A few weeks ago while I was visiting Chicago I came to the realization that I was a little tired of more or less vanilla encounters, even with the great ladies of TER.  My usual "date" is pretty high end and I should probably say that I enjoy these immensely.  However, every once in a while I get in the mood for a little variety.  In Chicago I scratched that itch in the form of a BDSM session with a real dom.  It was a lot of fun.  Reviewed her on here.

On the train on the way back downtown I got to thinking.  If this gets repetitive for me, what must it be like for the ladies?  Is it fun for you when someone wants something different or is it off putting?  Does it depend on whether or not you know the guy?

Just curious.  Also, would love to hear if other guys have gone off the map in this way too.

Kind of a halloweenish topic, right?

I find that there is a lot of interesting variation with the tried and true menu items with different gals.

Maybe its my age or??? I don't know...Never was interested in things like that nor am I interested in things other than what would be considered traditional intimacy. I have read that there is a fine line between pleasure and pain however, for me I would rather avoid the pain and just go with the pleasure.