Ladies, can you explain this one to me?

Understandably, you want assurances that the guy you're seeing is safe, clean, not an asshole, etc.  Some of the ladies I've communicated with have indicated that referrals on sites like TER, DATE-CHECK, P411, etc. are a very useful indicator to them in their screening.  All cool so far.

I've been trying to see more independent ladies recently for a number of reasons, one of which is to try to collect a few referrals to improve my screening and booking experience.  I've had a very difficult time encouraging my dates to do referrals on one or more of these sites, and these are ladies that already have profiles on the sites and who use those sites for screening, and these requests are for sessions that have gone very well.

Can anybody explain why a number of these ladies won't take the initiative to click the mouse a couple of times for the client when they rely on their fellow providers to contribute to the community knowledge about that client?  I just don't get it...

Do you do online (TER / DATE-CHECK / P411) referrals?  If not, is it because you find it's too much bother?  Or is there some other reason you don't do online referrals yet still have an expectation of using them in your screening process?  Thanks!

I will never type get a free trial without the gentleman's permission. I think every lady has their own reasons why they have not done this for you. Being a reference is a big deal and ladies have to take responsibilities to heart if you are going to be a new member and they say your fine. This is what holds me back if I have seen a gentleman once and they want me to introduce them as a new member. Some ladies just want some free top spot ad for this but I will pass unless I know the man much better.

Try to see a lady a few times and then ask so she has time to get to know you.

Kisses Haley

I am happy to give a gentleman my referral if I have had a good experience with him and didn't get creepy vibes. I also encourage guys that I've seen who do not have memberships to Date-Check, p411 etc.. to join, and I am happy to help...Just like reviews help us providers, referrals help out the gentlemen...

-Val

oops!

I do ask for some additional basic information that is not included in your profile and I always contact the ladies who have vouched or okay'd you on the site recently. They are great tools but, should not be a ladies only method of screening.