Re: arrangement sought and found

I was a hobbyist for seven years and a serial adulterer for most of my married life.  I always found that sex with a provider improved with familiarity and the building of some kind of relationship other than just the sharing of horizontal bliss.  

I tried and failed a couple of times to interest providers I knew fairly well in becoming a travelling companion and exclusive courtesan, (at least I would treat the relationship exclusively).  

A little over a year ago, I spent an evening with a well reviewed, part time escort in a city to which I travel often, who was about my age and we developed an immediate rapport.  She spent a few days in Las Vegas with me a couple of months after our first date so we could both try out me being her benefactor and her being a travelling companion.  (It seems that the moniker of Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby don't fit with people the same age).

Well, this woman is fantastic.  She has a good professional job and our relationship seems to comprise all of the intimacy she needs in her life and that is the case with mine.  (I am in a sexless marriage).  We have been together parts of 34 days this year in five different states.  She spends all of her paid time off from work on our togetherness and I spend all my former hobby budget benefacting her.  

Unless we travel in Georgia, what we are doing is legal.  We have long been fluid bonded, so what we are doing is physically healthy.  And, best of all, we appeal to each other as REAL people over the whole spectrum of a satisfying interpersonal relationship.

For several years was seeking something that I was never going to find by hobbying.  I found it in what most would call an "arrangement".  I call it a pivotal element in my happy life.

And not one of them knew I was a provider. It's a GREAT tool for me