. . . in a BFE he would take out the trash after a session, like I have done.

And offer to trim the hedges, if you catch my drift. LOL

That would be a session that reminds me of the very best aspects of a r/l date.

Some good conversation, wherein we discover shared interests in music, or art, or literature. Some sparks when we look at each other, or brush against each other.

From there, we segue into a hot make out session - tongues twining, hands roaming, neck nibbling, fingers brushing, body part rubbing, dampness inducing... all of the really, really good stuff. Enough of it so that we're both just incapable of waiting or delaying for one more moment.

A tumble into bed, where we both take our time bringing each other to the brink. Hopefully, we both see Gods and Fireworks.

More conversation, a glass of wine, chocolate fed to each other... round two if time allows. Passionate kisses goodbye, and fond memories of each other.

I know it's been good if I'm left thinking 'Wow, I hope he calls again.'

Well, that's what *I* consider to be one, anyways.

Morgan

wow, i am with morgan, thats what i hope a bfe is,
does stuff like that happen in real life??

Strangely enough, I've had better 'BFE's as a working girl than I have in so-called 'real life'. I think a lot of it has to do with it being easier to maintain the fantasy level and excitement pitch when you only see each other every other week, versus every single day.

Of course, once again, that might just be me. I've been accused on more than one occasion of 'f*cking like  a guy'.

Morgan

BFE 4hr Tantric Session:
Dinner @ In/Out Burger, 1hr
Movie w/popcorn, 2hr
Travel time, 1/2 hr
Intimate time, 20min
Nap, 10min

ahhhhhhhh, what a great session, lol...

A gentleman who remembers what I say. I love it when guys get me things I mentioned on my website or just in passing.
A guy who remembers I said I was teaching a dance class earlier that day and massages my feet when I see him.
A gentleman who gets a card for me on our anniversary.

And FYI, my perfect BFE would be too busy licking my clit to cuddle. LOL

After he pops, he rolls over and takes a nap!!  At least that's what I do, although I don't get many dates...

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to be vanica's perfect bfe.

My BFE training is very vigorous, exhausting and requires endurance.

Are you up to the challenge?

Vanica, I'll sign up for your training!

After reading the replies, I have come to realize I must be confused. I always thought BFE was when he makes me sleep in the wet spot, and fluffs the covers in my direction after he asks me to pull his finger. Hmmm who knew??

Kidding

a TIT, a tongue in training, can't wait for my first oral exam.

Here's one with my ATF now retired. And it didn't happen on the first date.

I was away on business and arranged for an overnighter. She met me at a very upscale hotel in their fine dining restaraunt elegantly dressed. She was seated at the bar sipping on sparkling water when I arrived.

We were seated for dinner at a nice table looking out on a courtyard. We ordered a great bottle of pinot noir, good conversation,and we shared each others entrees. We both love creme brulee and we split one for desert.

After dinner, we walked to my room at an inn not far away. I gave her some jewelry I bought for her as we sipped on a half bottle of champagne. She excused herself to get more comfortable and called me into the bedroom. I quickly freshened up and brought our wine glasses into the bedroom. Kissing led to oral pleasures of each other and she became very aroused telling me that she needed me inside her "right now". She mounted me CG and we both rode waves of ecstacy until we climaxed together. She said it was the most intense orgasm she ever experienced.

Some cuddling, talking, teasing led to another round and we fell asleep in each others arms. We celebrated sunrise, showered, and she left after breakfast. That was my all time GFE and I'm sure it was a BFE for her. Sadly, after being injured in a car accident my ATF is retired.

hmmm...just treating him for whatever period of time we have together, like he is "my" man. overnights are best for this sort of thing.

i might prepare a nice meal for us, give him a nice massage, bathe him, all the while being very relaxed, affectionate, talkative, tender. people who request a BFE usually have an interest in truly getting to know you, beyond the physical, so i am open and share that part of myself with them freely.

He would get nekkid, except for his whitely tighties, then proceed to geek out, in front of the computer for hours.  My clit just tingles thinking about it!