Providers:

Goofball! Where you advertise does not make you better than the next, though some seem to be deluded into thinking it does. Yes, certain advertising venues have a bad reputation for rip offs and bait and switch, but assuming those same women can't advertise on ANY site, is very naive.  

Just curious  LOL

I'm sure there is the stratification you mention.  Certainly there is among categories of sex workers like strippers, dommes and providers.  And definitely many TER girls look down on BP girls.  Then there are the really high-end UTRs who only see the highest of high-rollers.  It's like the rest of life, far too many people need to have someone to look down on.
As a male player in this game I don't look down on anyone for the choices they make and frequently rail against those who judge the behavior and preferences of others, as if there was only one way to swing.  I only judge those who prey on the underage or force themselves on others in non-consensual or coerced sex of any kind.
The only ones I look down on are jerks who don't know how to play this game right, get burned and then whine about it.  Them, and their female counterparts who manipulate and out guys simply for a bad review.  But they are easy to avoid.

A UTR provider might have an account on here but not have it linked to any profile. Also, I'm sure UTR providers lurk here without posting (and obviously wouldn't answer).  

As a hobbyist, I've had providers, from a variety of price points, VIP's, UTR, EROS,BP, RS2K, P411, etc.... and I've been doing this for a while.   I've had great times with most of the Ladies albeit there have been a few that...... were not that good.
That being said, I do not feel a sense of Superiority based on the type of women I see.
Not every provider out there is for me, so I need to look around and see who fits.

What is a Bad man, but a good Man's job.

Hey...whatever lets them look in the mirror without slitting their wrists lol. Many guys will ONLY see the highest priced provider in whatever town they visit, so if you're the only HDH in that area, you have your niche market. It's not because that person is any better or prettier than the next, but the egos of some men are what makes them that money. I've seen in time and again.  

I agree with you 100%, London. And many guys have a taste for McDonald's cheeseburgers. Why should they pay for an extra $1000 worth of marketing?

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there is and always will be stratification in this hobby..from the $100 BP girl to the 2k porn star and everything in between..i make it a point to try and sample them all..you can only quantify stratification when you see every level of it..

I weight every girl on her merits. There are many BP providers who will do things that some high end providers won't. I shop in my price range. Would I like to see some high end providers or porn stars....sure. Would it make me feel superior....hell no, it would make me feel lucky

All individuals are unique, and the pleasure (or lack thereof) I take from each are a result of that individual's interaction with me.

The rest is fog.

And.... They're all back.

Look in the mirror without slitting their wrists...wow, let's hope not.
Sorry, off subject, just sayin.

You're going to have stratification in any group.  It's human nature.

After so many years fucking around with P4P I doubt I haven't seen every "type" of hooker imaginable.

Highly defensive hooker ?                Never met one in person .
Humongous derriere hooker ?          Never booked one on purpose .
Habitually dizzy hooker ?                 My favorite .
Her Divine Holiness ?                      True GFE , loves her ass kissed .

I do have some regular or repeat client whom will actually mention they don't like me usin be if and when I occasionally do. They l say or mention not to go back to usin bp.
However . The one thing I like about no is ok you get dressed get ready , post and calls come in you take one .  
On here it's great but it's not really when you want to or instantaneous appt. it s like a slow trickle of random calls thru week ore booked way in advance dates. I can't post on here avl. Now. And get an appt procured in an hour if in. Mood and dead set on doin an appt say within few hours.  
I think no is good for if you just decide you want an appt at that time.  
And again waitin til your in mood to work or need to work whichever then attempting to email bak all the inquiries that have rolled in in past two months lookin to book who, you still haven't had time to book.  
That's always time consuming and like tryn to find. Needle in a haystack.  
Chances are none them will be av
 When you randomly decide at three I after noon you d love an appt n need some cash.
One thing I did like about the bp was I d just post do calls, shut phone off, now I get a boat load of inquiries and have to emAil them back whe. I am ready n by then schedules aren't linin up.
I think Bo is simply a good for getn apps when your in the mood or immediately, as opposed to all the call. People back bookin scheduling chaos. I don't know, if that'll make sense to you. Butt

Huh?

You may have to charge less but they ate less demanding , the more you raise the erases Ann's higher you go the more you have. To do, I at one point was charging seven fifty and doin two hour min only, but I had to back it up and be ready to do Greek pse and a lot more hard core stuff to maintain ands get the crowd, me personally I dolntt know what any one else's experience is, I notice on bp yes you may have to ask for two fifty hour but they are all low,ain't enemy's and don't expect a lot and are like ten min little to no energy dates, I don't make any more now than the Bp days it all balance out, for example I did a session for five Hun sun afternoon, but would I ever have had time or energy to do another after god no, or even today for that matter I couldn't, maybe I make more now per guest but the anti is raise d and I am doing a hell lot more, duck I plowed that guys ass with my strap on with his heavy legs pinned like bunny ears behind his head til my hips were gonna snap off,, xoxox
Those bp guys who pay two fifty and hour also don't stay more than ten min they don't even stick around to talk, thee guys whom review on here wanna get the full hour no breaks , then try n stay to talk,  
It's all averages out maybe the bp way you gotta see three guys and. Work total of forty min altogether to get the seven fifty. On here any one I did a seven fifty session with it was the same amount of work
The point I was tryn to get across of my opinion of bp vs here was just that it all balances out the same to me at end of day so I don't feel. I am any higher or lower usin a high end site vs bp. For me I make the same in either area so for mew I don't look at one or other as higher end or above the other

You took the words right out of my mouth lol.

What I am thinkn, oh well. Tryn to say the guys in bp I notice yes they paid more but they were low maintenance too sometime, they don't have enough for seven fifty hour pse, but they also aren't lookin for that n don't require much energy.

I have to say that I have never felt a sense of superiority- only a sense of increased safety and security (rightly or wrongly).  

By quagmire, I mean a moral quagmire from the point of view of the non-hobbying world.

those who, in spite of being here and part of this, still feel that they are doing something wrong or dirty may try to make themselves feel better by distancing themselves from others via charging higher rates or being willing to pay them?

Sarah, you and I are on the same page.  I believe that some people solve the moral dilemma of participating in P4P by viewing themselves as superior to others.

You totally got it. That's the short to the point summary. Thank you

we all do the same thing at different price points. Personally I don't feel superior at all. I do feel for those ladies who, for what ever reason, end up seeing men who disrespect them, that can come at any price.