Seeking arrangements is a total clusterfuck..you've got 18 to 25 YO's with no idea about the world mixed in with whores mixed in wt delusional MILF's wanting $10K to $20K PER MONTH just because they are good looking and old enough to be somewhat believable to be with a guy that can pay it.

Other than to complain about the women who charge more than you can afford despite what you think they are worth?

Well they see articles on the internet of how some random college student gets 10k a month with no pics of the girl and they are enticed to ask for the same thing. After that fifty shades movie a lot more signed up, now its i think 10 sb to 1 sd. Its likely that when you message a girl there its her first request shes gotten, so their concept of the market price will be a bit off. Its better to not ask them and have them ask you instead so you will have the negotiating advantage. Its better to go for the ones that are active and at least a few months on the site. Also if price is an issue stay away from richer than cresus cities like New york and LA and aim for small nevergonnagetadecentjobcollege towns.  

to figure out what you are doing............other than venting.  Is there a point hidden in somewhere in your post?  Providers can only ask what the market will bear.  After enough hobbyists are willing to pay it........their price is set........but NOT written in stone.  

a hooker?  What is the "alternative?"

just for the reason you state....they just don't get it...If I were a guy with enough money to be a sugar daddy, trust me, I will be interviewing THEM..not the other way around....tons of sweet looking young ladies out there....guys with REAL cash...not so many.

I will grant that any woman who wants cash in exchange for sexual services with a guy she would  not fuck for free is a hooker."

I think he is saying (and correct me if I am wrong) that hiring a hooker is MUCH easier than dealing with a sugar baby, not that hookers cost too much.

If a "hooker" is someone who gets paid to have sex with someone who she would not otherwise have sex with........what do you call someone who gets paid to have sex with someone they WOULD otherwise be willing to have sex with.......but of course, it is her profession........so she gets paid, anyway?

Swimming in the cesspool that is SA is actually exactly how I realized that I really should just become an escort. It's everything I loved about arrangements, and none of the bullshit. I still get taken out on amazing dates, meet incredible gentlemen, and make great money.  But what I DON'T have to deal with is the awkward negotiations, the endless back and forth emails with people too scared to actually meet, and the expectation of (usually one-sided) monogamy, among other garbage.  

than you for the translation.

But why would they when they can get paid?

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Hate to burst your bubble on that one h+t

hat would be my idea of an old fashioned courtesan, but I'm sure many here would take exception