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scoed 8 Reviews 227 reads
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As long as he is ready to accept "NO" and risk what he has with her. She may not want to be saved, my wife doesn't but some ladies really want out. I gave my former ATF her out. She no longer provides and our relationship is completely platonic friendship now. If he wishes to test the waters for more he should ask. He just needs to be prepared for the big "NO" and that it will change things between them, and as likely as not end thing between them.

SavingYou0071333 reads

I have come to the conclusion that i'am not a safe hobbyist. I was going about my day when I started to think about my ATF. Then the unspeakable occured where I would dare think to push the relationship further and hopefully save her from the world of being a provider. =O

I'am sad to inform the gentlemen of TER that I have failed you and could not be strong till the end.

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Crock_Of_Shitt308 reads

Kill youself.  Please do it now, before this contagion spreads.

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steve1brock252 reads

How did she react to it?

Posted By: SavingYou007
I have come to the conclusion that i'am not a safe hobbyist. I was going about my day when I started to think about my ATF. Then the unspeakable occured where I would dare think to push the relationship further and hopefully save her from the world of being a provider. =O

I'am sad to inform the gentlemen of TER that I have failed you and could not be strong till the end.

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SavingYou007221 reads

I haven't done anything yet, but i was on the virge of asking her the "serious" question

Posted By: steve1brock
How did she react to it?
Posted By: SavingYou007
I have come to the conclusion that i'am not a safe hobbyist. I was going about my day when I started to think about my ATF. Then the unspeakable occured where I would dare think to push the relationship further and hopefully save her from the world of being a provider. =O

I'am sad to inform the gentlemen of TER that I have failed you and could not be strong till the end.

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swimtrekr234 reads

DON'T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Def not a good idea.  How do you know she needs, or wants, someone to save her from the provider world?  You're making a very big assumption there.

Swim

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OSP216 reads

I don't see a problem with his asking as long as he can accept a NO.

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scoed228 reads

As long as he is ready to accept "NO" and risk what he has with her. She may not want to be saved, my wife doesn't but some ladies really want out. I gave my former ATF her out. She no longer provides and our relationship is completely platonic friendship now. If he wishes to test the waters for more he should ask. He just needs to be prepared for the big "NO" and that it will change things between them, and as likely as not end thing between them.

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SavingYou007184 reads

I never assumed she wants to be saved, I determined in my own little world that I shall save her.... but then reality set in and of course I told myself "It ain't going to happen"

Posted By: swimtrekr
DON'T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Def not a good idea.  How do you know she needs, or wants, someone to save her from the provider world?  You're making a very big assumption there.

Swim

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MegaMillionLotteryWinner230 reads

Then I realized I would go broke trying to save her.

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JamesDeenXXX192 reads

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