Wondered if this has ever happened to you and if it did...what did you do. A good 20 years ago I had one of my first experiences in the hobby. The lady was 18, very attractive, a complete nymphomaniac and a great deal of fun. I had one of the best times of my life. I had so much fun, that a few weeks later I emailed her for another session and never heard from her. I found out later, that she moved to a new city, took a different job, and essentially disappeared off the radar. Not sure why she moved away and left. Maybe she had a bad experience, or maybe she just decided to take a different path. Hard to know. Anyway, within the past year I was in a business meeting with a client and a woman walks into the room. I get introduced to her and I have this nagging feeling I have met her before. So I ask her if we met previously at another company, or a party somewhere. She says she doesnt think so. Throughout the meeting I keep thinking I know her. And then I remember the girl from 20 years ago. This woman in front of me is about 40...so it could be her but enough time has passed that maybe she just has a striking resemblance to the girl of long ago. I debated whether to bring up the idea that we met 20 years ago to see if it would bring any memories back since I couldnt be 100% sure it was her. Anyway, I have seen her in meetings a few times....she is single, (found that out from a coworker) and she is really attractive. Should I just drop it?
WTF is wrong with people today? Why the heck would you bring up? Is she still a hooker? No.. She is in civvie life..
Tells me that after writing 45 reviews, you haven't learned SHIT about this business...and how it works..
Get a new hobby. I encourage hunting !!!
He is just a crusty old meanie.
Definitely, you should find out about this very attractive woman you have met in a business setting. Just get her alone and ask her, "hey, aren't you the whore I fucked twenty years ago?" I'm sure the happy memories will come flooding in for her and she will just melt into your arms and blow you for a hundred bucks. Or, call the cops. It's a coin flip, really.
Let us know how it turns out!
I would drop a benjie on the floor and see if she dives for it.
Definitely, you should find out about this very attractive woman you have met in a business setting. Just get her alone and ask her, "hey, aren't you the whore I fucked twenty years ago?" I'm sure the happy memories will come flooding in for her and she will just melt into your arms and blow you for a hundred bucks. Or, call the cops. It's a coin flip, really.
Let us know how it turns out!
Definitely, you should find out about this very attractive woman you have met in a business setting. Just get her alone and ask her, "hey, aren't you the whore I fucked twenty years ago?" I'm sure the happy memories will come flooding in for her and she will just melt into your arms and blow you for a hundred bucks. Or, call the cops. It's a coin flip, really.
Let us know how it turns out!
LMAO...yep, sound advice here lol.
It's actually true in the context of what she would be thinking though. Her first thought would likely be, "OH crap...I slept with this guy as a hooker years ago. What if he tells someone at the company? Now, I am going to have to fk him for free so he keeps his mouth shut!"
It is not a good situation for her. She used this business to get somewhere else in life, and I can bet she wants nothing to do with her former life, nor does she want to be reminded of it. Don't do that to her!
It's actually true in the context of what she would be thinking though. Her first thought would likely be, "OH crap...I slept with this guy as a hooker years ago. What if he tells someone at the company? Now, I am going to have to fk him for free so he keeps his mouth shut!"
It is not a good situation for her. She used this business to get somewhere else in life, and I can bet she wants nothing to do with her former life, nor does she want to be reminded of it. Don't do that to her!
To say anything is stupid. You know that.
What if you are wrong?
That's a sexual harassment lawsuit waiting to happen!
Nothing good can come of this.
your coworker,
Should he/she try and schedule with you or just drop it?
How would YOU like it if she sidled up to you and said at the table or in the business meeting, "Oh yeah, I remember you...you were that John I slept with back when I was trying to make a living as a hooker."
Should he/she try and schedule with you or just drop it?
for reasons that are none of our business but could include workling their way through school. Providers leave the business all the time, for reasons that are none of our business, but might include deciding that the business was not for her (no harm, no foul... it's best to be honest with oneself) or moving to a new chapter in her life.
It is not discreet to "recognize" a provider you may be aquainted with, should you meet her in a non-hobby setting. It is often discussed here to avoid any recognition beyond what would pass between amiable strangers.
It is doubly inappropriate to in any way shape or form, to bring up her past, if she is indeed a former provider. You may smile to your self & remember fond memories... but keep it totally to yourself.
DROP IT!!
Ask her for a BBBJ she might still need the money. Just kidding. Say NOTHING and let it GO !!! She sounds like she is in the right place and direction. Let it go!!!
yeah I did consider that....but realized I was too good so that couldnt possibly be it!
LOL! I was out of college and had been working for a decade in 1993.
Hi London, long time!
Heh...whos stalking who, now?
a man can never forget " good pussy"..the rest..not so much...
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Even remember you and could be embarrassed b/c you know her secret. So leaving it in the past would bebe the kmndest thing to do. That should be "kindest thing".
Talk about small world!
Why would / should any of us think the gal would remember any specific "client"after that many years? Just sayin' ??!!
some ladies don't remember names but remember faces.
he remembered her and I'm sure she's not the only prostitute he saw back then.
you may say well she had more sex than him so it's easy for him to remember and not. maybe, but she could have seen a few clients and thought it wasn't for her. then retired, so she didn't have much volume and would remember a face...anything is possible. i was just throwing a thought out there. take it or leave it
But leave that provider discussion shit out of it. Unless you are totally fucking stupid.
That maybe you just really weren't that good... Just a thought.
You have no right fuck up someone else's life. Would you do the same to one of your ex-girlfriend? May be you don't have any hence, your question.
If it is not the same woman she may think you are a stalker type if you continue to question a past meeting. If you divulge it was a hobby related meeting that probably would not be the impression you would want to make with someone at your place of business.
Also keep in mind that she may resemble the original lady because she could be a relative. Don't take the chance of outing someone to a relative.
Move on and ask her out if you want to spend more time with her but leave the past in the past.
You had email 20 years ago? And she did as well?