I like it to hurt some.lol
manhood?
Do you pick a taller girl hoping she can accommodate you?
Do you wish you could meet someone who likes it when it hurts at first?
I am not "King Sized" so I don't have a problem hurting someone.
b-
Big woman, big pussy, little woman, all pussy. This is pretty good way to size up the issue, but one can never know for sure. Most providers are frugal when it comes to the larger size condoms so carry your own if this fits your situation. So now that this is out of the way, some relish size and others don't. Today's would-be courtesan is more into the cash than your pleasure so first do research to find someone compatible with your girth. You can't do anything about your size, but you can ask so that she knows the beast is coming over. I am likely in the middle of pack of guys with larger than average cocks so I get the comments, but I've only experienced one session where my size overwhelmed the provider.
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Mine is notable more for thickness than length, so I have had some "problems." For the most part the ladies who've commented have been pleased, though. It just means that we have to go a little slower getting started. Two providers have actually told me that my cock made them feel better because it showed they hadn't gotten too "stretched" by their work.
There's a guy that's been emailing me for a few months now wanting a date. He probably has no clue that the reason I haven't gotten back in touch is because of the email address he is emailing me from, which is something to the effect of [email protected]. Sorry, but I'm too petite for all that. And if you do see me, chances are it will be your one and only time. (Sorry to all the guys with the big schlongs!)
Girth takes a long time to get used to.
This darn cat of mine always shrinks back up again.
Gotta use lots of lube and reapply often.
Both matter to me. If it's too long, it's going to hit my cervix, and that hurts! There are ways to help with this- certain positions (for instance, anything that brings my knees closer to my stomach) make the length of the vagina to the cervix shorter and so those positions hurt more than others. Being on top lets me be in control of how far it's going in.
Girth matters, too. If you're too large, no amount of lube is going to solve the issue. My vagina only wants to stretch so far (and yeah, a baby has come through it before. It didn't like that, either). This is what happens to me when a man has too much girth: My lips are swollen and locked tight around his penis. Each time he pushes in, my lips are pushed in some and when he pulls out they are stretched back out. This results in more swelling which ends up hurting really quickly. After sex, my pussy stays swollen and it hurts to try to have sex again.
(Damn, I'm trying to find pictures to help explain what I'm talking about, but I keep getting side tracked by all the pretty lips...)
I had a boyfriend once who was enormous, length and width. It was a long-distance relationship, but I couldn't really see it ever lasting too long because of his size. Having sex with him once had my pussy very swollen for at least the next full day and the next time we'd go to have sex, it just hurt too much.
Relaxation for both is definitely a factor, but if your just too big for my vagina, no amount of relaxation is going to fix it.
Now- this all assumes that you're going to be pounding away for quite awhile. If it's just a quickie, then being a little too big can be a plus, but it's got to be a quick quickie. If you're going to go any longer than, say ten minutes, I'm probably going to be canceling whatever else I have that day.
Well this is really just a rough guess, so 7-8 inches? (I'm really not sure how to estimate girth, but that's a factor too.)
that's big but not enormous.
gee, what am I saying.
It's pretty darn big but I have seen quite a few.
I guess over 8 x over 6 girth is really big.. and I love 'em all!!
But it will feel really good when I stop...
I don't understand.
I would be more than happy to send them all your way!
And some guys wonder why they can't talk a girl into booking with them ... [email protected], Why didn't he go with [email protected]. What a douche.
Every guy secretly wishes his nickname was something like "Schlong" or "Freddy Forearm" or something like that.
Now I understand why my college girl friends always called me "NDTBF".
(Needle Dick The Bug F**ker)
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because of my size. Girth is my issue, and though I know it's not the thickest, it gets rock hard. I'm roughly 5 3/4" around, and more of an oval shape. So, I think it even feels wider.
I know one girl was way more comfortable when I put it in sideways. Another one out third date just stopped, told me I didn't have to pay and told me why. Guess she made it though a couple times but didn't want it to become a regular thing. I had no idea it was hurting her. A couple other girls loved it while inside, but it killed them for a few days after, too sore to work. So, won't be seeing them again.
Then there are others. The ones that want the coke can. I always try to ask at some point in communication if they like a thicker cock or not. That way, hopefully I can avoid someone who won't enjoy it with me.
Now if the custom condoms will hurry up and start being made again, i'll be golden.
I have seen the biggest cocks around and these will work.
and although anything large work, they are suffocating. The Female condom is a good solution, but, i still prefer the theyfit brand.
the measurements are on the website
this site is the one i first looked at.
http://www.ripnroll.com/Durex-xxl-large.htm
and this one i looked at.
http://www.ripnroll.com/Large.htm
either way, 2" width on a penis that is nearly 3" wide and rock hard, not semi hard, does not feel good. only the custom sized ones really feel good.
give me a break shane diesels the porn actors dick is reportedly 10.5" by 7" and he can fit a condom the only difference between magnums and magnum xls is a half in in length
tip: have the provider use a female condom vs the XL magnum...it should solve the problem of your size being HUGE and the raincoat not fitting. I use these a lot!
I like 'em big. My ex had a HUMONGOUS cock, so I'm used to it.
I couldn't do it daily but I'd accomodate your coke can. lol.
Katie
dudes got an effin' football in his pants man.
But she was fine for cowgirl where she could control depth and pressure.
Mostly though no one has ever said anything- I am gentle and sensitive to my partner.
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I had one request no missionary because she was small and tight- but she was okay in cowgirl where she could control the depth and pressure.
Otherwise, I've had comments but never complaints as I am gentle and sensitive to my date's needs.
I would think that if my weener was a one-eyed anaconda, 2 things would happen. First, I'd have noticed and secondly, someone else would have commented by now.
I took the comment to be pure bullshit, and honestly the session wasn't great on any level anyway. Another lady that I know quite well told me that it's "quite average, and that's a good thing". I still haven't fully recovered from that, but I know that it's true and that she meant it in a nice way.
Yeah, I think that's the go-to move if they aren't enjoying themselves..oh it's hurting me, we have to stop...you're too big. I mean I'm average myself, The only time I give them a pass if they are EXTREMELY petite and short, then I might buy that it's truth, I think some also think it boosts are egos, it personally annoys me because I know my cock is average. telling me I'm huge and if i were to believe it , would be dellusion.
-M
The poor gal was laughing so hard when I "unleashed" mr. happy that she got a tummy ache...
...which is OK since I'm not really into that, but I pretend to be hurt anyway.
mine is as my name applys 9" x 6" , big but not huge i get a lot f complaints that their jaw hurts after a bj,i find if you do a good atempt at daty your going to have less problems. as far as height and size of women it has nothing to do with there physical size some of the most petite
women take it no problem, i am white and i have been with over a hundred latinas, they complain
or comment the most about it hurting in general.
compared to other races