Admin.

This is her second appearance.  Last time she wanted advice on how to set up a threesome with a hooker for her lawyer boyfriend.  Oh, did the shit fly then.
So Zoe's back for a second time.  Counting all your other handles, how many does this re-appearance make for you?

I  don't think about sex every 10 seconds.  But, that's only because I'm not done with the last time I thought about it to start again in only 10.  I like to take my time and warm up the object of my imaginary tryst.  How else will she have multiple Os?   No, it's more like every 25-30 seconds for me.

Just like in a marriage, sex isn't what it's ALL about. It's a part of life, a part of marriage, (or unrightfully not, unless due to illness,) and part of our days/weeks/months.

CoD Ghosts is out. And new Fable. Aww shits about to go down. Haha. But my life revolves around sleep, sex, books videogames and work .  

In terms of "Nature" and survival of the species we'd have been extinct eons ago if men weren't constantly seeking sex.
With a nine month gestation, frightening death rates from child birth, infant mortality, very long maturing process, vulnerability to disease, little natural defence from weather and other animals, and warring against our own species the odds were not all in our favor.  

but the edited version would go to moderator for approval, even if you were in unmoderated status

I have edited my own posts from time to time...and they go up immediately.

Yes, now they go up immediately, unless the post has been randomly chosen to be moderated, but back when LP and GaG were moderators of the boards, any edited post would go in moderators queue.